Not saying women never get rejected, but I would say that most women never get rejected on the scale even an average man gets. Women are the gatekeepers of both sex and relationships (despite what TRP will say; they’re wrong as men aren’t even the gatekeepers of relationships unless they’re attractive) and are often the ones that will decide whether or not a romantic relationship or even a hookup will happen. Women also play a passive role in courtship and rarely ask out men (though of course they will very obviously let a man know she’s into him so he’ll know to ask her out) and therefore get to pick and choose who they are involved with, unlike most men. Women can obviously easily get sex, and women will also on average have an easier time getting in a relationship than guys will. It would be very easy for a man to stay a kissless virgin if he never asked out girls but most women will in their lives turn down men all the time (and no, not all the men they turn down are creepy old perverts, some guys are good guys but are just too unattractive, awkward and sometimes inexperienced). And women have every right to turn down who they want to, but because women are the ones being chased and are the prize (the only men who are chased are Chads), women generally won’t go through a ton of romantic and sexual rejection in their lives. Rather, they’ll reject men who aren’t up to their fancy. While guys like us lay in bed fearing dying alone and unloved.
And rejection is normal for all men, but living with nothing but rejection is poison for the mind and soul.
It just is what it is.
And rejection is normal for all men, but living with nothing but rejection is poison for the mind and soul.
It just is what it is.
