I hate how sometimes my brain makes me think girls are attracted to me

[GeneticFilth]

I want to bash my head against a wall when this happens. I'm very deformed and ugly, and I know that people just stare at me because of how comically genetic trash I am, but there's this part of my brain that makes me think girls like me and it's annoying as fuck.

 

[Evildoer]

I want to bash my head against a wall when this happens. I'm very deformed and ugly, and I know that people just stare at me because of how comically genetic trash I am, but there's this part of my brain that makes me think girls like me and it's annoying as fuck.

Many virgins seem to have this kind of thoughts like "she looked at me and touched her hair, we are meant to be together", but i just don't care anymore, when any femoids look at me.

 

[StormlitAqua]

It's an advanced, subconscious-level cope. You're body does not understand inceldom and just wants to reproduce. I suffer from the same thing sometimes. I have a bad tendency to take anything any of my oneitises would do and change it to believe she likes me.

 

[CRT_relaxation]

I've been trying to put myself into a state of mind where I'm not even thinking about that when I'm in public. I don't EXIST to them and I have to know that to stay sane. When I talk to girls I just see them as other humans who don't care about my existence at all. I'm polite and everything, but I wouldn't dream of "making a move" or "running game" or whatever other redpill shit that unaware ugly dudes do today.

 

[TheLivingFailure]

I used to have that feeling. Good thing it doesn't happen anymore.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I used to have that feeling. Good thing it doesn't happen anymore.

How did you get past it?

 

[TomathonClancy]

Brains are cope

 

[FACEandLMS]

I'm one of the ugliest guys here and even my brain copes like this. A foid will talk to me at work and I'll start daydreaming about us dating, then the next time she sees me, she flat-out ignores me.

 

[justenditall]

this happens after being deprived of female attention for too long.
>girl looks at you from across the room
>OMG SHE IS SO PERFECT
>girl makes eye contact for a second
>WOW SHE MUST BE IN LOVE WITH ME I WANT TO MARRY HER

its extremely cruel and painful because it is a constant reminder of your inceldom
only way to avoid it is to avoid being in public altogether

 

[Fuckcel]

I want to bash my head against a wall when this happens. I'm very deformed and ugly, and I know that people just stare at me because of how comically genetic trash I am, but there's this part of my brain that makes me think girls like me and it's annoying as fuck.

It's a cope deeply engrained in the mind.

 

[blackcel]

This thought process is part of what people call puting pussy ona pedestal. Almost everyone who is here is doing it, and really is the cause of most of your grief.

Just take things at face value. Some girl may be attracted to you, but do go full autismo and start planning your lives together. If you catch a girl looking at you, look back at her and make a move if she still shows interest after you look at her. If you got the wrong signal, oh well.

 

[TheLivingFailure]

How did you get past it?

I gave it some thought. If a girl really liked you wouldn't they approach you? I stop deluding myself into thinking I have a chance after all the times I thought I had a chance.

 

[Testiclechincel]

It's realy easy to tell when a foid likes you - even a certified autist like myself can tell - because she will me make it painfuly obivous to you so you
can do your end of the deal and escalate it to a date/fuck.

If you have doubts - she is not in to you.

 

[Jockcel]

I haven't even talked to a girl in years kek. I rarely even look at them.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I gave it some thought. If a girl really liked you wouldn't they approach you? I stop deluding myself into thinking I have a chance after all the times I thought I had a chance.

Do you think even if women approach you they're not interested? That seems to be the case with me (an old oneitis approached me a few times).

 

[TheLivingFailure]

Do you think even if women approach you they're not interested? That seems to be the case with me (an old oneitis approached me a few times).

If they are talking to you they are showing some degree of interest towards you. I can't tell if it's something romantic because I have never had someone that interested in me.

 

[StormlitAqua]

If they are talking to you they are showing some degree of interest towards you. I can't tell if it's something romantic because I have never had someone that interested in me.

Yeah IDK man, I don't think it was romantic because some parts of my face are pretty subhuman. It's misleading and I hate it and I wish women wouldn't talk to me unless they wanted to fuck me. I stopped giving them validations as an attempt to get this to happen.

 

[Deleted member 6101]

My brain doesn't even perceive +7/10s as the same species anymore, tbh.

It's realy easy to tell when a foid likes you - even a certified autist like myself can tell - because she will me make it painfuly obivous to you so you
can do your end of the deal and escalate it to a date/fuck.

If you have doubts - she is not in to you.

This. I've seen it happen to others- they'd look at you continiously and touch/tease you.

 

[Grotesque]

My brain doesn't even perceive +7/10s as the same species anymore, tbh.

Same here.

But the negative is that I can't avoid obsessing over 3-5s that I senselessly think I have a chance with.

It's realy easy to tell when a foid likes you - even a certified autist like myself can tell - because she will me make it painfuly obivous to you so you
can do your end of the deal and escalate it to a date/fuck.

If you have doubts - she is not in to you.

And I'm fully aware of this, as a fellow certified autist.

The dick wants what it wants. I wish I didn't have one.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

Same here.

But the negative is that I can't avoid obsessing over 3-5s that I senselessly think I have a chance with.

And I'm fully aware of this, as a fellow certified autist.

The dick wants what it wants. I wish I didn't have one.

wheres yo videos nigga

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

It's an advanced, subconscious-level cope. You're body does not understand inceldom and just wants to reproduce. I suffer from the same thing sometimes. I have a bad tendency to take anything any of my oneitises would do and change it to believe she likes me.

