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Venting i finally met this girl in real life

Chingaquedito

Chingaquedito

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well, this is the second part of one of my previous threads https://incels.is/threads/im-going-to-meet-in-real-life-a-woman-i-met-online.690796/#post-16339262

this happened aroun dec 21 and dec 22

i went to see her and i enjoyed it much, we went to a restaurant, she let me drink from her drink, constantly gave me some of her food, it's something I really appreciated. I've never tasted a girl's saliva before haha

she used to hug me a lot, at one point we stayed hugging so long that I started to feel her heart beating in my chest. and we talked for hours, I had never talked about such intimate things with another person in real life

i spent the whole day smiling

then the night came and i started to get extremely anxious in front of her, she noticed it and started to ask me if i was ok, of course i wasn't.

30 minutes later i was back in home, sweating and my heart was beating like crazy, and i felt extremely tired in terms of mind and body. for the first time in years i was able to fall asleep without taking any drugs, maybe I got tired of socializing so much, it sounds stupid, but I have never spent a whole day next to another person and talking for hours, but i found it depressing to think that I can't be with another person without wanting to run home alone for a few hours to deal with the anxiety :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: made me think that maybe some of us were born to be alone

this experience did not improve my mental condition, but it was definitely memorable, probably one of the best days of my life ;_; I never thought something like this would happen to me

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the first few days after we saw each other she was always texting me excitedly reminiscing about what happened, she said it was very fun, now she just dry texts me :feelsrope: :feelsrope::feelsrope:
I hope things get better in the future, even though she sends me dry messages, she is always the one who sends the first message
 
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she found chad to text instead
 
Ask her out on another date then.
Obviousely she thinks that you as a man should ask her out.

Simply do what is "manly" but do not get surprised when the black pill hits again.

But, if she hugs you, smiles, laughs and all that, I can't believe that she does not like you.

Why would she hug you for so long and even share food and drinks with you?

Get a grip bro.

If you end up having sex, tell us so we can ban your ass.

Good luck.
 
Chingaquedito said:
the first few days after we saw each other she was always texting me excitedly reminiscing about what happened, she said it was very fun, now she just dry texts me :feelsrope: :feelsrope::feelsrope:
I hope things get better in the future, even though she sends me dry messages, she is always the one who sends the first message
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This sounds very much like she tried to avoid hurting you, especially texting "excitedly reminiscing" sounds very dry itself. In the norm social contact, building a relationship goes more natural, without this up'n'down. She's just sending you dry messages, not trying to sound hurtful, most likely because she discarded you.

The contact with her will slowly but surely die out. This is just my observation.
 
Chingaquedito said:
well, this is the second part of one of my previous threads https://incels.is/threads/im-going-to-meet-in-real-life-a-woman-i-met-online.690796/#post-16339262

this happened aroun dec 21 and dec 22

i went to see her and i enjoyed it much, we went to a restaurant, she let me drink from her drink, constantly gave me some of her food, it's something I really appreciated. I've never tasted a girl's saliva before haha

she used to hug me a lot, at one point we stayed hugging so long that I started to feel her heart beating in my chest. and we talked for hours, I had never talked about such intimate things with another person in real life

i spent the whole day smiling

then the night came and i started to get extremely anxious in front of her, she noticed it and started to ask me if i was ok, of course i wasn't.

30 minutes later i was back in home, sweating and my heart was beating like crazy, and i felt extremely tired in terms of mind and body. for the first time in years i was able to fall asleep without taking any drugs, maybe I got tired of socializing so much, it sounds stupid, but I have never spent a whole day next to another person and talking for hours, but i found it depressing to think that I can't be with another person without wanting to run home alone for a few hours to deal with the anxiety :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: made me think that maybe some of us were born to be alone

this experience did not improve my mental condition, but it was definitely memorable, probably one of the best days of my life ;_; I never thought something like this would happen to me

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the first few days after we saw each other she was always texting me excitedly reminiscing about what happened, she said it was very fun, now she just dry texts me :feelsrope: :feelsrope::feelsrope:
I hope things get better in the future, even though she sends me dry messages, she is always the one who sends the first message
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I would say you are a fakecel but that's not fair. How old are you pal? I mean foids use to get bored of chads around mid 30's so they try to catch a beta.

Usually foids have other men behind her (figurative and literally talking :feelskek: ) yet prob the reason she dry texts now it's because she either find somebody else or got bored.

You described your experience so nice but at the end foids are just limbic animals which motivation it's selfish survival.
Hope you can at least find some peace man.
 
Cincel said:
Mogs many of us for hug a foid and not had been paying for it :feelshaha::feelsrope:
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I've hugged a foid once or no even thrice. It was an extremely drunk woman in her middle 30s in front of a bar. It's really not that difficult to get a hug from a female, genuinely just get drunk asf in a bar, and socializing is a fucking nothing-burger. Of course this would lead to alcoholism if used in daily situations, so refrain to doing it only on Fridays/Saturdays.

