There's this line of thought in BP communities that anything requiring effort to get women means you are inkwell. I understand that the apex of attraction, the only thing really all that worth having, works that way, but not all ways of getting pull do. You got a big dick? You got to run a different game to get laid. So true, you aren't a chad that will have women groveling at your feet in the bar, but what happens to that Chad when she pulls his boxers down and there's a little 4 incher staring at her? She laughs and leaves.
Women absolutely will go for dick, but the way to get that "out there" so woman can pick up on it is done differently. Big dick incels (not impossible mind you) just want to larp here to feel like they are a part of something and to brag. It's all vanity.
Similar story with me except with charts and pictures. Thankfully we never had a fucking dildo to humiliate us in person. And it's presented as "average." Yeah average for what women want which is only the largest 20% like everything else.