I have no sympathy for women who experience domestic abuse

[grapeisfun]

As they say, it takes two to tango. These women choose the men who abuse them. I don't care if she's damaged or has low self-esteem. There are tons of good men who are rotting in their rooms right now who would treat her well and never even think about hitting her, but because these men don't meet her looks criteria and abusive tendencies she will never date them.
There's a young woman at my work that has an abusive boyfriend. He stalks her, knows her location, and even gave her a black eye one day. People in the office talk about how they have to save her. I, on the other hand, don't give a fuck. What I'm I going to get by "saving her?" That's right..Nada, zero, zilch. It's more likely that the crazy boyfriend will kill me for ending his relationship than it is for her to give me a token of gratitude. She''ll probably go back to him anyway. It's what the majority of these hoes do anyway. They don't learn.

The only women I do feel bad for in these scenarios are women who live in a third world country and were forced into an arranged marriage. In that case it's not their fault.

 

[fokusin]

They enjoy getting beat up, they just want attention

 

[SlayerSlayer]

THEY CHASE CHADS PUNCHES LIKE MOTHS TO A FLAME.

HIS PUNCHES GIVE HER LIFE MEANING

Your comfort and all you offer (at your best) IS A STEP BACK FOR HER AND IS PALPABLY WORSE THAN A TRIP TO THE HOSPITAL

 

[zd60]

They are addicted to attention like its crack

 

[DeathSigil]

By definition a incel can't do DV.

Therefore us incels are the only group of men who don't hit female partners/most kind.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

I used to in previous generations, but no longer. Women have been granted every opportunity and given the benefit of the doubt to get out of these relationships, outside of extreme circumstances where they're like locked in a basement or something.

Group therapy being forced to listen to woman after woman bitching about their abusive men and always going back, I'm done.

 

[rapetorturekill]

There are tons of good men who are rotting in their rooms right now who would treat her well and never even think about hitting her, but because these men don't meet her looks criteria and abusive tendencies she will never date them.

 

[Blank123]

Most domestic abuse is against men anyway. Usually when a woman is "abused" it is usually the guy either defending himself or at the very least retaliating against it.

The other option is that the was a genuinely shitty and abusive person, but the reason the woman is with him in the first place is because she is a shitty person herself. It is shown that narcissistic women are attaracted to narcissistic men and one of the reasons is because shitty dark triad will engadge in abusive and bullying behaviour against guys that are seen as lower status (sometimes to a lesser extent women) or as being outside of whatever "in group" the man and woman see themselves as part of as a way of showing in group loyalty and out group hostility as well trying look like some "defender" of said in group against people of the out group as well as trying to use bullying behaviour as a way of showing domininance and status as welll as appearing better than "lesser" men.

Examples of this would be the stereotype of a chad picking on guys perceived as "losers" or "outcasts" and male feminists,bluepillers and soyboys picking on le inkwells or even just men in general to show how they are "one of the good men". One of the biggest "red flags" in a guy is how they treat people around them on first interaction because people tend to put on their best image for first impressions especially in terms of how they treat someone they are trying to impress. If they are shitty to the people they are not trying to impress it is a look into their true personality and if on first impression they show hints of cruelty and shitty behaviour it's very likely they will turn out to be much worse later on. So a guy shitting on and bullying guys should be seen as a massive "red flag" right? Well due to the women in question being shitty unpleasant cunts in general they alot of the time agree with the worldview and attitude that leads to the dehumanization of the men the guy is attacking so she is alot of the time impressed by the behaviour and even enabling and encouraging it or at the very least not bother by it. This means her shittiness means she doesn't see this obvious shitty behaviour as somethign to worry about. It then turns out that a man that can be abusive to other guys can also be abusive to her what a surprise.

I mean think about it most men that have been either proven to have abused women in some way or have very compelling evidence of them doing it(i'm obviously not talking false accusations) are usually known for their tendency to shit on what they view as "lesser men". Think people such as Andrew Tate or Destiny.

Obviously because these women are shitty narcissitic cunts, instead of reflecting on the shitty behaviour they engaged in, whether it be abusing men or enabling and associating with men who abuse others, they instead turn the blame to all men or alot of the times le inkwell men even though most men(especially incel men) have nothing to do with any of that type of shit because these women are incable of taking any responsibility for the shitty aspects of themselves that led them to that place.

The funny thing is many people would make that accusation to men who are struggling but the thing is it actually is difficult to achieve the high expectations placed on men especially with no social support whereas it is EXTREMELY easier for women to avoid the above scenarios. 1. Don't be abusive to men so they don't retaliate. 2. Don't be a cunt who enjoys seeing other men be abused so you don't start dating dark triad men. Pretty fucking simple. But guess who society gives sympathy towards?

Finally this false perception of an "epidemic" of domestic abuse of women and sympathy for this imaginary issue is used as a weapon to attack men with and especially incel men to justify hating men and inkwell men even though most men and especially incel men are not even the men abusing women. So if people stopped having that sympathy by understanding that it most cases it's the bitches fault it could no longer be used as a weapon to justify hating men and incel men.

It's also a waste of time, energy and resources trying to help these women since it could all be avoided by them taking responsibility and all that time, energy and resources could be spent on more important issues including men's issues.

I will acknowledg that a minority of women who claim to have been abused are genuined victims who deserve sympathy but it is not the majority.

 

[justuseless]

Most of the time its induced on purpose to test their mans combat abilities and keep him sharp in case she ever needs protecting. Foid manipulation at its finest.