Brutal, mang
Absolutely fucking brutal
The ONLY difference between you and him is that he was lucky and was born attractive.
Being born attractive gave him the confidence to socialize, so he improved his social skills, made friends, made a social circle. Because he was good looking, he was treated well and with respect.
In the social circle he likely found his girlfriend, or someone else introduced him to her. And being attractive and having so much sex, they probably wanted to try something new, so they ask a female friend of theirs if she wanted to join them.
And this guy is in such a much better position mental health wise. Having a healthy sex life improves your physical and mental fitness. It's what you need for a normal development. But even attractive men can't always get 3somes. So of course he has a huge confidence boost, which further makes him more likely to socialize, better at socializing, more developed social skills, much more charisma.
It's a snowballing effect.
For us, it's the literal opposite. We were born ugly, so we were treated poorly. We were bullied, so we never socialized because we didn't want to be hurt. We coped with video games and movies, we spent our lives in our rooms so that we don't get hurt. So we have no social skills, no social circle to help us with a woman, no confidence, poor mental and physical health.
A person my age (30) now has like 15 years worth of socializing experience. Like 15 years worth of sexual experience. Meanwhile, I am a KHHV with literal 0 experience, with no friends. It's absolutely fucking.
It makes my blood boil when IT and others like them IGNORE EVERYTHING WE SAY, ALL OUR LIFE EXPERIENCES, and say some meaningless dumb shit like ''just be confident bro, just go talk to her''. It's easy for you when you aren't ugly and you have 15 years of more experience than me, you fucking retard. Fuck off with garbage 'advice'