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RageFuel I heard my co-workers saying that I do not know how to work with women

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Fucking hell, what the fuck does that mean?? Seriously I do not have the slightest idea, I always treated the foids of work with respect, I never did anything for them, if one of them asked me something I would answer, if I need to know something I would ask, I say good morning to them early in the day and I say until tomorrow In the end of the day, I'm polite to them, when they say something stupid to the team I pretend to have found it funny and I absolutely do not try to flirt with them, I'm a profesional, I don't care for emotive realtionships with coworkers and they are more than 10 years older than me, are all married with children, so I absolutely do not have the least interest in this, but somehow I do not know how to work with women, wtf??!
 
Probably just because you're ugly
 
Similar to my treatment throughout HS, just excuses to not work with the losers who no one wants to be around.
 
You're just ugly bro, it happens to the best of us kek
 
If they take a dislike to you -- because you're "creepy", ugly, too personable, not personable enough, make jokes, don't make jokes, work too hard, don't work hard enough, etc., etc. -- then it will stay that way whatever you do and anything you do will become another "reason".

A few weeks ago this old foid coworker of mine who I thought I had a good relationship took me aside to tell me that I have offended her in the past or some shit, including by not asking for her help with work enough??? I asked if she could give examples so I can not offend her in future and she didn't or couldn't give any. She said other people had said I was mean to her but didn't say who said this was or when they said it. All she said is that her husband said I sound like an asshole. Very significant that her husband would agree with her, his wife, rather than me, a guy he is never met, about an unspecified incident she is recounting to him...

In my team of 20 people there are only 4 straight men and it gets to me sometimes. My boss is a woman but she is like a giga-highT 6'1 superbeast who barely even counts as female so that's not too bad. Offices, especially ones inhabited largely by women, are not places for men tbh.

Even worse is that I'm starting to get a crush on this one chick I work with (first step to being a oneitis faggot jfl) and I also matched on Tinder accidentally with this 2/10 hispanofoid at my work :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
If they take a dislike to you -- because you're "creepy", ugly, too personable, not personable enough, make jokes, don't make jokes, work too hard, don't work hard enough, etc., etc. -- then it will stay that way whatever you do and anything you do will become another "reason".
This is really true, it has been this way all my life, doesn't matter how I act what I do it just became a reason to people dislike me, but it makes me really mad! Why? Because I'm polite, I am nice with everyone there and this is not me, I'm not nice, but I gota be to continue working there and being someone you are not is too tiring, but it still not enough it never will be enough,FUCK!
 
This is really true, it has been this way all my life, doesn't matter how I act what I do it just became a reason to people dislike me, but it makes me really mad! Why? Because I'm polite, I am nice with everyone there and this is not me, I'm not nice, but I gota be to continue working there and being someone you are not is too tiring, but it still not enough it never will be enough,FUCK!
IKTF bro. I think my plan is to move around to a few different jobs before I find one I like. I would like to find something working from home. If I weren't a LowT, nophysicalcoordinationcel I would learn a trade or something.
 
You unattractiveness makes them uncomfortable, and being pretend nice to them makes them think you're into them. Foids constantly scheme to get undesirable men fired. I've noticed if you show no emotion and act indifferent towards women you'll get more respect.
 
Only Chad knows how to “work” with women.
 
women are stupid fucking whores that shouldnt even work
 
I'm sorry... I'll graduate in 4 years and this is my biggest fear. I'm worried they won't hire me because of my face.
 
It means they are office gossips looking to stir up shit.

You could just go right up and ask them.
 
You unattractiveness makes them uncomfortable, and being pretend nice to them makes them think you're into them. Foids constantly scheme to get undesirable men fired. I've noticed if you show no emotion and act indifferent towards women you'll get more respect.
I wont be nice anymore, I was only like that because I though this would help me keep my job, but I'm seeing that this doesn't matter, they all want me gone anyway, just because I'm ugly, so I won't waste my energy on this, I'm really bad in reading social cues, so I'm already very careful in how I treat people, but only this already make me tired at least I will not have this weight on my shoulders
 
I wont be nice anymore, I was only like that because I though this would help me keep my job, but I'm seeing that this doesn't matter, they all want me gone anyway, just because I'm ugly, so I won't waste my energy on this, I'm really bad in reading social cues, so I'm already very careful in how I treat people, but only this already make me tired at least I will not have this weight on my shoulders
Just go to work and focus on doing your job, fuck everyone else. I used to be way more miserable at work when I tried to be a people pleaser. People always assume the quiet polite guy is just a weak asskisser since we live in a country full of loud degenerates.
 
Just go to work and focus on doing your job, fuck everyone else. I used to be way more miserable at work when I tried to be a people pleaser. People always assume the quiet polite guy is just a weak asskisser since we live in a country full of loud degenerates.
 
Just go to work and focus on doing your job, fuck everyone else. I used to be way more miserable at work when I tried to be a people pleaser. People always assume the quiet polite guy is just a weak asskisser since we live in a country full of loud degenerates.
I will try but the problem is I'm on a internship, I need to have this people sympathy or I will certainly be fired, but there is no sympathy for a ugly face, I wish I had all the experience of old guy that worked there he was so fucking smart and experienced programing in java that he could be on his phone in the reunions, laugh while seeing shit and absolute no one would say a thing, his attitude was the most arrogant and whatever with other people but they couldn't do anything or they would lose their best java senior
 
I used to work with 4 women :woke::woke::woke: . I only spoke with them for about 5-10 mintes per day :feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:
 
sounds like you caught the ugly mate
 
Meanwhile the only argument from IT is "you aren't entitled to sex!!!!"
 
