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I have never asked a girl out

rickvanderhammer

rickvanderhammer

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Except for a time i was peer pressured into asking out a Stacey when i was 11 years old who said "no thanks" I'm 21 years old  :cowboy:
 
women dont wanna date a guy that lives in a cardboard box and uses a 10 year old computer, sorry boyo
 
lostcel said:
women dont wanna date a guy that lives in a cardboard box and uses a 10 year old computer, sorry boyo

pretty sure that's a targeted attack and warrants a ban
 
Yeah I’ve never done it in real life either.
I stick to tinder but that’s barely working too
 
Uglychad said:
Yeah I’ve never done it in real life either.
I stick to tinder but that’s barely working too

if it's not meant to be there's no point in forcing it, it's like trying to enter a race with copd and 1 leg
 
I tried last new years day, decided to get out of my comfort zone and try out a club, was incredibly depressing, its actually how I found out I'm incel
 
Recon9 said:
I tried last new years day, decided to get out of my comfort zone and try out a club, was incredibly depressing, its actually how I found out I'm incel

story?
 
rickvanderhammer said:
Unfortunately its a bit hazy because I had a lot to drink near the end of the night, I went at 9pm which was a huge mistake because apparently clubs don't start turning up till like midnight, so I pretty much just waited for 3 hours, around  then I had two shots of vodka it finally did turn up a bit so I decided to hang near the bar and buy girls drinks to break the ice. Man that took a lot out of me btw like holyshit just walking up to 6,7,8s/10s I never talk to girls so, geez

In no time two cuties come to the bar, now in order to talk to anyone here apparently you have to yell because the music is so fucking obnoxiously loud and I'm usually a quiet guy, anyway I hear theyre buying a patron and hennessy and I ask if they're with anyone, they say a few friends so I offer to buy them their drinks (also got a drink myself) Shit was 10$/drink FYI, we talk a little bit about why we're here, things seem to be going pretty good I'm talking to two girls about stupid shit, and we're very close together because you have to be when the music's fucking 90 Db or whatever.

when the bartender comes back the girls seem to want to go back with their friends, they're thanking me and thats it, I couldn't think of what to do next, I downed my Vodka went and sat at a table for five minutes and eventually just decided FUCK IT (probably because of the vodka) and just went to go talk to them at their table.
I decide to ask them about something edgy because I don't do the night life so I ask if they smoke weed (i dont but kinda wanna try HMU) and maybe this is what killed my chances with them idek probably because of the vodka, but at some point I'm talking to them about where theyre from and realize they seem uncomfortable now, I'm getting the vibe from her body language, one randomly interjects and mentions some guy at the bar smokes weed like she wants me to go talk to him instead or something, I take the hint and leave them alone. 

I only talked to one other girl that night but its not worth mentioning really and wasn't approached once, so, it wasn't fun sorry for this mess its really early and i havent slept lol
 
Recon9 said:
Unfortunately its a bit hazy because I had a lot to drink near the end of the night, I went at 9pm which was a huge mistake because apparently clubs don't start turning up till like midnight, so I pretty much just waited for 3 hours, around  then I had two shots of vodka it finally did turn up a bit so I decided to hang near the bar and buy girls drinks to break the ice. Man that took a lot out of me btw like holyshit just walking up to 6,7,8s/10s I never talk to girls so, geez

In no time two cuties come to the bar, now in order to talk to anyone here apparently you have to yell because the music is so fucking obnoxiously loud and I'm usually a quiet guy, anyway I hear theyre buying a patron and hennessy and I ask if they're with anyone, they say a few friends so I offer to buy them their drinks (also got a drink myself) Shit was 10$/drink FYI, we talk a little bit about why we're here, things seem to be going pretty good I'm talking to two girls about stupid shit, and we're very close together because you have to be when the music's fucking 90 Db or whatever.

when the bartender comes back the girls seem to want to go back with their friends, they're thanking me and thats it, I couldn't think of what to do next, I downed my Vodka went and sat at a table for five minutes and eventually just decided FUCK IT (probably because of the vodka) and just went to go talk to them at their table.
I decide to ask them about something edgy because I don't do the night life so I ask if they smoke weed (i dont but kinda wanna try HMU) and maybe this is what killed my chances with them idek probably because of the vodka, but at some point I'm talking to them about where theyre from and realize they seem uncomfortable now, I'm getting the vibe from her body language, one randomly interjects and mentions some guy at the bar smokes weed like she wants me to go talk to him instead or something, I take the hint and leave them alone. 

