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Serious I give up fapping and porn

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122 days till the start of 2023. I started nofap on 27 th August and I plan to stay fap free till at least the end of the year. I slipped today by viewing some nsfw pics, but I will be careful. I am tired of being drained all the time, having poor concentration, having OCD and anxiety much worse than on nofap and to be a bit happier. I want to also do NNN perfectly this year! Last year I resisted 22 days/30 days.
 
Cope tbh, you can’t just give up something you’re clearly addicted to. I’ll be waiting for your thread announcing that you’ve failed
 
Cope tbh, you can’t just give up something you’re clearly addicted to. I’ll be waiting for your thread announcing that you’ve failed
Who said this? I know people who gave up smoking (and they have smoked for 20-25 years) from the first try without ever coming back. Failure anyway is the part of the learning game.
 
Me

I know a fat bald indian janitor who has a different Stacy on his arm every week
So everything is possible. Every day fap free is better than 0. I am tired of self destroying myself by edging like a pathetic loser to porn for hours.
 
So everything is possible. Every day fap free is better than 0. I am tired of self destroying myself by edging like a pathetic loser to porn for hours.
Good for you bro, I’m just saying you aren’t going to last until the end of the year. You should make yourself smaller goals and work yourself up from there, unless you’re one of the exceptions who can just quit off the drop of a bat (doubt)
 
Good for you bro, I’m just saying you aren’t going to last until the end of the year. You should make yourself smaller goals and work yourself up from there, unless you’re one of the exceptions who can just quit off the drop of a bat (doubt)
This. They set big goals and they all fail. I've been one of them myself.

A better approach could be to fap 2x a week 1x/each time, but nobody wanys to do this :smonk:
 
Good for you bro, I’m just saying you aren’t going to last until the end of the year. You should make yourself smaller goals and work yourself up from there, unless you’re one of the exceptions who can just quit off the drop of a bat (doubt)
Maybe you are right. For me even if I pass 30 days is a huge victory. I can't quit it from the first try, I failed hundreds of times in the last 8 years of trying. Forever is a too big word, especially as an incel.
 
What do you hope to achieve by doing so? Are those things your main issues at the moment?
To be honest, to feel more energetic, less depressed, have better concentration and overall more stable mentally. I don't do it for superpowers/girls or other bullshits.
 
This. They set big goals and they all fail. I've been one of them myself.

A better approach could be to fap 2x a week 1x/each time, but nobody wanys to do this :smonk:
Moderation is very hard for me. That 1 time a week can easily transform in some time in once every 2 days or edging for hours.
 
Moderation is very hard for me. That 1 time a week can easily transform in some time in once every 2 days or edging for hours.
Maybe be gradual. Start 3x a day then reduce to 2 then 1 then don't fap on some days?

For 99% people problem is they'll be in exact same spot battling fap/noFAP a year from now and nothing changed

Although I guess I'd blame being an incel for this
 
I see, I wish you the best hombre. To be honest with you I masturbate everyday, and have been doing so for the past couple months. My mood is completely flat and I no longer experience strong emotions; little energy, no motivation, brain fog all the time. It sucks. I admire your resolve :panties:
Thanks bro. It's never too late to give it a try, even for 3 days.
 
Maybe be gradual. Start 3x a day then reduce to 2 then 1 then don't fap on some days?

For 99% people problem is they'll be in exact same spot battling fap/noFAP a year from now and nothing changed

Although I guess I'd blame being an incel for this
In my case I edge for few hours once or twice a week. Now I feel the need to add one new session- to be twice or 3 times a week. And I feel it will impact with my life, that's the problem.
 
In my case I edge for few hours once or twice a week. Now I feel the need to add one new session- to be twice or 3 times a week. And I feel it will impact with my life, that's the problem.
Idk maybe just NoFAP till you're really legit horny and then FAP? Theorethical strategy
 
To be honest, to feel more energetic, less depressed, have better concentration
That's literally because you edge for hours, not because you masturbate. There's no reason to quit, just quit edging for hours.

Didn't we have this discussion already?
 
122 days till the start of 2023. I started nofap on 27 th August and I plan to stay fap free till at least the end of the year. I slipped today by viewing some nsfw pics, but I will be careful. I am tired of being drained all the time, having poor concentration, having OCD and anxiety much worse than on nofap and to be a bit happier. I want to also do NNN perfectly this year! Last year I resisted 22 days/30 days.
good for you bro i am doing this too I did 6 months during school yr and it is a huge difference
 
That's literally because you edge for hours, not because you masturbate. There's no reason to quit, just quit edging for hours.

Didn't we have this discussion already?
Easier said than done. For me cumming is the problem as I feel drained even after a wet dream. If I could edge and just not cum...
 
For me cumming is the problem as I feel drained even after a wet dream.
No you don't fucking feel drained after a wet dream............. you know what I'm done, I'm not dealing with this retarded troll shit, welcome to my ignore list lol.
 
No you don't fucking feel drained after a wet dream............. you know what I'm done, I'm not dealing with this retarded troll shit, welcome to my ignore list lol.
If this is your opinion, then good, I am ok with it.
 
Idk maybe just NoFAP till you're really legit horny and then FAP? Theorethical strategy
I don't know. Cooming really makes me feel drained, as I said, even a wet drem makes me feel this way. If I could just edge and not coom...
 
good for you bro i am doing this too I did 6 months during school yr and it is a huge difference
Good job bro. And how did you feel after 6 months?
 
Very good decision
 
Very good decision
He's not going to last. You can't go from doing ridiculous shit like edging 4+ hours twice a week, to just up and quitting porn.

Notice he hasn't said anything about what he's doing to distract his mind (no projects). He's just going to "give up fapping", it doesn't work like that, he's going to relapse hard.

Literally every form of entertainment these days is related to sex.

I don't do NoFap, I just randomly stop fapping for 2 to 3 weeks every now and then when I become absorbed in a work project (it rarely happens).

But you know what always gets me back fapping:
1. Watching a movie and a sex scene happens
2. Watching an anime and something ecchi happens
3. Browsing the internet and you see a random provocative ad
4. Literally just having random sex thoughts pop into your head when you are doing non sexual shit like making a sandwich :feelskek:

So I call BS that some guy who has been edging his dopamine receptors into oblivion is going to just randomly be able to quit.

It's easy to feel like that the first few days of not fapping, but even with something to distract your mind, something will always pop up.

You can't fight biology.
 
I'm resisting, day 39.
 

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