The body never gives up, it's really torture living as incel. If the human really wants to reproduce so much why does it stop growing when you are you short? Why do you lose hair? I fucking hate the stupid human body.

 

[Grotesque]

wheres yo videos nigga

Both were completely zapped. I assume the females wanting me to get raped in prison successfully got Google to kill me.

 

[Robtical]

Prove your brain wrong by approaching them.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

Both were completely zapped. I assume the females wanting me to get raped in prison successfully got Google to kill me.

god dammit, you produced some good quality blackpill videos that i related with so much.

 

[Robtical]

It's realy easy to tell when a foid likes you - even a certified autist like myself can tell - because she will me make it painfuly obivous to you so you
can do your end of the deal and escalate it to a date/fuck.

If you have doubts - she is not in to you.

We should run an experiment with an unattractive guy walking next to a femoid, and see her reaction, then get an autistic acting chad to walk by her and see if she gives him enough signals to invite him to pick her up, or see if she ignores him like the unattractive guy.

 

[GeneticFilth]

I'm one of the ugliest guys here and even my brain copes like this. A foid will talk to me at work and I'll start daydreaming about us dating, then the next time she sees me, she flat-out ignores me.

Legit, it's the most annoying form of cope in the world. When you're as ugly as me you get the occasional pity from a female. Think like Quasimodo and Esmeralda dynamic. My brain fills me with these trash emotions that she likes me and I want the pain of having this major deluded cope to stop.

 

[imbored21]

[QUOTE="blackcel, post: 866003, member: 1609] Some girl may be attracted to you, but do go full autismo and start planning your lives together. .[/QUOTE]
Too late for that

 

[FACEandLMS]

Legit, it's the most annoying form of cope in the world. When you're as ugly as me you get the occasional pity from a female. Think like Quasimodo and Esmeralda dynamic. My brain fills me with these trash emotions that she likes me and I want the pain of having this major deluded cope to stop.

 

[ElliotLookAlike]

that thought would never cross my mind, a femoid being attracted to us? in what sense.

impossible

 

[Konon]

Same here. Basically every time a woman talks to me I think she is interested in me. And they never are

 

[Deleted member 8353]

It can't happen if you don't even look at girls. Another thing is, if you've never had any postive experiences with them, then you have no reason to believe it's going to change. I guess that's better than daydreaming and setting yourself up for disappointment.

 

[gookcel96]

The best way to prevent this is to not have any interact with females at all. Good thing I'm the king of that

 

[Cali_Incel]

Yeah I hate how that happen too but I just want some type of hope that someone will find me attractive but at time point I don't think that it's ever going to happen.

 

[Deleted member 236]

Delusion. A survival mechanism. Your brain has to feed you lies to try to keep you from killing yourself.

 

[Kokoro]

Delusion. A survival mechanism. Your brain has to feed you lies to try to keep you from killing yourself.

this. its an omegacope

 

[Kent]

I want to bash my head against a wall when this happens. I'm very deformed and ugly, and I know that people just stare at me because of how comically genetic trash I am, but there's this part of my brain that makes me think girls like me and it's annoying as fuck.

Don't beat yourself up....its evolutionary & biological response for men to overestimate their chances with feeeemayles (unless you are reading this forum of course).

 

[Awoo]

Not gonna lie lads, pretty much anyone on here can pull 2-3's if they try. But who wants to fuck anything that ugly.

 

[lesbianwalrus]

It's realy easy to tell when a foid likes you - even a certified autist like myself can tell - because she will me make it painfuly obivous to you so you
can do your end of the deal and escalate it to a date/fuck.

If you have doubts - she is not in to you.

I want to believe this, but I've had a woman bartender inform me that another woman was flirting with me when didn't even realize it. Maybe I'm just abnormally oblivious. Idk. Still, it's better to assume they're not since 99% of the time they really aren't.

 

[Deleted member 236]

Not gonna lie lads, pretty much anyone on here can pull 2-3's if they try. But who wants to fuck anything that ugly.

Yeah. But it's also the fact that you'd have to get rejected by a hundred 2-3's on the way as well. I can't imagine any greater sui fuel. It isn't worth it.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

Happens to me too. Your brain thinks even the slightest things means she likes you, such as looking at you. You know at the stage your mind is desperate for anything and will make meaningless scenarios into something.

 

[TURBO]

If a woman simply looks in a mans direction most men delude themselves into thinking it was an ioi. Think about all the cringy posts on other forums where guys brag about women checking them out. Then you see what the guy looks like and he's a 4/10

Its in mens nature to overestimate womens interest:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/12/111213132001.htm

The research involved 96 male 103 female undergraduates, who were put through a "speed-meeting" exercise -- talking for three minutes to each of five potential opposite-sex mates. Before the conversations, the participants rated themselves on their own attractiveness and were assessed for the level of their desire for a short-term sexual encounter. After each "meeting," they rated the partner on a number of measures, including physical attractiveness and sexual interest in the participant. The model had the advantage of testing the participants in multiple interactions.

The results: Men looking for a quick hookup were more likely to overestimate the women's desire for them. Men who thought they were hot also thought the women were hot for them -- but men who were actually attractive, by the women's ratings, did not make this mistake. The more attractive the woman was to the man, the more likely he was to overestimate her interest. And women tended to underestimate men's desire.