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Venting I hate how normies gaslight me

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I hate how I get gaslighted by my parents on why I am a failure in life. They have no idea on what I went through and all of the abuse which caused me to completely mentally cripple.

They blame me and my internet addiction but I wouldn't have been like this if I had a normal upbringing while I was a child. I come from a broken abusive family and most of my youth I was raised by a single mother and an extremely overprotective grandma who was making a fuss out of everything I did.

My dad did not care at all. I used to visit him during the weekends but all that happened while I was there was him being abusive towards me and calling me names, humiliating me I still don't get it WHY would someone act like this towards their only son instead of teaching him useful things.

He would mostly drink and watch football ever since my mother left him he's been doing the same thing. Working from 8 to 17:40, TV, drinking and sleeping.

At school I was getting bullied for being awkward and fat I did not know how to defend myself since I was taught that forgiving and not engaging in conflicts is a good thing.

I took all of this humiliation by both my own family and father my only escapism was being terminally online and consuming useless information which backfired on me and my rational thinking abilities.

No, I am not smarter than the average normie in fact the average normie is much more capable than me I sabotaged myself but I don't think I had any other choice anyways.

Bad environment and bullying are the biggest contributors to Inceldom they are only behind face and height.

@NorthernWind @ElTruecel
 
Yeah, people show their true faces to you when you don't offer them anything.
 
You're aren't being gaslighted
 
You're aren't being gaslighted
it literally is the definition of being gaslighted. "it's your fault for being unemployed and kissless virgin". Maybe If I had the essential genetics and normal upbringing I would have been just like your average normie who goes to college.
 
Yeah, people show their true faces to you when you don't offer them anything.
it is normal being concerned about your son not achieving anything in life but at the same time why that happens in the first place is what I experienced and the toll it took on my mental.
 
People who say suffering builds character are liars who did not suffer enough.
 
Bad environment and bullying are the biggest contributors to Inceldom they are only behind face and height.
Bullying demasculates the shit out of u
 
People who say suffering builds character are liars who did not suffer enough.
"I broke my hand while playing on the playground with my friends when I was 6 years old but that made me stronger :soy::soy::soy: "
 
Bullying demasculates the shit out of u
it completely ruins your outlook on life, shapes your world in a negative way 100% of the time. No, you don't get stronger when you get bullied unless you fight back and beat up your bullies but most bullying victims never stand up for themselves neither do normies who just watch you mentally cripple.
 
No one would be internet addicted if they were welcomed in this world.
Would you masturbate to porn if you could regularly have sex with cute gf at least a few times a week? Of course, not.
People often misunderstand cause and effect.
 
never seen a person be bullied harshly irl and not go on to be a total failure in life, its ovER
 
No one would be internet addicted if they were welcomed in this world.
Would you masturbate to porn if you could regularly have sex with cute gf at least a few times a week? Of course, not.
People often misunderstand cause and effect.
Bullies ruined my life and unfortunately they won't get what they deserve since there is no justice in this world.

Honestly bullying must be punishable by stoning it is the worst thing you can put someone through.#

What you said is completely true. I wouldn't be addicted and trying to escape the real world I was in fact NEVER welcomed in this world.
 
At school I was getting bullied for being awkward and fat I did not know how to defend myself since I was taught that forgiving and not engaging in conflicts is a good thing.
Never listen to moralfag advices. engaging in conflicts is good when you're defending yourself from the attackers, not being neglected stray dog who humiliated themself.
 
gaslighting is what you will get when you interact with normies, so better to not talk to them at all.
 
never seen a person be bullied harshly irl and not go on to be a total failure in life, its ovER
The average bully is worse than any ISIS member imo. They end your life the same way a terrorist would behead you.
 
gaslighting is what you will get when you interact with normies, so better to not talk to them at all.
based statement I second this but encounters with normies especially family members are unavoidable.
 
Bullies ruined my life and unfortunately they won't get what they deserve since there is no justice in this world.

Honestly bullying must be punishable by stoning it is the worst thing you can put someone through.#

What you said is completely true. I wouldn't be addicted and trying to escape the real world I was in fact NEVER welcomed in this world.
Normfilth logic:
Reads about sexual abuse of underages.
Omg this sexual predator traumatized poor kid for life! Stone that pedo!

Reads about some teen committing suicide from bullying.
B-but bullying is natural. I was told that bullying builds character.
 
The average bully is worse than any ISIS member imo. They end your life the same way a terrorist would behead you.
I wish there was a way to know how different my life would have turned out if I wasnt bullied so severely, or maybe it wouldnt different at all since I would still be an ignored loser either way
 
I wish there was a way to know how different my life would have turned out if I wasnt bullied so severely, or maybe it wouldnt different at all since I would still be an ignored loser either way
Bullying completely ruins your life if you had any talents you will lose them. Your brains starts entering in flight mode all the time you see normies because its already used to abuse and it tries to protect you from bad encounters.

