I was a late bloomer to getting drunk or doing drugs the first time. I was hitting my mid-20s. Once you had a drunkenness episode, you already know what any drunkenness episode is like. Hell, once you got high the first time, you already know what any high can be like. The only difference is that a higher dosage makes the effects you experience at a standard dosage more extreme, but it's the same thing. It didn't take long for me to get used to vaping without getting a buzz too early. It didn't take long for me to handle higher dosages of gummies or weed.
Sex takes a lot of work to catch up sexually. I'm hitting my late 20s and still a virgin. People my age have had sex for about 8 to 10 years. It'll take a while before I last at least a few minutes, know what i like or don't like sexually, know the difference between good and bad sex, have sex in various public places and try different tricks, and have the ability to teach different things to people with years of experience. Most people my age can already do that. Shit, even many 20 year olds have accomplished that for the most part.
I also will only have one parter by that point if I start, and while virgin women can eventually tell you're bad at sex if you can't make her orgasm or if you climax early or don't give oral (she's heard conversations about sex before), a virgin man couldn't tell maybe unless you just lie there and do nothing. How the fuck will i know if she's good at sex. The worst part is, many people say they thought their first partner was good until they fucked other people and realized their first partner was never special.
Imagine having a sex for so many years with only 1 partner in your lifetime, and you have sex with a new person in middle-age, and then find out all this fuckin time, you were having horrible sex all your life, and didn't finally experience good sex for the first time until you were in your middle aged years or older.
This is why monogamy shouldn't be a mandatory thing for people with their first partner.
UPDATE: no i'm NOT saying i'm having sex, but talking about what would happen if I did. I am a virgin who has no opportunities and never have.
Sex takes a lot of work to catch up sexually. I'm hitting my late 20s and still a virgin. People my age have had sex for about 8 to 10 years. It'll take a while before I last at least a few minutes, know what i like or don't like sexually, know the difference between good and bad sex, have sex in various public places and try different tricks, and have the ability to teach different things to people with years of experience. Most people my age can already do that. Shit, even many 20 year olds have accomplished that for the most part.
I also will only have one parter by that point if I start, and while virgin women can eventually tell you're bad at sex if you can't make her orgasm or if you climax early or don't give oral (she's heard conversations about sex before), a virgin man couldn't tell maybe unless you just lie there and do nothing. How the fuck will i know if she's good at sex. The worst part is, many people say they thought their first partner was good until they fucked other people and realized their first partner was never special.
Imagine having a sex for so many years with only 1 partner in your lifetime, and you have sex with a new person in middle-age, and then find out all this fuckin time, you were having horrible sex all your life, and didn't finally experience good sex for the first time until you were in your middle aged years or older.
This is why monogamy shouldn't be a mandatory thing for people with their first partner.
UPDATE: no i'm NOT saying i'm having sex, but talking about what would happen if I did. I am a virgin who has no opportunities and never have.
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