Bagelcel
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My condolences you seem like a nice guy tbhNot truecel enough apparently.
My condolences you seem like a nice guy tbhNot truecel enough apparently.
You too. I'll message you about that hair stuff tomorrow, just been busy watching animu lately.My condolences you seem like a nice guy tbh
Yeah let me know, what anime you watching?You too. I'll message you about that hair stuff tomorrow, just been busy watching animu lately.
Bakemonogatari. I've got mixed feelings about it, but it's decent enough.Yeah let me know, what anime you watching?
Any recommendations ?
As a legit autist, no they're not.Autists and schizos are the only mentalcels I respect because those are real problems. They are as bad as us ugly guys.
Dude, when you think you're mentalcel, you're either
Dude, when you think you're mentalcel, you're either
- Coping truecel
- Waiting for a landwhale to be dick hungry and desperate enough to deal with your retardation
- Coping truecel
- Waiting for a landwhale to be dick hungry and desperate enough to deal with your retardation
What you got then?I wish I was a mentalcel
My god you're fucking retarded.He isn't incel, nor is anyone who has had sex in the past, but I empathize with his struggles. He deserves to be here, but he is not "worthy" of the incel label.
Incel = never had sex and will never get it. That's my definition.My god you're fucking retarded.
Are there legit guys here to unironically think they're a Chadlite, but can't get laid because of "muh social anxiety?" I don't think those guys exist.
You want me to approach random foids during the day? I think we all know how that would go (@uninstall).
If I had friends, I would try to talk to foids in my social circle, but I don't. I've never been friends with a foid before only guys and now I have no friends.
I think I get what you're trying to say. You seem to specialize on the looks aspect of incel theory, which is laudable. However, I think the difference between so-called "emtalcels" and "lookscels" is that the former is more likely to repel the opposite sex due to their personality
Normalfags get rejected 90-95% of the time because of looks.
Lookscels get rejected 100% of the time.
Daily Reminder that OP has had sex.
Incel = never had sex and will never get it. That's my definition.
Bruh I fucked 20 women in my youth but now I got fat and aged badly so I'm totally an incel like you guys.An OK looking guy who had sex can become incel if he ages bad/gets fat.
The definition of incel for me is someone whose current quality of life is noticeably hindered by his looks.
You are a mentalcel, high iq thread but I dont see why you are the one posting it.The mentalcels here will say that they're a mixture of mentalcel and lookscel (ugly, short, etc). They will even say: "we mentalcels have it worse cuz we can't get surgery for our brains. Lookscels can get surgery for their looks".
There is an assumption that a 2/10 lookscel can get surgery to become a 6/10. I won't address that here, but I will simply say that you ususally can't jump from a 2 to a 6. From a 2 to a 4 would be large enough. You are ignorant if you think surgery can make ugly men borderline handsome. I digress.
1. Mentalcels have no idea what it's like to cause a failo (reverse-halo) effect simply by being seen. By merely sitting on a seat on a train, you get women showing discomfort, fear and annoyance. This is something that lookscels face way more than most mentalcels do, whose unattractiveness only comes to light when they have to speak or socialize.
2. As lookscels, we are lookism-victims. All of the memes about looks are aimed at us and are blackpills for us. You mentalcels are in the cognitive dissonance of posting about looks all day when it's your high inhbition, social anxiety and aspergers that are bigger flaws than your face, or that get you rejected first, ahead of your face. Imagine every looks meme having 100% application to you. That's what we face as lookscels. There are hardly any memes in this community of the type: "study reveals that aspergers makes you 14% less attractive". No. The blackpills aren't for you to swallow. They're for us to swallow: "80% of men are unattractive to women". The looks blackpill is RECOGNIZED. The mentalcel pill doesn't really exist.
