Discussion I got advice on my lack of romantic success

[Yunoo]

I just had a conversation about this. They made me do a lot of introspecting

I got questions and statements like “do you really want a gf?”
“You don’t need a gf to have a connection and spend time together you can do this with friends”

“You need a common goal to get a gf like having children”

“You have nothing to bond over” - this isn’t true I have a lot of interests such as hiking, climbing, music, etc so I felt this comment especially was malicious

The whole time I felt like they were trying to convince me why I DONT need a gf and shouldn’t get one. I’m not completely sure what their goal was but it seemed very disingenuous

Do you think the average normie thinks about all this stuff before they get a gf? Do you think they do endless self improvement until they are perfect both mentally and physically and only then seek out a gf?

 

[Copium Powered Nero]

its either this or "you just dont know how to talk to girls" and "you need to be confident around girls !!"

 

[Animecel2D]

worthless advice

 

[Caichan]

The whole time I felt like they were trying to convince me why I DONT need a gf and shouldn’t get one

They want us to give up and accept it

 

[Copium Powered Nero]

Do you think the average normie thinks about all this stuff before they get a gf? Do you think they do endless self improvement until they are perfect both mentally and physically and only then seek out a gf?

dont think so, it naturally happens to normies or something like that

 

[Yunoo]

its either this or "you just dont know how to talk to girls" and "you need to be confident around girls !!"

“You don’t know how to talk to girls” is in itself misogynistic. It gives the impression women are some sort of foreign entity that you have to LEARN to communicate with. You can’t talk to them like everyone else, you must gain the skills to do it

 

[Valtharion]

worthless advice

 

[Copium Powered Nero]

“You don’t know how to talk to girls” is in itself misogynistic. It gives the impression women are some sort of foreign entity that you have to LEARN to communicate with. You can’t talk to them like everyone else, you must gain the skills to do it

normies think its a basic skill, like you HAVE to be able to speak with girls without a problem

 

[KTTerrible]

“You need a common goal to get a gf like having children”

“You have nothing to bond over” - this isn’t true I have a lot of interests such as hiking, climbing, music, etc so I felt this comment especially was malicious

Truth is foids don't have any interests or goals of their own. They're always making up bullshit to attract who they want. It's all a façade.

 

[Yunoo]

normies think its a basic skill, like you HAVE to be able to speak with girls without a problem

No I don’t think that’s true. They love to talk about “rizz” and “game”. If you ask me it’s all manipulation and I can’t be bothered with that. For an incel it may result in a sexual harassment case somehow

 

[saintfoiddestroyer]

they're all stupid fucks who don't know the pain of an incel, and so they say stupid shit like this and are ignorant

 

[Mohamedömar]

worthless advice