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TLDR: A (possibly former) sexhaver PROVES that the "stop wanting a gf" line is cope.
Blackpill "I had a girlfriend at 19. It made my life much better, people who say it doesn't do anything are wrong."
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1pwfxye/i_had_a_girlfriend_at_19_it_made_my_life_much/
TLDR: A (possibly former) sexhaver PROVES that the "stop wanting a gf" line is cope.
"Men who say they had that at the age of 13, and it didn't change anything are delusional" Well that makes a lot of sense since they don't have anything to compare their life to. Privileged people failing to understand they're privileged and not being able to understand those who aren't is really normal
''your not entitled to having one of your basic physiological needs met, because your ugly'
That really is their entire argument. That we don't deserve to have an girlfriend, that we should remain celibate like good obedient dogs, and sacrifice ourselves for whores, so they can leech off of us.
Dude got his psychological needs met and now his life is better
Shocker
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Sexhaver ramblings
Idiot response from you, ngl.
Dude had a mutual sexual experience in his late teens, at 19.
He BARELY escaped pure inceldom. True ascension is only possible during your teens.
Even he has said that he was lucky.
And the fact that afterwards he's tried, actually put in effort to get another girlfriend but couldn't shows you that he must not have been the most attractive guy for sure.
He most likely also has standards, which is reasonable to have because why should only foids have them?
It was his first and last experience and even that has improved his life and given him actual lifefuel.
He is on our side, really.
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Go suck a dick, GrAY.
Saying "A girlfriend won't fix your depression!" is the same as saying "Money won't fix your depression!" Even if this might be true, you are still objectively worse off without either.
I know for a fact that if I properly ascended, I would have enough motivation to get my life together.
I know for a fact that if I properly ascended, I would have enough motivation to get my life together.
Having a gf, someone who cares about you, wants you, fulfill your needs and wants. Its huge gaslighting saying its not crucial.
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projection is gay as well, so get banned
He is not gonna get banned.
Those who are aware
Wont solve all life problems but it will give you good part of life.
And once again, what we say gets acknowledged only when sexhavers say it.
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And once again, what we say gets acknowledged only when sexhavers say it
teen love is like a vivid dream to me, i cant put my finger on any other point you get to have something like that. i'd actually say if u don't experience it then you're pretty much set for life on that account, destined to be nothing more than a betabuxxer
Reading this post was legit suicide fuel
It shouldn't be. Anything that displays blackpill truths, coming either from a sexhaver or an incel, is ultimately helpful at the end.Reading this post was legit suicide fuel
Because things like these really blackpill people. And if enough people get blackpilled and thus stop lying and coping in a stupid way, things can change. Won't happen tomorrow. Won't be a literal incel revolution. Could be something, though.
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I know it's true. It's just these facts are so brutal, it actually makes me think about suicide.
Doubt it.
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Everytime I complain about my loneliness... to myself (because nobody really cares about lonely men), I'm reminded that I have a dozen copes that make me happy for a few hours only for me to snap back to the realization that we are biologically wired to find a mate and reproduce.
There's a biological mechanism that stimulates a procreation mindset in all men, there's no such thing as asexual men, they've just mastered the ability to control this natural desire.
Since KHV, having a modern girlfriend is seen as foreign to me, but remaining a virgin for life, if I don't join some Trappist monastery (the lot have already been turned over to Jewish technocrats to house their harems anyway), will be an even more daunting future full of sadness, pain and suffering.
What I can say is that all my former friends have had sex and have had multiple girlfriends... why? Because they're 5'8+.
I've only ever been photographed by one Portuguese poor Stacey (not a boast) in my life on a train while sitting down, because on that day I lookmaxxed and was American. When we both stood up at the stop, she realized I was a few inches shorter and then the lust on her face turned to disgust and hatred.
That same trip I had a sub3 flirt with me at a hot springs. She was at least 600lbs of pure blubber. She waddled out of the spring and saw me sitting their looking at my camera, and she kept inching closer and smiling, though you couldn't really make out a smile because her fat on her cheeks sunk over her crusty lips.
And this girl was tall, maybe 5'9, and again, I emphasize that I was sitting down, and since my upper half looks like I'm 6' but lower half looks like I've been crushed by a piano, I only ever get looks and stares by fat women or poor foreigners when sitting.
If I were to sitmaxx on a train/buss for life, lock the doors and just smile, I might find a girl. But we'd have to remain on the bang bus for life, never getting off and me never getting up.
And I'm jobless and poor. Short, jobless, ND and poor. The worst combo ever.
Sex must feel great if it's with your lookmatch. I'd never know. Considering every friend chose the girl over remaining close, decent friends, sex seems more important than friendship.
It is what it is.
There's a biological mechanism that stimulates a procreation mindset in all men, there's no such thing as asexual men, they've just mastered the ability to control this natural desire.
Since KHV, having a modern girlfriend is seen as foreign to me, but remaining a virgin for life, if I don't join some Trappist monastery (the lot have already been turned over to Jewish technocrats to house their harems anyway), will be an even more daunting future full of sadness, pain and suffering.
