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Blackpill I don’t understand the "Yay I got a job!"

Nordicel94

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People I see in movies and IRL being excited to get a job is so foreign to me, and I mean low-skilled jobs, not becoming a lawyer or some shit.

To me, having a job seems like a nightmare, not something to be celebrated. But I realize that to normies it's just a place you go, do some tasks and then you get money.

I'm on disability so I guess I'm privileged in that I don't need to work right now, but I don't get much money. The disconnect for me is that these people are excited because when they get a job, they're thinking of the money and what they can use it for. Buy a new car, go to the movies with friends, go on dates, go to bars and restaurants. To them, when they're happy about getting a job, they're seeing opportunity.

I on the other hand, hardly spend any money. Any money that goes beyond the bare necessities doesn't register to me, because what would I spend it on? To spend money is to participate in society and I don't do that.

If I get $1000 dollars a month in disability and they get $2000 working 40 hours that looks like a horrible deal to me. Because to me, there is no difference between $1000 and $2000 because I don't actually do anything, but I'm forgetting that they actually have a life, that they want to move up, that a job to them is just a small inconvenience to fund fun stuff. That's how far removed I am from society, someone being happy about getting a job is so foreign to me.
 
Normies tried to shame me and manipulate me to make me get a shitty job.
 
You have a privilege of sorts, so of course you would prefer that. Still normies operate on another wavelength than yours. They want to buy houses, travel, have expensive cars, buy stuff, go out and spend money. You don't have the same needs so you don't need as much money
 
It's part of the society conditioning.

They want you to slave away most of your life.

They want to make it seem like getting a job is this happy moment that needs to be celebrated, but what actually happens is you will work for an ungrateful boss in a stressful job that will suck your soul and take away almost all your free time.
 
when i got my first job i was excited because i was going to make my own money and because its a new experience. That faded after a month and now i plan on quitting
 
You have a privilege of sorts, so of course you would prefer that. Still normies operate on another wavelength than yours. They want to buy houses, travel, have expensive cars, buy stuff, go out and spend money. You don't have the same needs so you don't need as much money
Even many incels like me are materialistic and need money to spend on hobbies since it's all we have. OP is lucky to not feel the need to buy things that bring enjoyment in life
 
capitalist propaganda? to be excited for getting a job? welcome to the perpetual system
 
Even many incels like me are materialistic and need money to spend on hobbies since it's all we have. OP is lucky to not feel the need to buy things that bring enjoyment in life
Yeah, but all I do is watch shows, read and play the occasional game on the Switch. I guess I'm lucky that my hobbies aren't expensive.
 
Yeah, but all I do is watch shows, read and play the occasional game on the Switch. I guess I'm lucky that my hobbies aren't expensive.
Yeah. I watch shows too so I enjoy that cheap hobby but other than that very little brings me joy except cars. And gasoline ain’t cheap and neither are the car repairs that are inevitably needed as your car gets older and higher mileage. Honestly my car hobby has been the only thing that kept me somewhat happy most of my life. A week ago I was going cruising at 70 mph on the highway and was passing everyone and then got to a section with no cars and then sped up to 90. Shit felt fun as hell and the thrill lasted hours after I was done.
 
I would love to live off of NEETbux, however I do not have that opportunity so I have to work.
 
For many of us, it is basically work or be homeless/starve as we do not have the luxury of being able to support ourselves otherwise.

In the eyes of most people, perhaps it is the idea of "Yay! I have been saved from destitution!"
 
If I get $1000 dollars a month in disability and they get $2000 working 40 hours that looks like a horrible deal to me. Because to me, there is no difference between $1000 and $2000 because I don't actually do anything, but I'm forgetting that they actually have a life, that they want to move up, that a job to them is just a small inconvenience to fund fun stuff.
I feel that 100%

I only work because I was raised with the mindset that it would be super important to have a job, even though I dont want one and i could live the same way I live now, simply by neetmaxx, I dont need that much in life
 
I was looking for a job and then I found a job. And heaven knows I'm miserable now.
 
Depends on the job imo. A high paying but low stress job would be amazing. Problem is those dont exist for the bottom of society. We are expected to do hard labour legitimately breaking your body in exchange for 15 euros per hour. Only other option is getting abused in retail or flippin burgers.
 
The other option is to starve to death :feelscry:
 
Same some called old 'friends' telling me im a loser and i have no value cause i dont have a job lol
It's like they are controlled by a computer telling them what to do
 
I am depressed from rotting and having nothing to do so I am actually looking forward to working.

It helps if you got a good job environment. It will be hell to deal with a bunch of faggots.
 
I am depressed from rotting and having nothing to do so I am actually looking forward to working.

Same, I actually enjoy working. It keeps me away from my miserable thoughts and self. What I don't enjoy is dealing with people. The only drawback. Besides, working and earning a wage is still way better than neetbux.
 
Depends on the job imo. A high paying but low stress job would be amazing. Problem is those dont exist for the bottom of society. We are expected to do hard labour legitimately breaking your body in exchange for 15 euros per hour. Only other option is getting abused in retail or flippin burgers.
And if you miss the window of being young and impressionable getting a trade or studying at 25-30+ the chances of getting a job compared to your fresh face younger counterparts is near impossible. It's physical labor for people like us until we die sadly. I enjoy physical work though so that's a bonus.
 
I am depressed from rotting and having nothing to do so I am actually looking forward to working.

You’re looking forward to it now, when you’ll be a few months in to the job it will be a different story.
It keeps me away from my miserable thoughts and self.

Man sometimes I wish I could be a workaholic to distract myself. That would be a no. 1 cope.
 
We also have to remember that these "people" actually look forward to meeting new colleagues. They look forward to mating opportunities, maybe not directly in the work place, but they know that through contacts, after work parties etc. they will have access to more potential partners.
 
for me when i had a job really long ago, it was more like the same dissociation routine as at my room except after earning coin i treated myself to creative cope supplies so when i was able to imagine having fun with them i went chyea dawg! it forced me to be physically active rather than truly productive. fast forward to now, where every time i watch a show and see them playing the role of already having a job i’m like nah that’s actually nuts, i bet they freely hop jobs because surely it’s easy for those normies to get hired. like i’m sure in those shows the practical living prospects isn’t scaling with the real economy lmao. i don’t think i can deal with being around people /restricted/ to a single space anymore. and i have problems, it makes me irrationally seethe even just breathing needing to expect the next work interaction. it’s suffocating to the point i can’t handle it anymore and i thought i could ignore it by dissociating in public but after a certain duration that was no longer effective
 
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And if you miss the window of being young and impressionable getting a trade or studying at 25-30+ the chances of getting a job compared to your fresh face younger counterparts is near impossible. It's physical labor for people like us until we die sadly. I enjoy physical work though so that's a bonus.
I enjoy physical work too the only problem is that it feels like trading your health for a small amount of money
 
Same some called old 'friends' telling me im a loser and i have no value cause i dont have a job lol
The guys who pressured me to get a job enjoyed larping as the leftists against prejudice.
But by shaming me for not having a job they were ableist.
Left wing normies are liars.
 

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