I feel depressed and miserable every day due to being an incel and every day is unbearable

[ihatelife2]

Who can relate?

 

[Violet loner]

Me

 

[ihatelife2]

Me

I'm sorry brocel, how do you cope and get through life?

 

[svgmn1]

Being deprived of romance for life while watching others having it almost everyday is like being a starved african slave chained by a billionaire as the latter indulges in consuming a robuchon all the time while forcing the slave to watch him. and despite how delicate and tasteful a robuchon sounds, it would eventually be an understatement as an analogy.

 

[Violet loner]

I'm sorry brocel, how do you cope and get through life?

Dunno a certain method. Im tryna with lifting weights and collecting anime figurines. And how are you coping?

 

[ihatelife2]

Dunno a certain method. Im tryna with lifting weights and collecting anime figurines. And how are you coping?

That's good, I'm glad you're doing that, I'm going to try going on walks now that it's warmer. I usually ldar and watch youtube but hard to really maintain interest in anything.

Being deprived of romance for life while watching others having it almost everyday is like being a starved african slave chained by a billionaire as the latter indulges in consuming a robuchon all the time while forcing the slave to watch him. and despite how delicate and tasteful a robuchon sounds, it would eventually be an understatement as an analogy.

Make no mistake, sexhavers love to know that we're suffering and that they have someone to feel superior to.

 

[poorenglishcel]

Yeah same. I don't have the motivation to anything . I can still manage to play games though so i cope with them. To me not being always alone is such a alien concept that i don't even mind my inceldom. I never cared enough about ascending to ever try anything. It's not like i am dont' feel sexual desires. It's some sort of mental thing. Idk.

 

[ihatelife2]

Yeah same. I don't have the motivation to anything . I can still manage to play games though so i cope with them. To me not being always alone is such a alien concept that i don't even mind my inceldom. I never cared enough about ascending to ever try anything. It's not like i am dont' feel sexual desires. It's some sort of mental thing. Idk.

Ah that's tough man, I'm glad vidya gives you something to do.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

I've been feeling a lot more depressed lately, but that is because I reduced my nicotine dose.

IMO our realities are shaped by our neurochemistry, thus the best way to cope is to find ways to balance your hormones and neurotransmitters to optimal levels. HIIT exercise seems to work for me, I sometimes start laughing more after an intense exercise session. Probably due to enhanced D2 receptor activity. Same thing with meditation.

Things could be better, but they could also be a lot worse. We take so much for granted.

 

[Violet loner]

That's good, I'm glad you're doing that, I'm going to try going on walks now that it's warmer. I usually ldar and watch youtube but hard to really maintain interest in anything.


Make no mistake, sexhavers love to know that we're suffering and that they have someone to feel superior to.

Better to jog than walking

 

[ihatelife2]

I've been feeling a lot more depressed lately, but that is because I reduced my nicotine dose.

IMO our realities are shaped by our neurochemistry, thus the best way to cope is to find ways to balance your hormones and neurotransmitters to optimal levels. HIIT exercise seems to work for me, I sometimes start laughing more after an intense exercise session. Probably due to enhanced D2 receptor activity. Same thing with meditation.

Things could be better, but they could also be a lot worse. We take so much for granted.

I'm sorry you've been feeling worse after less nicotine. Thanks for the advice. I will try exercising to increase dopamine.

 

[St3v3Cel]

It is important to remember that life goes in a loop where things feel bad, then good and then bad again. It is always that kind of loop. Right now you are feeling bad, but eventually you will feel somewhat "good" again, at least in comparison to how you feel now. There's nothing one can do to move between these stages, they happen on their own most of the time. But it helps to be aware of this loop.

 

[St3v3Cel]

It is important to remember that life goes in a loop where things feel bad, then good and then bad again. It is always that kind of loop. Right now you are feeling bad, but eventually you will feel somewhat "good" again, at least in comparison to how you feel now. There's nothing one can do to move between these stages, they happen on their own most of the time. But it helps to be aware of this loop.

How long each "stage" lasts is also completely random. The loop never ends though.

