Venting I failed

[Deleted member 21760]

I tried to be a stoic-cel but I failed. How can I behave as a stoic by accepting my shitty life and be okey with it? How can I be insensible to what others think or say about me because it's not in my power to change that? How can I be just when everyone tries to take advantage from me and then throw me like garbage? How can I not pay attention to the mockeries and insults of others? By trying to apply this shitty philosophy I was only rubbing salt in the wound.

 

[BenBerger]

Stoicism is good if you can detach yourself physically from normies. Other wise it's a pure nightmare.

 

[Deleted member 22907]

Go ER

 

[Deleted member 19858]

im bottom of the barrel, might as well act like it

 

[Deleted member 21908]

Go ER

 

[Deleted member 21760]

Stoicism is good if you can detach yourself physically from normies. Other wise it's a pure nightmare.

And from incels too. Am I wrong?

Go ER

Silly solution tbh

 

[Animecel2D]

Take some jewpills to turn you into a zombie. Then you will be perfectly content with the shitty hand you have been given in life, and accept things as they are without reaction.

 

[Yerberito]

At the end we are nihilist

 

[Deleted member 21760]

Take some jewpills to turn you into a zombie. Then you will be perfectly content with the shitty hand you have been given in life, and accept things as they are without reaction.

By jewpills, you mean Christianity/Islam?

At the end we are nihilist

Nihilism is the natural state of every incel tbh. How can you believe in a God, a "just" cause, an ideology or morality as an incel? JFL

 

[Animecel2D]

By jewpills, you mean Christianity/Islam?

No, I mean antidepressants which make you numb and hollow. Some of them will even reduce your libido.

 

[Deleted member 21760]

No, I mean antidepressants which make you numb and hollow. Some of them will even reduce your libido.

No thanks I prefer to be in constant struggle and fight with my own failures and be tortured by them than to escape the pain they caused in such a coward way.

 

[Animecel2D]

No thanks I prefer to be in constant struggle and fight with my own failures and be tortured by them than to escape the pain they caused in such a coward way.

Based, but you sound a little masochistic when you put it that way.
Why would you want accept your shit life in the first place. That would only be ignoring your failures.

 

[Deleted member 21760]

Based, but you sound a little masochistic when you put it that way.
Why would you want accept your shit life in the first place. That would only be ignoring your failures.

I was diagnosed with severe depression in 2011 and the shrink gave me some antidepressants and one of them was very powerful I don't know its name in English but in French its name is Nordaz and after taking only one pill I completely refused to take it again (some people use it as a drug to get high in my country). I want to accept my fate as a failure socially and romantically speaking. I want to improve other aspects of my life but I simply can't forget that I'm lonely as hell and due to my neuroatypical behavoir I'll remain alone to the last day of my life (it's a biological thing to fear loneliness...) Btw, you cannot ignore your failure if you browse this forum. I want to never come back to this circus (incels.co) but it's the only place where I can talk (even virtually) to people who understand me and who aren't hypocrite faggots.

 

[Stalin]

tried to be a stoic-cel but I failed. How can I behave as a stoic by accepting my shitty life and be okey with it? How can I be insensible to what others think or say about me because it's not in my power to change that? How can I be just when everyone tries to take advantage from me and then throw me like garbage? How can I not pay attention to the mockeries and insults of others? By trying to apply this shitty philosophy I was only rubbing salt in the wound.

Stoicism is a cope but what exactly did you do? Like did not watch the porn for one day?

 

[Deleted member 21760]

Stoicism is a cope but what exactly did you do? Like did not watch the porn for one day?

I usually don't watch porn tbh. I usually fap to pics. I tried to change the way I see things, my life, the things I lack and want to acquire, my behaviour toward others and how I react to their actions, to what they say...

 

[Animecel2D]

I was diagnosed with severe depression in 2011 and the shrink gave me some antidepressants and one of them was very powerful I don't know its name in English but in French its name is Nordaz and after taking only one pill I completely refused to take it again (some people use it as a drug to get high in my country). I want to accept my fate as a failure socially and romantically speaking. I want to improve other aspects of my life but I simply can't forget that I'm lonely as hell and due to my neuroatypical behavoir I'll remain alone to the last day of my life (it's a biological thing to fear loneliness...) Btw, you cannot ignore your failure if you browse this forum. I want to never come back to this circus (incels.co) but it's the only place where I can talk (even virtually) to people who understand me and who aren't hypocrite faggots.

Why would you want to accept that? Doesn’t it make you feel even a little bit angry that you were doomed to solitude because of factors beyond your control?

There is no such thing as acceptance of failure, or acceptance of being genetic trash. You will always have a hole in your heart, no matter how much you cope with other things in your life.

Stoicism is nothing more than wearing a flimsy suit of cast Iron. Crack by crack, that armor will break under the weight of their words and actions towards you. Stoicism is bottling it In, and waiting for it to explode.

 

[Stalin]

I usually don't watch porn tbh. I usually fap to pics. I tried to change the way I see things, my life, the things I lack and want to acquire, my behaviour toward others and how I react to their actions, to what they say...

Stoicism-cope simply does not work unless you put a high effort into it.
Try to f*p at most 1 time every 7..10 days.

I tried to change the way I see things, my life

thats some start

my behaviour toward others and how I react to their actions, to what they say...

sorry but this will not work, others are always normies - you'll never build a profitable, useful connections with them
try to find one or two incel tier friends with a good personalities

to what they say...

never depend on this

Stoicism is nothing more than wearing a flimsy suit of cast Iron. Crack by crack, that armor will break under the weight of their words and actions towards you. Stoicism is bottling it In, and waiting for it to explode.

Good analogy, but you miss the thing that armor could be always rebuilt by putting more and more plates over it.

and waiting for it to explode.

Sometimes we die faster naturally before it explodes.

 

[Deleted member 21760]

Why would you want to accept that? Doesn’t it make you feel even a little bit angry that you were doomed to solitude because of factors beyond your control?

There is no such thing as acceptance of failure, or acceptance of being genetic trash. You will always have a hole in your heart, no matter how much you cope with other things in your life.

Stoicism is nothing more than wearing a flimsy suit of cast Iron. Crack by crack, that armor will break under the weight of their words and actions towards you. Stoicism is bottling it In, and waiting for it to explode.

Actually I don't have a hole in my heart I have an abyss. The hatred I have inside me is indescribable. I envy everyone who isn't an incel. I envy them even for living a "normal" life. I'm not talking here about foids. I'm talking about the basic stuff such as having friends, going out and travelling with friends. Enjoying normies' stuff such as silly Netflix series, sports, having followers and friends on social media, etc.

Stoicism-cope simply does not work unless you put a high effort into it.
Try to f*p at most 1 time every 7..10 days.

I tried to fap only once on sundays but I failed.

sorry but this will not work, others are always normies - you'll never build a profitable, useful connections with them
try to find one or two incel tier friends with a good personalities

I'm talking about not giving a fuck about what they think about me and how they behave towards me. I don't like normies. But I need to interact with them in univeristy or in the grocery store you know...

 

[Stalin]

I envy them even for living a "normal" life.

i don't envy anyone including chads - jealousy can very fast eat you from inside.

I don't like normies. But I need to interact with them in univeristy or in the grocery store you know...

Yes I remember those days. Always try to keep interaction to the minimum(silly advice I know).

Are you incel tier or truecel?

 

[BenBerger]

And from incels too. Am I wrong?

Not sure. Normies are obsessed with insulting incels. so Stoicism would be good if you can escape the normie.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Go ER