3. Being a lookscel means you prove IncelTears wrong. As a lookscel, we get rejected 90%+ for our looks. Sure our personalities could be better, e..g more outgoing, but it's hard to come across as outgoing when you're sub5 and no one sees you as an equal. I am pretty outgoing for my sub3 looks. Faulting my personality for my rejections is victim-blaming: my personality is good enough to get a gf. My face is NOT. As an uglycel/lookscel/facecel, I prove IT wrong. I don't just need more confidence. I don't just need less anxiety to be able to approach. I don't need better topics to discuss on a date. I don't need a personality-overhaul. My problem is as the red/blackpills say!
When IT and bluepillers talk about "fixing your personality", they're more speaking to mentalcels than uglycels. Our looks are the problem, not our anxiety or inhibition. We've approached a lot of women. Our problem isn't showing interest. It's reciprocity. We are incel because of our looks.The personality meme on the whole doesn't apply to us.
But if you have no friends, are NEET, pee into a bottle to avoid leaving the basement, don't wash, can't make eye-contact with HUMANS, can barely speak, etc then the personality meme DOES apply to you. Do you not SEE THIS???? The bluepilled advice is ACTUALLY LEGIT FOR YOU, you dipshit spastic aspies. Now, you may have become mentalcel because of rejections. That's a different issue if you have approached lots of women before. Most mentalcels have not done many approaches. Most mentalcels didn't become mentalcel through rejections but because of preexisting issues (e.g. autism). It's not your 2 rejections that made you a mentalcel. You were ALWAYS mentalcel.
And I have triggered the mentalcels here so I expect mentalcels to rage now but instead of ad hominems, you could always beat me with arguments.
it's over over 9000Most mentalcels didn't become mentalcel through rejections but because of preexisting issues (e.g. autism). It's not your 2 rejections that made you a mentalcel. You were ALWAYS mentalcel.
1. Mentalcels have no idea what it's like to cause a failo (reverse-halo) effect simply by being seen. By merely sitting on a seat on a train, you get women showing discomfort, fear and annoyance. This is something that lookscels face way more than most mentalcels do, whose unattractiveness only comes to light when they have to speak or socialize.
3. Being a lookscel means you prove IncelTears wrong. As a lookscel, we get rejected 90%+ for our looks
. Sure our personalities could be better, e..g more outgoing, but it's hard to come across as outgoing when you're sub5 and no one sees you as an equal. I am pretty outgoing for my sub3 looks. Faulting my personality for my rejections is victim-blaming: my personality is good enough to get a gf. My face is NOT. As an uglycel/lookscel/facecel, I prove IT wrong. I don't just need more confidence. I don't just need less anxiety to be able to approach. I don't need better topics to discuss on a date. I don't need a personality-overhaul. My problem is as the red/blackpills say! When IT and bluepillers talk about "fixing your personality", they're more speaking to mentalcels than uglycels.
But if you have no friends, are NEET, pee into a bottle to avoid leaving the basement, don't wash, can't make eye-contact with HUMANS, can barely speak, etc then the personality meme DOES apply to you
. Do you not SEE THIS????
Okay, so I'm a 5/10 mentalcel (with a womanly frame) but I also agree with a lot of @FACEandLMS 's OP and think he's one of the best posters around here. My response:
The stuff about surgery and points 1-2 I mostly agree with and I feel a lot of sympathy for facecels and know that I'll never be able to experience what they do. I did think this was funny, though:
Well, speaking and socialising are pretty important! You're not going to ascend without doing those, and inability to do them, or do them well, limits how much status you can gain, how much money you can get, what career you can do, how many meaningful and nurturing relationships with friends and for some people even family you can form.
I do feel for you, FLMS, because you seem like a good guy who has a pretty successful life other than Inceldom and who has tried a lot to improve his life. Whatever non-NT traits you have now do seem to have arisen from your inceldom which, in turn, results pretty much exclusively from your face. That seems incredibly "unjust", if justice is even a concept that can be applied for this. However, I don't know that all or most facecels are like this since looks and personality are entwined. You already show a degree of bitterness due to the way you are treated because of your looks (not saying that bitterness is unwarranted). Other, less stable, facecels might well develop more off-putting personalities as a result of their treatment.