 

[Sir Silentium]

Yeah same. I don't have the motivation to anything . I can still manage to play games though so i cope with them. To me not being always alone is such a alien concept that i don't even mind my inceldom. I never cared enough about ascending to ever try anything. It's not like i am dont' feel sexual desires. It's some sort of mental thing. Idk.

Yes. And even after trying to ascend for years, there has to be a limit where you pull the plug, a limit where you just have to accept reality.
It goes from trying to ascend, to trying to find copes.

 

[Dr.Crusty]

Who can relate?

ITS OVER

 

[ihatelife2]

It is important to remember that life goes in a loop where things feel bad, then good and then bad again. It is always that kind of loop. Right now you are feeling bad, but eventually you will feel somewhat "good" again, at least in comparison to how you feel now. There's nothing one can do to move between these stages, they happen on their own most of the time. But it helps to be aware of this loop.

I wish you were right. I've literally been ruminating every day for twenty years and feeling miserable every day. I'm late 30s. I don't ever feel better except when I'm asleep. I wish I was exaggerating.

 

[St3v3Cel]

I wish you were right. I've literally been ruminating every day for twenty years and feeling miserable every day. I'm late 30s. I don't ever feel better except when I'm asleep. I wish I was exaggerating.

I find that hard to believe. There must have been days in the last 20 years where you felt at least 5 or 10% better than you do today, as well as days where you felt 10 or 20% worse.

 

[ihatelife2]

I find that hard to believe. There must have been days in the last 20 years where you felt at least 5 or 10% better than you do today, as well as days where you felt 10 or 20% worse.

I wouldn't be able to assess if it was smaller percentages. What I do know is I've felt absolutely miserable and ruminated on not having a gf every day since my teens. I definitely haven't had any days I didn't feel bad, unfortunately.

 

[St3v3Cel]

I wouldn't be able to assess if it was smaller percentages. What I do know is I've felt absolutely miserable and ruminated on not having a gf every day since my teens. I definitely haven't had any days I didn't feel bad, unfortunately.

Well, you are definitely a trucel brocel. At least you have that

 

[ihatelife2]

Well, you are definitely a trucel brocel. At least you have that

So you don't have advice on how to feel better? I know you said you can't change the cycles but maybe something is wrong with me that I'm so obsessed with wanting a relationship and sex? How do you manage to be at peace with it and not being constantly upset?

 

[St3v3Cel]

So you don't have advice on how to feel better? I know you said you can't change the cycles but maybe something is wrong with me that I'm so obsessed with wanting a relationship and sex? How do you manage to be at peace with it and not being constantly upset?

I am lovepilled and friendpilled. I don't believe in love or friends. I think those things are memes and that believing in and longing for them is a mental illness. Loneliness is not some profound thing to me. It is just a pain, not anything more meaningful than an elbow scratch. Sure, it hurts but a pain is all it is. It would be nice to live without pain and lack of pleasure but those things are not important to me. What I live for is seeking knowledge. "The truth", if you will. I am planning on writing threads about these topics.

 

[ihatelife2]

I am lovepilled and friendpilled. I don't believe in love or friends. I think those things are memes and that believing in and longing for them is a mental illness. Loneliness is not some profound thing to me. It is just a pain, not anything more meaningful than an elbow scratch. Sure, it hurts but a pain is all it is. It would be nice to live without pain and lack of pleasure but those things are not important to me. What I live for is seeking knowledge. "The truth", if you will. I am planning on writing threads about these topics.

Please do, I'd be interested in reading your threads.

 

[Caichan]

just chillax

 

[St3v3Cel]

Please do, I'd be interested in reading your threads.

I will try to remember to quote you in them once they are finished. They are going to take a while though, as it is going to be a series of interrelated threads. I might title it something like "The Complete Blackpill According to St3v3Cel".

 

[ihatelife2]

I will try to remember to quote you in them once they are finished. They are going to take a while though, as it is going to be a series of interrelated threads. I might title it something like "The Complete Blackpill According to St3v3Cel".

Take your time

 

[Stormfrontcel]

Me