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Venting I hate that i can't talk about my experiences

Numetalist

Numetalist

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It's so frustrating to hear women who know me (they don't like me ofc, they just happen to know of my existence and think I'm a "fine" sub 5 freak) say that sometimes I sound "incel-ish." Whenever I say things, I try to paint them in a neutral or objective way. Like "well it's just common knowledge that most women don't find a lot of men attractive" and I get called an incel for this.
I guess it's a bit counter-intuitive to post this on this site in particular, but i don't generally talk about this stuff at all irl. And even when I just say basic facts, or try to explain to people that some dudes simply can't get anything no matter how hard they try, I just get laughed at or ignored, or called a freak, just because I don't live the same reality as them.

People are severely unempathetic, especially towards the downtrodden and neglected in society. (Not to sound like Joker.)


But it sucks. As a child, I never imagined my life would be so depressing, I never imagined that the world would be so uncaring and unforgiving. It's bad enough that we have to live in this economy, but the people who are supposed to be there for us don't have any sympathy for us either. All of that goes to other women and more attractive looking people.

Im tired, man.
 
Numetalist
 
And even when I just say basic facts, or try to explain to people that some dudes simply can't get anything no matter how hard they try, I just get laughed at or ignored, or called a freak, just because I don't live the same reality as them.
You're wasting your time and doing yourself a disservice by trying to explain stuff like this to normies, peep this:
TL;DR Normfags see all social interactions through competitive lens and they take in information not on basis of "is it true" but rather "is it useful to me/does it empower me?" and on top of that they project that way of thinking onto others, so when you're trying to explain something to them - from their perspective they think that you're trying to lower their status and increase yours, that's why you get such hostile/bizzaro reactions from them.
 
It's so frustrating to hear women who know me (they don't like me ofc, they just happen to know of my existence and think I'm a "fine" sub 5 freak) say that sometimes I sound "incel-ish." Whenever I say things, I try to paint them in a neutral or objective way. Like "well it's just common knowledge that most women don't find a lot of men attractive" and I get called an incel for this.
I guess it's a bit counter-intuitive to post this on this site in particular, but i don't generally talk about this stuff at all irl. And even when I just say basic facts, or try to explain to people that some dudes simply can't get anything no matter how hard they try, I just get laughed at or ignored, or called a freak, just because I don't live the same reality as them.

People are severely unempathetic, especially towards the downtrodden and neglected in society. (Not to sound like Joker.)


But it sucks. As a child, I never imagined my life would be so depressing, I never imagined that the world would be so uncaring and unforgiving. It's bad enough that we have to live in this economy, but the people who are supposed to be there for us don't have any sympathy for us either. All of that goes to other women and more attractive looking people.

Im tired, man.
why do you keep interacting with the foids then? its useless
 
It's so frustrating to hear women who know me (they don't like me ofc, they just happen to know of my existence and think I'm a "fine" sub 5 freak) say that sometimes I sound "incel-ish." Whenever I say things, I try to paint them in a neutral or objective way. Like "well it's just common knowledge that most women don't find a lot of men attractive" and I get called an incel for this.
I guess it's a bit counter-intuitive to post this on this site in particular, but i don't generally talk about this stuff at all irl. And even when I just say basic facts, or try to explain to people that some dudes simply can't get anything no matter how hard they try, I just get laughed at or ignored, or called a freak, just because I don't live the same reality as them.

People are severely unempathetic, especially towards the downtrodden and neglected in society. (Not to sound like Joker.)


But it sucks. As a child, I never imagined my life would be so depressing, I never imagined that the world would be so uncaring and unforgiving. It's bad enough that we have to live in this economy, but the people who are supposed to be there for us don't have any sympathy for us either. All of that goes to other women and more attractive looking people.

Im tired, man.
People have destroyed the definition of "incel". Nowadays, they use it as a thought terminating cliché, to attack and shut off anyone who isn't 100% feminist and 100% bluepilled.
 
There's no point trying to explain your experiences to normies. They can never understand this pain and they don't want to understand. Incel pain gets invalidated by throwing around 'incel' as an insult, and we are made to feel like outcasts and freaks because we dare to put the injustice of the world into words. Fuck that.

This is why I will keep my blackpill views to myself, as I'd rather not add IRL persecution to my list of woes.
 
The word "incel" has been overused
 
Mm.. it's not just random women on the streets that don't give a shit about our plight, it's your mothers, sisters, nieces, teachers, etc. All foids collectively don't give a damn about men and their issues. Just remember, foids act upon emotion. If you, as a man, show any sort of emotion and that includes "venting" which usually involves "negative emotion", therefore, foids will gaslight you, tell you it's "your fault" or just straight up turn it all around / make it about them, etc.

Foids are inherently evil, just remember that boys, they're all vile devilish creatures.
 
Foids are inherently evil, just remember that boys, they're all vile devilish creatures.
I'm learning this more and more as I try and talk to them. It's like my skin is being ripped off when trying to communicate with one
 
Mm.. it's not just random women on the streets that don't give a shit about our plight, it's your mothers, sisters, nieces, teachers, etc. All foids collectively don't give a damn about men and their issues. Just remember, foids act upon emotion. If you, as a man, show any sort of emotion and that includes "venting" which usually involves "negative emotion", therefore, foids will gaslight you, tell you it's "your fault" or just straight up turn it all around / make it about them, etc.

Foids are inherently evil, just remember that boys, they're all vile devilish creatures.
very true AWALT
 

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