When your arguing with a feminist you might refute their claims about personality by saying “well personality also isn’t in my control, trauma is very hard to heal from and effects everything from sexuality to your humour. Along with this personality is almost entirely dependent on experiences, genetics and whether or not your NT. furthermore, whether people around me like my personality is completely luck based. There’s probably a girl in china who is perfectly compatible with me but I’ll never even walk in the same country as her . It’s all entirely dependent on luck if you run into your ‘soulmate’ and most won’t”. @clocked explained the trauma part much better than I ever could. Anyway, the typical response will be “welllll I have autism. Checkmate incel!” As if a male and a female are gonna suffer in the same way. Autism is a massive spectrum and not everyone is “a little quirky:3” , some people suffering from autism can’t talk while others are just insufferable and annoying as fuck. Autism isn’t something that turns everyone into a copy of one another (like that bit in toystory when buzz finds about 500 buzz’s in boxes lol), not only is autism a spectrum but how it manifests is dependent on experiences. I’m sure the average autistic IT user doesn’t beat themselves or deal with hallucinations of their father, im sure the average IT user doesn’t wet the bed still to this day, im sure the average IT user doesn’t bash their head against walls and throw fits when they see their own reflection. We have had completely different lives and our experiences are not comparable in the slightest. Sure, some of you might of also been abused, bullied and rejected but how you react to that is entirely dependent on genetics, experiences etc. i highly believe my obsession with femdom is a trauma response, while someone else who experienced the same thing might want to abuse women. Abuse victims are predisposed to inceldom for 3 reasons:
- lack of empathy: if a woman is abused everyone defends her and lets her heal. No one blames. As a society, no one gives a fuck about unattractive men .
- longing for community (brotherhood): most of us have been bullied and emasculated our whole lives, taught we were lesss than others. Less than people. Now we have a community where people care about us and can empathise with us. In here everyone is honest, we all struggle together.
- recovering trauma: this is much better than therapy. therapy is kike bullshit
This is the only place where people have experienced similar struggles to me. Normies mistake their privilege for wisdom. You don’t have a solution for us, your life is just easy. Non of your advice works, we’ve all tried it . If life was as easy as you make it out to be then I’d have kids by now (but the reality is that YOU have easy lives, not us). Your advice won’t work on us , your situation is different.
You will never know the struggle. And that’s why you can’t empathise with people like Elliot Rodger. We all know what he did was wrong but you are reluctant to give him empathy. Because non of you understand the struggle. It’s all good saying “you don’t deserve sex” and “you don’t deserve anything” but then don’t be surprised when someone gets tired of being denied these things. Don’t be surprised when they kill themselves. Sure , TECHNICALLY no one deserves anything. But then why don’t you let millionaires take your pay check, after all you don’t deserve anything. Why do you care about the wage gap, you don’t deserve that money. In truth money is just paper while sex is a biological need. Privileged shit.
- lack of empathy: if a woman is abused everyone defends her and lets her heal. No one blames. As a society, no one gives a fuck about unattractive men .
- longing for community (brotherhood): most of us have been bullied and emasculated our whole lives, taught we were lesss than others. Less than people. Now we have a community where people care about us and can empathise with us. In here everyone is honest, we all struggle together.
- recovering trauma: this is much better than therapy. therapy is kike bullshit
This is the only place where people have experienced similar struggles to me. Normies mistake their privilege for wisdom. You don’t have a solution for us, your life is just easy. Non of your advice works, we’ve all tried it . If life was as easy as you make it out to be then I’d have kids by now (but the reality is that YOU have easy lives, not us). Your advice won’t work on us , your situation is different.
You will never know the struggle. And that’s why you can’t empathise with people like Elliot Rodger. We all know what he did was wrong but you are reluctant to give him empathy. Because non of you understand the struggle. It’s all good saying “you don’t deserve sex” and “you don’t deserve anything” but then don’t be surprised when someone gets tired of being denied these things. Don’t be surprised when they kill themselves. Sure , TECHNICALLY no one deserves anything. But then why don’t you let millionaires take your pay check, after all you don’t deserve anything. Why do you care about the wage gap, you don’t deserve that money. In truth money is just paper while sex is a biological need. Privileged shit.
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