What I can say is that all my former friends have had sex and have had multiple girlfriends... why? Because they're 5'8+.
I've only ever been photographed by one Portuguese poor Stacey (not a boast) in my life on a train while sitting down, because on that day I lookmaxxed and was American. When we both stood up at the stop, she realized I was a few inches shorter and then the lust on her face turned to disgust and hatred.
That same trip I had a sub3 flirt with me at a hot springs. She was at least 600lbs of pure blubber. She waddled out of the spring and saw me sitting their looking at my camera, and she kept inching closer and smiling, though you couldn't really make out a smile because her fat on her cheeks sunk over her crusty lips.
And this girl was tall, maybe 5'9, and again, I emphasize that I was sitting down, and since my upper half looks like I'm 6' but lower half looks like I've been crushed by a piano, I only ever get looks and stares by fat women or poor foreigners when sitting.
If I were to sitmaxx on a train/buss for life, lock the doors and just smile, I might find a girl. But we'd have to remain on the bang bus for life, never getting off and me never getting up.
And I'm jobless and poor. Short, jobless, ND and poor. The worst combo ever.
Sex must feel great if it's with your lookmatch. I'd never know. Considering every friend chose the girl over remaining close, decent friends, sex seems more important than friendship.
It is what it is.
found a celebrity in the comments lol
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At 30 and virgin, I look back at my middle school days talking to a 6th grader that already had a beard fucking a hot stacey back in 2010, she's now a OF whore and the bearded Chad is a pharmacist who sells over the counter opiods illegally, and hasn't been caught. He alnost killed his best friend by supplying him opiods. That friend is now somehow a millionaire married to a stacey and has three kids. In HS he had a less than 1 GPA and got suspended at least 12 times and was expelled for making fun of a retarded kid.
While the bearded chad had a harem at 13, I was still figuring out how to piece together Lego's.
While the bearded chad had a harem at 13, I was still figuring out how to piece together Lego's.
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I should elaborate. Since I'm not that ugly, just very short, I cannot image true sub3 shorts guys. If I can only attract 600lbers sitting down, it never began for ugly shortcels.
This is entirely correct and you don't need a sexhaver to tell you to know. In the brief period where I was redpilled and I thought that I was getting close to having a girlfriend, my mind and my life changed completely. I suddenly started caring about my life and my future for the first time in 20 years, I became motivated and started working towards my goals, and all the ADHD-like symptoms that I normally have were entirely cured. It even cured my lifelong insomnia and fixed my sleep schedule. Before and after that, I could only rot all day (especially when I was a teenager and my sex drive was high, so I wasted a lot of time on porn, as my basic needs weren't met).
I did the most progress in life in that short period of time, And all of this without even actually having a girlfriend. But ultimately it led to nothing, as I realized that I wasn't gonna get any girl after all, I got disillusioned and fell back to my old life.
A girlfriend wouldn't fix all my problems, it would fix 95% of them. My loneliness growing up caused my whole sad life situation.
If I ascended now, I know for sure that I would easily stop being a Hikikomori and fix my life. Had I ascended in high school, I would be rich, or at least successful in my passion, by now. The amount of motivation and optimism that it gives you is next to nothing. And that's only for the mental effects, don't get me started on the socialization, experience and opportunities that having a girlfriend may give you.
I did the most progress in life in that short period of time, And all of this without even actually having a girlfriend. But ultimately it led to nothing, as I realized that I wasn't gonna get any girl after all, I got disillusioned and fell back to my old life.
A girlfriend wouldn't fix all my problems, it would fix 95% of them. My loneliness growing up caused my whole sad life situation.
Exactly. Most people don't have a say in anything.
If I ascended now, I know for sure that I would easily stop being a Hikikomori and fix my life. Had I ascended in high school, I would be rich, or at least successful in my passion, by now. The amount of motivation and optimism that it gives you is next to nothing. And that's only for the mental effects, don't get me started on the socialization, experience and opportunities that having a girlfriend may give you.
im gonna kill myself
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yep, good point
The rich will never understand the poor.
Normies know this deep down. They say sex isn't important to gaslight incels whom they hate.
Or we can go ER or rope and stop playing the game you can't win.''your not entitled to having one of your basic physiological needs met, because your ugly'
That really is their entire argument. That we don't deserve to have an girlfriend, that we should remain celibate like good obedient dogs, and sacrifice ourselves for whores, so they can leech off of us.
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if you dont lose your virginity by 16 its ovER. i hope someone goes besERk at a school thats local to me and kills chad but a ton of soy betas will cry for poow wittle chad especially his harem. kill me.
Women want to magically absolve themselves of the responsibility for the men they leave to die in a ditch.
I doubt it they'll just cheat on you. They'll defiantly cheat on me if I ever get one which I probably wont.
fruit made my life better
I agree, there are plenty of sour grape responses on this site. Some on here can only see their own suffering and not others. It shows lack of maturity and misguided bitterness.
Haha, you got banned instead. The irony.
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