I wont be nice anymore, I was only like that because I though this would help me keep my job, but I'm seeing that this doesn't matter, they all want me gone anyway, just because I'm ugly, so I won't waste my energy on this, I'm really bad in reading social cues, so I'm already very careful in how I treat people, but only this already make me tired at least I will not have this weight on my shoulders
No M8 you're just ugly.
If they take a dislike to you -- because you're "creepy", ugly, too personable, not personable enough, make jokes, don't make jokes, work too hard, don't work hard enough, etc., etc. -- then it will stay that way whatever you do and anything you do will become another "reason".

A few weeks ago this old foid coworker of mine who I thought I had a good relationship took me aside to tell me that I have offended her in the past or some shit, including by not asking for her help with work enough??? I asked if she could give examples so I can not offend her in future and she didn't or couldn't give any. She said other people had said I was mean to her but didn't say who said this was or when they said it. All she said is that her husband said I sound like an asshole. Very significant that her husband would agree with her, his wife, rather than me, a guy he is never met, about an unspecified incident she is recounting to him...

In my team of 20 people there are only 4 straight men and it gets to me sometimes. My boss is a woman but she is like a giga-highT 6'1 superbeast who barely even counts as female so that's not too bad. Offices, especially ones inhabited largely by women, are not places for men tbh.

Even worse is that I'm starting to get a crush on this one chick I work with (first step to being a oneitis faggot jfl) and I also matched on Tinder accidentally with this 2/10 hispanofoid at my work :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
Some annoying chad said, "why don't you talk" behind me while I was walking home from school. I didn't think it was to me so I kept walking. Then he got up closer to me and said, "why don't you talk" again. Keep in mind I'm 4ft11 and this guy was like 6ft1. I stopped and asked him what he was talking about I talk all the time. He looked shocked. I then asked him who told him that I don't talk and he said I don't know and then he went away. I've had people even say that I hate them even though I've done nothing bad to them. If you're ugly people auto hate you and they try to rationalize why they hate you by negatively judging you.
 
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They are right, your face does not know how to work with women
 
My bet would be that your uglyness is giving them some kind of "creepy vibes" which they interpret as your inability to work with them. Expect a letter from HR soon.
 
Working with women pure suifuel
 
I wish I had all the experience of old guy that worked there he was so fucking smart and experienced programing in java
are you (or will you be) a java developer? if yes, what are those foids doing there? are they also devs?
 
are you (or will you be) a java developer? if yes, what are those foids doing there? are they also devs?
Yes I will, just one of them is dev the rest is a system analyst, they don't do programing they just think about the requisites and what is that the client want and one of them is the project manager

My bet would be that your uglyness is giving them some kind of "creepy vibes" which they interpret as your inability to work with them. Expect a letter from HR soon.

I imagined it was something like that, but it's so unfair I do not want anything more than to learn and become a qualified professional to be able to have money and live and die in my lonely life, is that even asking too much being an incel?? I do not want to know if they think I'm ugly I have no intention of trying anything with them, they're all 35+ old married with children, is it so hard for them to work with someone ugly like me? My god, all I do is be cordial and polite like everyone else, why does it have to be interpreted differently? Just because I'm ugly? I can not take it anymore I can not take a step, give an ugly smile because if I do not smile I'll be unfriendly, an innocent look to see who is speaking, I can not even move without someone interpreting this as an offense
 
Yes I will, just one of them is dev the rest is a system analyst, they don't do programing they just think about the requisites and what is that the client want and one of them is the project manager
femoid analysts, project managers, even devs, yes... these can make your work life (as a dev) harder :feelscry:
they are first and foremost femoids :blackpill:
 
not good with women=not chad. chad can flirt and grab titties and ass, be rude, be stupid at work and underqualified, say fuck you to the female boss and at the end of the day, he will fuck his female boss in the ass in the office and all the female employees, who he has already plowed, will smile at him and blush and say goodbye, see you tomorrow. TEHHHEE. chad can´t loose. incels can´t win.
 
femoid analysts, project managers, even devs, yes... these can make your work life (as a dev) harder :feelscry:
they are first and foremost femoids :blackpill:
I wish it was the 80's where IT jobs was most men
 
you shouldnt respect them. if you treat women as being equals, they will see you as a beta.
 
Anything an ugly person does is bad. Just LDAR bro why are u trying to survive as genetic trash and still give a fuck about what fuckers that have never walked in your shoes think
 
you shouldnt respect them. if you treat women as being equals, they will see you as a beta.
Still wouldn't matter if he's an ugly fuck. Plus he might risk getting fired depending on the type of workplace culture of which I'm obviously unfamiliar but still. If he was super dedicated to de cucking himself he could say to hell with it but not practical probably.
 
Anything an ugly person does is bad. Just LDAR bro why are u trying to survive as genetic trash and still give a fuck about what fuckers that have never walked in your shoes think
I live in a third world country, if i don't work my existence will be 100 times worse, I might just kill myself but I was at least planing to try to live with a life of copes that can only be achieved working
 
I live in a third world country, if i don't work my existence will be 100 times worse, I might just kill myself but I was at least planing to try to live with a life of copes that can only be achieved working
I didnt say go neet i say stop giving a fuck what they say, most ppl are assholes
 
You keep your head down and get shit on. You try to ascend and get shit on.

Damned if you do damned if you don't.
 

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