I only talked to one other girl that night but its not worth mentioning really and wasn't approached once, so, it wasn't fun sorry for this mess its really early and i havent slept lol

cringe, but i assure u they would've rejected you regardless of what you said to them
 
Same, there is no point in asking out idiots where I live and I would be rejected anyway
 
rickvanderhammer said:
Recon9 said:
Unfortunately
cringe, but i assure u they would've rejected you regardless of what you said to them
yea its incredibly cringe, I almost didn't post it, but felt obligated after I spent like 10 minutes typing it :\, gonna be honest I actually just don't remember all to well what went wrong thanks to the alcohol and how long ago it was now, I just know that putting myself out there was a bust
 
Recon9 said:
yea its incredibly cringe, I almost didn't post it, but felt obligated after I spent like 10 minutes typing it :\, gonna be honest I actually just don't remember all to well what went wrong thanks to the alcohol and how long ago it was now, I just know that putting myself out there was a bust

you wouldn't know 4sure unless you tried, welcome to the truecel club
 
Uglychad said:
Yeah I’ve never done it in real life either.
I stick to tinder but that’s barely working too

How many matches per 1000 swipes?
 
rickvanderhammer said:
if it's not meant to be there's no point in forcing it, it's like trying to enter a race with copd and 1 leg

Great analogy, Im the same. I know for a fact that I would get rejected, my flaws extremely severe there is really no point in trying.
 
Imagine thinking you are incel when you have never even asked a girl out lol.
 
Asked three out the other day 2 rejected me and 1 flaked. Think that's pretty good. Can't wait to die
 
Let girls ask you out instead.
 
CopingGymcel said:
Let girls ask you out instead.
Actually, At age 40 it's the time when Chads leave the femoid because they realise that she gets fat and ugly. So she is chasing the nice guys. Unless she realises you're still a mental, then it's over.
 
I haven't tried asking out any for ages, especially in real life. The rejections just sap my motivation away, keep trying, trying, trying or do nothing. It's the same difference in the end with your hand still on your dick.
 
Same never asked a girl out / used tinder

That would be torture
 
dont you'll regret it, trust me
 
Im 24 and never have. Don’t think i could date a girl who didn’t take initiative though. It just wouldn’t work out in the long run. Sorry ladies, i don’t approach.
 
lostcel said:
women dont wanna date a guy that lives in a cardboard box and uses a 10 year old computer, sorry boyo

Agreed. Upgrade you PC OP, sloots will be lining up
 
Well, i am exctacly like you op but i am a 28 years old kv basment dweller
 
Inb4 fakecel cuz haven't cold approached and gotten rejected by 100+ foids
 
Meh, women don’t want to be approached. They will do the approaching. If women don’t approach you, you’re ugly.
 
Asking a random girl on the street is for chad because it is directly about looks. For normies and less only way is the social circle game in which you have to be sociable and deal with a lot of friendzones and trouble. In which you can at least create an image of a funny ugly guy and become popular in the circle to increase SMV which rarely works because there is usually also a chad in that circle that dominates it and doesn't allow you to rise.
 
I know social anxiety can be hard to get over. If you lived in the same areas as me. I could 'make' you ask out girls. It's how I did it, I had a friend put a shock collar around me. If I didn't go talk to a girl he pointed to I'd get a max dose of pain... On a side note, after wearing that, I've determined these are cruel and inhumane devices for dogs. That shit HURTS like hell and they can't consent to wearing it. Anyways eventually you get over rejection fears as it becomes normal routine. I've asked out over 60 girls. The number is much higher if you count online. Counting online it's probably over 200. I haven't even scored a date yet.
 
Asking a random girl on the street is for chad because it is directly about looks. For normies and less only way is the social circle game in which you have to be sociable and deal with a lot of friendzones and trouble.
Exactly. Also i'd like to add that height plays important role in cold approaching, since femoids would reject shorter man with 100% warranty.
 
Asking a random girl on the street is for chad because it is directly about looks. For normies and less only way is the social circle game in which you have to be sociable and deal with a lot of friendzones and trouble. In which you can at least create an image of a funny ugly guy and become popular in the circle to increase SMV which rarely works because there is usually also a chad in that circle that dominates it and doesn't allow you to rise.
Imagine thinking you are incel when you have never even asked a girl out lol.
 
Imagine thinking you are incel when you have never even asked a girl out lol.
Chads don't have to ask girls out, they get approached themselves. If you have to approach women it's already over.
 
You are not a volcel for not asking out, if you were good enough you would attract at least a few during your entire wasted life.
 
If you have asked a girl out you arent an incel. It means a) you arent high inhib enough b) you still think you have chance.

If you have ever asked a female out you are a fakecel
 
Same tbh there is no point of even trying if you already know how it will end
 
If you have asked a girl out you arent an incel. It means a) you arent high inhib enough b) you still think you have chance.

If you have ever asked a female out you are a fakecel
No. No attempt equal voluntary celibacy.
 
No. No attempt equal voluntary celibacy.

who is closer to doing some thing - a guy who can at least try to do it or a guy who cant even do that much?
 
Never have a never will. I'm too high inhibiton and always will be. A girl NEEDS to ask me out.
 
What’s the point?

Just ldar
 
Chads don't have to ask girls out, they get approached themselves. If you have to approach women it's already over.
You are not chad so different rules apply to you. Do you think normies get approached as well or do you just think that anyone with a gf is a chad?
 

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