That's not what I meant, you know what I meant. Stop playing semantics, that's cheap. I clearly meant there's a reason why people post here.
There could be a lot of reasons. I needed an outlet for my crassness and rage since 8ch.net went down, and 8kun.top is being laggy.
This is fucking absurd. Thinking about someone doesn't mean you orbit them. Obvuiously I meant orbiting socially or through words, but again, you're playing semantics and on-purposely misconstruing what I say.
This goes back to you saying "they're all mostly gynocentric scum who like to prop women on a pedestal," earlier.
Being gynocentric or putting them on pedestals is a metaphor not just for physical behavior (actually interacting with foids, helping them move, holding their hair back while they vomit and cry about chad while being friendzoned) but also mental attitude.
You can have gynocentric one-itis about a foid you never actually bother to interact with (just watch her from window, cry about her in bed each day after buying coffee from her, etc) , is my point. So if you want to only describe guys who actually go out and do physical services for the foid, it needs more specific terminology.
Yes, but it's understandable why some people would fall for such things.
Falling for some girl to this level is just pathetic.
It's clear that the girl doesn't want them, yet they still keep falling head-over-heels for them.
It's clear to us as 3rd-party neutral observers, but they've got goggles on, I completely understand why they would lack perspective under foid thrall. It's the same way they lose perspective in the grasp of religions.
He was clearly being disrespectful, he wasn't clearly just trying to give me shit.
I know the difference.
You weren't in this situation, so you don't get to make that call.
Vocab like "disrespectful" are things I try to avoid, they seem useless.
Things can be polite or impolite, but either of those can have good or bad motives behind them.
You can admire or detest someone you're polite or impolite to. All permutations exist.
I can accept that your judgment based on experience is that MORE LIKELY THAN NOT he was trying to put you down in a NON-friendly manner... but I do hope you are humble enough to have a sliver of doubt about your ability to read others, since it's possible he was genuine.
I feel very much like you about some people... I just KNOW their fucking asshole motives are not friendly and are there to torture me. But that opinion I hold about people who I've known for MONTHS after witnessing hours and hours of their bullshit with no meaningful deviation.
As much as I would be prone to rushing to hateful judgment about a guy I just met at a gaming convention, predicting that now, I would hope to maybe 2nd-guess it better, and maybe have more than one interaction before forming a static immutable opinion about them.
There are definitely some people where I have a "I never want to interact with them again, fuck them, they're scum" conclusion though, so I'm not ruling it out as acceptable, just worth more time in reaching.
If my skin is so thin, then why did he get butthurt and threaten to hit me for telling him to shut up?
You won't say anything about that though
because that goes against you trying to score internet points against people online.
TBH it kinda slipped my mind, probably because you for some reason paraphrased that part while putting the other stuff in quotes, so it's more noticeable.
For me to give that second thought could you elaborate and given an example of how he threatened you? Like did he hold up his fists? Or say "why I oughtta..." like a stooge?
I didn't even get mad at him until he threatened to hit me, so I think the butthurt one in this situation is him.
Hm, so your 'cunt' reply was in a playful and not defensive manner?
Once again, you knew what I meant.
I'm talking about some basic level respect that you should show anyone, such as NOT BEING A CUNT.
But if you weren't mad about it, as you said above, then you didn't actually take being called stupid as an insult.
You can't "show" respect. The feeling in your head is either admiration or fear. The behavior is either politeness or rudeness.
Respect has no clear meaning, pick a word that does.
When someone behaves like a gentleman toward you, you don't actually know if he respects you or fears you. You merely speculate.
Are you this daft, or are you on purposely trying to be willingly ignorant of the situation? He did the same shit.
In the sense of namecalling, yes, but the nature (stupid v cunt) was different.
It's like "daft" v "pussy". Or "brute" v "homo". Sexualized insults are escalations.
He wasn't friendly whatsoever. He behaved just like any other asshole who wants to establish a pecking order.
Yes you said you weren't mad at "stupid" and so anger did not motivate "cunt"?
Part of the problem with guy behaviors is that it's not always clearly discernable in fog of war what is pecking order putdowns and what is "my bros can take it" shit-talking.
I will readily admit that there are times I might view malice where there isn't any, I think we could be prone to such paranoia due to the reality of friends backstabbing us being so prevalent.
Don't say "open mind", that phrase makes me sick.
We all have out hangups... perhaps "don't be too fanatical about conclusions you reach about strangers you just met" ?
I would've accepted it and moved on. I actually don't want him to fuck off forever, I was just not in the right state of mind when I wrote that.
Ah okay, so hopefully you guys can work out your differences later and be bros, or even sequential holebros.
I don't ask for politeness, I ask for respect. There's a difference, but you seem to lack that understanding.
Being nice and polite is not the same as basic boundaries and showing civility towards someone. Once he stopped doing that, so did I.
Basic boundaries and civility ARE politeness. What exactly do you think the difference is?
Abiding by boundaries and abiding by standards of civility are sometimes called stuff like "respecting boundaries" but I don't like terming it that way. Abide is basically follow/obey regardless of how you FEEL about something, and "respect" is a verb which calls up feelings like admiration or fear depending on how it is used... and thus is always abused and a shitty pointless word that negresses bellow about.
Once again, you're playing semantics.
I don't like how you're cheap-shotting my arguments,
it's not a good look for you in the long run, trust me.
I've always looked bad for paying attention to words, and it calls up all kinds of silly phrases like semantics, pedantic, pseudo-intellectual, etc. I'm used to it. I'm not going to abandon my opinions over it.
Expecting people to know your mind despite your words is basically foid-tier thinking. We can do better.
Basically if you want to say shit like "Any X who doesn't A B or C is good in my book", expect people to bring up D, because you're just naturally inviting people to think of outrageous stuff you didn't list as a fourth exception to your goodies book.
No, I'm not going to be doing your homework for you. I don't care particularly that much about debating over that.
I'm fine giving an example: do you have any objections to Terra Bradford in FF6? Tifa Lockhart in FF7? *shrug*
