I'm not going to dare invalidating you your most basic biological needs, but forming friends around you where you don't think about sex but rather be interested in their silly insignificant lives, and enjoy talking about those may greatly reduce the suffering of sexual starvation you are going through. Of course there is a world out there that you can just exist, talk, freely show unbridled attention and they reciprocate your needs, and you just hit it off casually. I'm sorry we don't belong in that world