Very important, use it only in local, well-known bars around your location, opening only after like 22:00. Self-explanatory, you don't wanna be in one where old guys n wymen hang out every afternoon, probably drinking away their pension.

Et voila, you've hugged a wyMAN. If you're early in, you get to enjoy random people buying you shots, just because you were already there.
 
Mogs me for going on a date with a foid i should chadfish to see what it's like :feelsdevil:
 
DottKo334 said:
He hasn't yet truly "ascended", just because he hugged a female.
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I can't see how a man who a woman (with mind clear) agree to hug, cannot ascend.
For me he already has. He received the deepest affection you can have, the intimate part is just formality.
 
Qizarate said:
I can't see how a man who a foid agree to hug, cannot ascend.
For me he already has. He received the deepest affection you can have, the intimate part is just formality.
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Well, it depends on the relation and also, the foid in OP's thread mentioned, spiked in emotions through chat messages, apparently always being the first one to initiate contact, before switching to exact opposite ways. Most normies don't see much importance in such shit, not to mention females. In fact, it's very usual for foids to act very intimate and emotional in the first date, especially over a mostly digital relationship, before just slowly distancing themselves & dropping them completely. Or just keep as a possible "friend", depending on their situation.
 
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Mogs me, but good for you

When I met some goth girl she told me after 10 days she doesn't want me contact her
 
Stop being a pussy, you could have ascended with her but you're too much of a low T cuck.
 
Absolute state of 2021cels
 
She clearly likes you and wants you to touch her body like a BF would. If you miss this chance to ascend, you deserve to be beheaded and quartered.

Ascend you fucking retarded inkie :lasereyes:
 
DottKo334 said:
I've hugged a foid once or no even thrice. It was an extremely drunk woman in her middle 30s in front of a bar. It's really not that difficult to get a hug from a female, genuinely just get drunk asf in a bar, and socializing is a fucking nothing-burger. Of course this would lead to alcoholism if used in daily situations, so refrain to doing it only on Fridays/Saturdays.

Very important, use it only in local, well-known bars around your location, opening only after like 22:00. Self-explanatory, you don't wanna be in one where old guys n wymen hang out every afternoon, probably drinking away their pension.

Et voila, you've hugged a wyMAN. If you're early in, you get to enjoy random people buying you shots, just because you were already there.
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Hugging drunk women it's against rules :feelskek:
I mean unlike OP which hugged a sober and conscious foid I never had that opportunity.

I am utterly repulsive and ugly that foids avoid me at all kek :feelsrope:
I only had hugged escorts, I even paid sometimes an extra hour just to cuddling with them.
 
Anthrofurrcel said:
She clearly likes you and wants you to touch her body like a BF would. If you miss this chance to ascend, you deserve to be beheaded and quartered.

Ascend you fucking retarded inkie :lasereyes:
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I think the same, when a foid looks after you and is nice as OP says she clearly likes you.
 
Cincel said:
Hugging drunk women it's against rules :feelskek:
I mean unlike OP which hugged a sober and conscious foid I never had that opportunity.

I am utterly repulsive and ugly that foids avoid me at all kek :feelsrope:
I only had hugged escorts, I even paid sometimes an extra hour just to cuddling with them.
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Idk if OP has hit that age to accept the escort cope, but he for sure seems pretty naive in terms of knowing people, so I wouldn't take it too serious. He wrote with her, she probably just did it to not directly say she's not interested, showed fake affection then did a 180 and is rn in the process of slowly discarding him through text messages.

That could happen to a 5/10 or even a 4/10 if you only know each other through text, he didn't specify the attractiveness of the foid also so, yeah.
 
the absolute state of fakecels.is
 
I'm glad it went well buddy. Like @TooSomething I encourage you to pursue. It really seems like you have a shot.
 
Only saw the title and i can say for a fact that i can't relate mog me from norway to south africa.
 
DottKo334 said:
Idk if OP has hit that age to accept the escort cope, but he for sure seems pretty naive in terms of knowing people, so I wouldn't take it too serious. He wrote with her, she probably just did it to not directly say she's not interested, showed fake affection then did a 180 and is rn in the process of slowly discarding him through text messages.

That could happen to a 5/10 or even a 4/10 if you only know each other through text, he didn't specify the attractiveness of the foid also so, yeah.
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Like I wrote earlier. He should initiate the next date.
As a man he is most likely expected to lead and also it's now his turn.
It is about time.

Also, after the date she wrote him several times.
It is said that when you've had your first date to not write her up to three days after that date.
If she contacts you in any way within those three days, then she is definetely interrested in you.

She did contact him, many times.

Dude has to make the next move.

Make that move, nigga!

Remember, if you ascend, banhammer for your face. Best of luck!
 
TooSomething said:
If she contacts you in any way within those three days, then she is definetely interrested in you.
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Seems like a pretty weird way to judge it, considering each individual, including females & males usually think & feel individually very differently. I just tried to judge by the signs that are very weird, you can say that for sure, doesn't mean sudden loss of motivation and/or drive to write someone isn't negative.