So the bluepilled advice is just as useless to a mentalcel as to a facecel, even if to you it has the added issue of being offensive.
To this, I would add that you didn't mention several ways in which mentalceldom really does negatively affect your SMV:
1) Lowers your status pretty much directly by a large amount. Women are obsessed with status.
2) Hinders your chance to get a good social circle, which is a way that people meet women and has consoling benefits anyway even if you remain incel.
3) Hinders your ability to develop a good career, and therefore to moneymaxx.
Foids have a way of sniffing out non-NTness and brutally rejecting or insulting men who are even tinged with it.
Being a facecel does all of that but even EARLIER in the interaction.
1. It's pretty hard (but not impossible) to come off as high status when you look like you have Treacher Collins.
2. Who wants to befriend the ugly guy? I don't look as if I am successful with women so I don't look like a potential wingman, etc.
3. Ugly people need EXTREME talent to overcome lack of FACE.
Foids don't need to SNIFF ugly guys' lack of NTness out. They just look at our faces.
Why is this guy always so salty?
You talking about me?Being a lookscel means you prove IncelTears wrong. As a lookscel, we get rejected 90%+ for our looks
Good excuse for necroYou talking about me?
@Ropemaxx thoughts?They don't think they're chadlite. They have BDD. There are some guys here where it has been proven that they can get Tinder matches, but they still insist that they're incel. There are some mentalcels here who LARP as incel here, but on discord, confess that they rejected a girl in class or because they're religious!
The only mentalcels I have a soft-spot for are diagnosed autists. The mentalcels who are like: "I can't be bothered to do anything but LDAR. I'm a mentalcel" would soon get inspiration to do something with their lives if their parents told them to find their own place to live.
So you've never been out with friends and approached women before? I did that for a decade. And people here act like I have put herculean effort into getting a gf. If you have no friends to go out with, I can see how going to a nightclub on your own to approach girls would be hard.
BUT, you should at least be able to see that an uglycel like me, who has done 100s of IRL approaches since 2001 is in a different boat to a mentalcel 21 yo who has never spoken to a woman before because of anxiety.
Which is what IncelTears and bluepillers say is the problem that we ALL have. Their advice only helps MENTALCELS and then only a subset of them and only to an extent, but it does not help lookscels one iota.
@Gyros_Pretcel Diagnosed autists and schizos are the only true mentalcels. The common mentalcel here though is 5/10, can't speak to women because of low-self esteem ( @Facade -tier guys) and anxiety, they never talk about rejections or their looks, they're too scared to make a Tinder cuz if they get matches because of their LOOKS but then fuck up the conversation because of their PERSONALITY then that would give them cognitive dissonance and be triggering to them.
The average mentalcel here (not the diagnosed autists here), there is no yardstick to measure their inceldom by. Lemme explain.
1) Lookscels: you can measure our inceldom by our ugly traits: long philtrum, manlet height (if sub5 too), balding, etc.
2) Diagnosed mentalcels: you can measure their inceldom because of their NAMED condition: autism, etc.
3) The common mentalcel here - the goalposts move too much. They will say that mentalceldom is worse than looksceldom. When you point out to them that low-self esteem doesn't make one incel, then they will start to LARP as if they're ugly as well as mental. But how do you measure the inceldom of someone who doesn't have a diagnosis? "I am a mentalcel because I act aspie at times and don't have friends". How do you measure that? Then these are the guys who post on IT like: "I used to be incel guise but I left the basement once, put myself out there, got approached and life took off!!!".
Hey he was saying my username in his entire post how won't I necro this?Good excuse for necro
Of course He was clearly speaking specifically about you two years ago.Hey he was saying my username in his entire post how won't I necro this?