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Serious I found real reason of inceldom

connormacleod

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In the current days, inceldom is a mass phenomenon, today even above average normies have big troubles to find girlfriend/wife.
Loneliness of male gender become normal in the 21 century.

Even in the medieval days existed male loneliness, but this loneliness was only for very small percent male population. Even not attractive guys had big families and faithful wives.

So what happened?

Exist very big difference between our times (21 century, capitalism) and for example medieval.

Modern world based on capitalism. Capitalism based on matriarchy.
Both genders are “equal”, women are “independent strong people with freedom of choice”.
Sex is a a motivator.
Men want buy study in good universities, want buy good cars, good apartments, good clothes and other things just for impress women.
Medieval world based on feudalism.
Feudalism based on patriarchy.
Man is a leader, woman his supporter which depends on him.
Survival is a motivator.
People needed to unite into a team of two (marriage), then have children so that it would be possible to cultivate large areas of land, plant crops, and children and other descendants like grandchildren could help in old age with care, money and food.

It's not just about freedom of choice and women's rights. In the modern world, women no longer need a partner.
And the fact that women now choose only chads for sex and relationships is only a consequence, not a cause.

In my opinion, if the world had moved towards patriarchal socialism, the problem of loneliness would have disappeared. I am not talking about polygamy, polyamory and other nonsense. I am talking about adequate marriages where there is fidelity and family values. Atheism flourished in the Soviet Union, but at the same time people were getting married en masse, moral values in society were high.
Of course, such phenomena as dating sites, dating apps, social networks should be banned.
 
Inceldom is caused by being unattractive.
 
yes but will never happen until it's all gone too far men are too castrated to do anything
 
incels are just the byproduct of foid hypergamy.
 
incels are just the byproduct of foid hypergamy.
capitalism is a reason of hypergamy.

society can significantly reduce hypergamy if society will live without social networks, dating apps and dating sites, messengers with private channels, onlyfans.

Society can ban this services.
 
capitalism is a reason of hypergamy.

society can significantly reduce hypergamy if society will live without social networks, dating apps and dating sites, messengers with private channels, onlyfans.

Society can ban this services.
That is what the incelarchy strives to do, destroy the social hierarchy
 
I don't know what patriarchal socialism is but I do know this feminist shit is just ruining anything good about society. Dumb fucking women will learn how shit their society is when humanity collapses because all men are relegated to nothing.
 
I don't know what patriarchal socialism is but I do know this feminist shit is just ruining anything good about society. Dumb fucking women will learn how shit their society is when humanity collapses because all men are relegated to nothing.
Unfortunately, society only realizes the problems when it is too late. But the prerequisites for the degradation and fall of civilization are already visible now. The problem is that people do not see what is happening, or they deceive themselves and prefer to live in rose-colored glasses.
 
Modern world based on capitalism. Capitalism based on matriarchy.
Both genders are “equal”, women are “independent strong people with freedom of choice”.
You mixed up liberalism and capitalism. Capitalism itself doesn't say anything about rights and freedom. However I agree on your futher thoughts about sex being a motivator.
Atheism flourished in the Soviet Union, but at the same time people were getting married en masse, moral values in society were high.
Nah, they weren't at all! I'll give just several examples from different time periods. Until Stalin, it's been a post-Revolutionary vanguardism with glass of water theory (link) or 'Down with the Shame!' radical nudist society, not to mention the revolutionary terror. During Khrustchev, the most common birth control was an abort. It was common for women to just do another one and don't think about consequences of sex. And later, during the last years of the Soviet Union, it all has been on another level. Alcoholism is everywhere (just read about the known murder at Zhdanovskaya, basically, everyone was drunk in that story), a steal from work wasn't considered a steal, drugs and believe in magic became real problems.

As for marriage, it became okay for couples to divorse and remarry during that time. Moreover, it has also became prevailing to have pre-marriage partners as virginity wasn't considered important. All these trends were the same as in the west
 
Yet half a century ago there were no such issues with male loneliness as it is today in capitalist countries. It is not an economical issue but rather how the society shifted politically and socially. How males are demonised and the idea of a family is distorted. Which is led by populist-leftist agenda to obtain more popularity and votes. Throughout history it is remarkable how leftists, socialists included, were lifting up women even beyond whats equal. So why turning trust to socialism?

It may be possible to build a patriarchal socialism similar to USSR but you will have to survive to provide the best for your family and yet might get cucked by rich party members and idk if its better than being an incel.
 
Throughout history it is remarkable how leftists, socialists included, were lifting up women even beyond whats equal. So why turning trust to socialism?
I think it's because he's from Russia so he's looking at socialism through the rose-tinted glasses of nostalgia, unaware of the trajectory that feminism has taken in the West (largely growing in influence through left socialist channels).
 
In the current days...
TLDR women are mentally as mature as children and they should NEVER have received any sort of autonomy. You see the outcome.
 
Our lament far predates capitalism and socialism. In ancient Greece, many city states, who by our modern standards would be considered of a socialist bent, would practice a ritual known as Pharmakos, wherein the citizens, including women, would get together and vote on the ugliest people to exile or execute for that year. Many other cultures around the world have had similar scapegoat rituals.

Neither capitalism nor socialism can tame this dark recessive corner of human psychology.
 

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