You could also say that after a first date, if a hoe starts texting you after a date saying how nice it was, then just replies with "hi." type responses is a definite way of knowing if she's interested.

I'm not saying that he shouldn't try, maybe it is just some weird foidish attention whoring behaviour, who tf knows, in the end it's all on him to go for it.
Still a pretty retarded thread, as if anyone here would even be able to give real G advice, it's kind of a deserved bragging warning. If not a temp ban for obvious attention-grab on an inceldom forum.
 
DottKo334 said:
Idk if OP has hit that age to accept the escort cope, but he for sure seems pretty naive in terms of knowing people, so I wouldn't take it too serious. He wrote with her, she probably just did it to not directly say she's not interested, showed fake affection then did a 180 and is rn in the process of slowly discarding him through text messages.

That could happen to a 5/10 or even a 4/10 if you only know each other through text, he didn't specify the attractiveness of the foid also so, yeah.
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Quite precise the modus operandi of foids when they "date" a man out of pity. I am not saying OP is such case but that's how foids behave.

I once was thru the phase I naively thought personality was important and I texted some girls. I am a 3/10 short ethnicel. Exactly how you described the process is how females discard men. All foids have lots of men at their will.

Its true that chads don't need dates, sub5's are the ones that must constantly looking after foids and keep the interest on them.

Chads in the other hand are bombed with tons of messages from foids as the most regular becky is aswell.
 
Cincel said:
Quite precise the modus operandi of foids when they "date" a man out of pity. I am not saying OP is such case but that's how foids behave.

I once was thru the phase I naively thought personality was important and I texted some girls. I am a 3/10 short ethnicel. Exactly how you described the process is how females discard men. All foids have lots of men at their will.

Its true that chads don't need dates, sub5's are the ones that must constantly looking after foids and keep the interest on them.

Chads in the other hand are bombed with tons of messages from foids as the most regular becky is aswell.
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Yeah, that's simply what I assumed, without any experience myself whatsoever though. It's just a typical behavior amongst humans in general, not wanting to be direct or insulting, and then slowly letting it dry, till discarded. It's not just applicable to dates but the fear of having to face the possibe hurt, or disappointment, of someone after shit.
 
will you ascend or will you hit 3000 posts? stay tuned for the next episode of dragon ball z!
 
DottKo334 said:
Yeah, that's simply what I assumed, without any experience myself whatsoever though. It's just a typical behavior amongst humans in general, not wanting to be direct or insulting, and then slowly letting it dry, till discarded. It's not just applicable to dates but the fear of having to face the possibe hurt, or disappointment, of someone after shit.
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The only "date" I had the foidlet told me directly she didn't want anything to do with me and said my personality was "nice" jfl :feelskek:
Just to maybe avoid the social anxiety she was thru.

That date was a blind date, arranged by my brother as the foid was a friend of family.
After that I learned a lot and despite I still tried to got a girl all experiences were as you said. I gave up that shit, it's not for me.

As I say incels are out of the game, we don't only know the rules but we don't even exist to them :feelsbadman:
 
god i cant wait till u end up on a cjng gore video like el cholo
 
Texting is a waste of time. Call her, chat to her, Facetime her and arrange the next meet.
 
Chingaquedito said:
well, this is the second part of one of my previous threads https://incels.is/threads/im-going-to-meet-in-real-life-a-woman-i-met-online.690796/#post-16339262

this happened aroun dec 21 and dec 22

i went to see her and i enjoyed it much, we went to a restaurant, she let me drink from her drink, constantly gave me some of her food, it's something I really appreciated. I've never tasted a girl's saliva before haha

she used to hug me a lot, at one point we stayed hugging so long that I started to feel her heart beating in my chest. and we talked for hours, I had never talked about such intimate things with another person in real life

i spent the whole day smiling

then the night came and i started to get extremely anxious in front of her, she noticed it and started to ask me if i was ok, of course i wasn't.

30 minutes later i was back in home, sweating and my heart was beating like crazy, and i felt extremely tired in terms of mind and body. for the first time in years i was able to fall asleep without taking any drugs, maybe I got tired of socializing so much, it sounds stupid, but I have never spent a whole day next to another person and talking for hours, but i found it depressing to think that I can't be with another person without wanting to run home alone for a few hours to deal with the anxiety :feelsrope: :feelsrope: :feelsrope: made me think that maybe some of us were born to be alone

this experience did not improve my mental condition, but it was definitely memorable, probably one of the best days of my life ;_; I never thought something like this would happen to me

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the first few days after we saw each other she was always texting me excitedly reminiscing about what happened, she said it was very fun, now she just dry texts me :feelsrope: :feelsrope::feelsrope:
I hope things get better in the future, even though she sends me dry messages, she is always the one who sends the first message
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Wish you well hope you stay blessed
 
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