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I don't like to do stuff

Gyros_Pretcel

Gyros_Pretcel

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I don't like being busy.
Three pointless bullshit activities? Great, Nothing/Day.
Six pointless bullshit activities? Great, Nothing/Day

The moment you start doing something you start to compare and realize how little you get done per day, how limited your time is and how fast it runs on a small and large scale.

Don't get me wrong, I like to do stuff, but it puts me into not bearable full panic mode

Sure, doing nothing is objectively less than doing at least something, but it feels better as you have no real point of reference.

taking each day as it comes, makes me feel being in control and gives me a sense of safety.

I wish I could do away witz these bad feelings.
 
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I wish I could be a neet with a huge trust fund
 
I don't like being busy.
Three pointless bullshit activities? Great, Nothing/Day.
Six pointless bullshit activities? Great, Nothing/Day

The moment you start doing something you start to compare and realize how little you get done per day, how limited your time is and how fast it runs on a small and large scale.

Don't get me wrong, I like to do stuff, but it puts me into full panic mode, what is not preferable.

Doing nothing is objectively less than doing at least something, but it feels better as you have no point of reference.

taking each day as it comes, makes me feel being in control and gives me a sense of safety.
Normies are always talking about how you should “do something” and plan a bunch of useless bullshit into your life as if dicking off in public while you sit around is any better than dicking off at home. They cant even tell you to do something like learning an important skill or learning a new language because theyre all too lazy and stupid to do anything other than dick off with their friends.

Like you say, there is nothing wrong with taking each day as it comes
 
everything feels pointless
 
I'm not going into to work again for the 3rd straight week, he knows I have mental health problems
 
I love doing stuff but the catch is 90% of the stuff needs to be done with friends or a gf to actually be enjoyable.
I'm not going into to work again for the 3rd straight week, he knows I have mental health problems
Ur lucky. I have quit several jobs over mental health problems. I never tell them that is why because they would just dismiss it or whatever. I always have to make up some quick lame excuse why I have to quit. Can’t just say “crippling anxiety”
 
I find that when I'm working I can actually get a lot done in little time. Then I think about how much time I waste every day.
 
That as well.

i agree that its worse when u have been making yourself "busy" on som days or work a bit and then do nothing. when i waste away weeks on end like over the summer all the days bleed into eachother and i dont notic how much time i waste
 
Im low IQ so it doesn't matter what I do, I can't do anything that would actually make any difference, so why bother?

Its not like I'm some high IQ genius whose just wasting talent. I have no talent to waste. Makes rotting inevitable.

Anytime someone has asked me "don't you regret X" I try to legitimate feel regret, but I cant feel any, how can you have regret for something you couldn't have done? It's like feeling regret for getting some unavoidable disease because of your DNA. "I regret my DNA" makes no sense to say that.

The way I see regret - regret is something thats in your control, not something thats out of your control. As far as I am concerned I've had no control of anything thats happened to me, and for my low IQ, so I can't feel regret for anything.
 
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