Also you will develop social anxiety, ADHD, OCD which will inevitably doom your future.
 
Soyciety is all about lies. Causes to our problems are obvious, researched and easily explainable but normies deny them in mass scale which prevents us finding solutions and many incels become just cucks. Goal of the soyciety and feminism is that the unattractive, short and autistic males are mentally or even physically castrated slaves for chad's harems. It's unthinkable to NT's that some people can't start and maintain conversations interesting enough naturally to strangers which is everything alongside looks to find relationships and jobs. Older people have no clue about tinder-age polygamy we're living in. Even getting a job and building a career is mostly about connections at least where I live.
 
I have worse life than 99.9% of people due to my disorders plus a tragic event in my life. I’m doing bad and struggling in everything rn but most normies would rope if they went through what I did. Any denial of NT pill and muh genetics or muh lazy gaslight to me is normgroid garbage
 
Your brains starts entering in flight mode all the time you see normies because its already used to abuse and it tries to protect you from bad encounters.
This part is very true tbh, back when I was getting bullied most, I developed anxiety and fear of just hearing my name, because the only time I ever heard my name by classmates was when bullying was about to follow
 
This part is very true tbh, back when I was getting bullied most, I developed anxiety and fear of just hearing my name, because the only time I ever heard my name by classmates was when bullying was about to follow
brutal i will follow you for being an abused dog like me
 
I hate how I get gaslighted by my parents on why I am a failure in life. They have no idea on what I went through and all of the abuse which caused me to completely mentally cripple.

They blame me and my internet addiction but I wouldn't have been like this if I had a normal upbringing while I was a child. I come from a broken abusive family and most of my youth I was raised by a single mother and an extremely overprotective grandma who was making a fuss out of everything I did.

My dad did not care at all. I used to visit him during the weekends but all that happened while I was there was him being abusive towards me and calling me names, humiliating me I still don't get it WHY would someone act like this towards their only son instead of teaching him useful things.

He would mostly drink and watch football ever since my mother left him he's been doing the same thing. Working from 8 to 17:40, TV, drinking and sleeping.

At school I was getting bullied for being awkward and fat I did not know how to defend myself since I was taught that forgiving and not engaging in conflicts is a good thing.

I took all of this humiliation by both my own family and father my only escapism was being terminally online and consuming useless information which backfired on me and my rational thinking abilities.

No, I am not smarter than the average normie in fact the average normie is much more capable than me I sabotaged myself but I don't think I had any other choice anyways.

Bad environment and bullying are the biggest contributors to Inceldom they are only behind face and height.

@NorthernWind @ElTruecel
Complex PTSD. Many such cases. Sad.
 
I hate how I get gaslighted by my parents on why I am a failure in life. They have no idea on what I went through and all of the abuse which caused me to completely mentally cripple.

They blame me and my internet addiction but I wouldn't have been like this if I had a normal upbringing while I was a child. I come from a broken abusive family and most of my youth I was raised by a single mother and an extremely overprotective grandma who was making a fuss out of everything I did.

My dad did not care at all. I used to visit him during the weekends but all that happened while I was there was him being abusive towards me and calling me names, humiliating me I still don't get it WHY would someone act like this towards their only son instead of teaching him useful things.

He would mostly drink and watch football ever since my mother left him he's been doing the same thing. Working from 8 to 17:40, TV, drinking and sleeping.

At school I was getting bullied for being awkward and fat I did not know how to defend myself since I was taught that forgiving and not engaging in conflicts is a good thing.

I took all of this humiliation by both my own family and father my only escapism was being terminally online and consuming useless information which backfired on me and my rational thinking abilities.

No, I am not smarter than the average normie in fact the average normie is much more capable than me I sabotaged myself but I don't think I had any other choice anyways.

Bad environment and bullying are the biggest contributors to Inceldom they are only behind face and height.

@NorthernWind @ElTruecel
My dad thought my entire problem was playing videogames lmao.

He didn’t have a fucking clue.

He thought you can just go up to girls, talk to them and immediately get a girlfriend and that doing that same thing will make people want to be friends with you.

He didn’t understand that that only works for Chad.
 
My dad thought my entire problem was playing videogames lmao.
Fat Link
 
It’s your parents fault. I’m sorry normies but no. You can’t victim blame the fat bullied 14 year old then coddle/romanticise young men who join gangs because they’re pressured into it or whatever. Lol.
 
dont talk to normies
 

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