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I don't know what's your situation but I honest to god have 0 options.

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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I've been thinking, really thinking, really using my brain to find a shred of an option. And I have none.

I do not know any women (except the ones I work with which wouldn't spit on me if I was on fire if it's not in their job description). I do not know any men that would introduce me to women.

Tbh I can even fake a normie personality and hide my autism for a while, I'm old enough to have this ability. But I have 0 friends or even acquaintances that I talk to, I have no options whatsoever.

I might actually be a virgin till I die. Or till 40 when some fat divorced cunt drops her standards, in which case I might prefer suicide.
 
I'm in the same spot even though I made a few friends and tried to go places, people either treat every venue as a "get in, get out" place and won't hang out outside of it, or if they hang out they don't want to help me or cannot help me as they've given up on creating new social connections and just rely on very old social connections.

Maybe we're supposed to go find explicit "singles scenes" even though they are notorious for being shit.
 
Many men are like you, they still deny it.
They're blind, you're not.
 
I'm in the same spot even though I made a few friends and tried to go places, people either treat every venue as a "get in, get out" place and won't hang out outside of it, or if they hang out they don't want to help me or cannot help me as they've given up on creating new social connections and just rely on very old social connections.

Maybe we're supposed to go find explicit "singles scenes" even though they are notorious for being shit.
My country is very backwards and I don't think there even are single scenes. I swear everybody hooks up with their colleagues or childhood/adolescence friends or something. I do not know of any other way people meet around here.
 
Ive been a shut-in hermit since age 16, and I'm 32 soon. Never finished any education, never had a job, no friends, never had any female interest in me.

I'm basically a prisoner in my own home, as I have no reason to leave the house and I hate interacting with people because my brain feels pain and anxiety anytime I have to do it because all my socialization experience is negative experiences.

In a weird kind of way that I can't really explain, but there seems to be a "calm" feeling to having nothing to lose. I have no steak for anything in the future, no skin in the game.
 
Many men are like you, they still deny it.
They're blind, you're not.
Idk man, I don't know of any other 26 year old virgins. I seem to be the only one, but I keep it a secret.
 
fuck overprotective daddies of teen girls
 
Ive been a shut-in hermit since age 16, and I'm 32 soon. Never finished any education, never had a job, no friends, never had any female interest in me.

I'm basically a prisoner in my own home, as I have no reason to leave the house and I hate interacting with people because my brain feels pain and anxiety anytime I have to do it because all my socialization experience is negative experiences.

In a weird kind of way that I can't really explain, but there seems to be a "calm" feeling to having nothing to lose. I have no steak for anything in the future, no skin in the game.
Aren't your biological instincts screaming at you? It's so painful for me to not know the touch of a woman.
 
Idk man, I don't know of any other 26 year old virgins. I seem to be the only one, but I keep it a secret.
You're definitely not the only one.
 
Or till 40 when some fat divorced cunt drops her standards, in which case I might prefer suicide.
JFL for waiting 40 years to get laid
This society is fucked for making fun of male sexuality
 
Aren't your biological instincts screaming at you? It's so painful for me to not know the touch of a woman.

What do you mean by this? You can have biological instincts but if you can't ever make use of them what difference does it make?
 
What do you mean by this? You can have biological instincts but if you can't ever make use of them what difference does it make?
It's not the difference it makes, it's the pain and the suffering it causes. Every day I think about my virginity, about not knowing affection and intimacy with a woman, about never having kissed, cuddled and "loved".
 
I'm in the same spot even though I made a few friends and tried to go places, people either treat every venue as a "get in, get out" place and won't hang out outside of it, or if they hang out they don't want to help me or cannot help me as they've given up on creating new social connections and just rely on very old social connections.

Maybe we're supposed to go find explicit "singles scenes" even though they are notorious for being shit.
If you have to resort to a singles group, you are undateable subhuman trash anyway.

The one I went to was 12 guys in their 30’s and a 2 fat foids in their 40’s that smoked like chimneys and both had just recently gotten out of relationships. Needless to say, probably 10 out of the 12 guys mogged the shit out of me and I had no interest in a roastie twice my age anyway.

The other one I went to was a Christian based one I heard on the radio. I showed up and I was the only young guy in a room full of boomers, so I left.
 
I have only one option. :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
You're definitely not the only one.
No I mean in real life not in here.
If you have to resort to a singles group, you are undateable subhuman trash anyway.

The one I went to was 12 guys in their 30’s and a 2 fat foids in their 40’s that smoked like chimneys and both had just recently gotten out of relationships. Needless to say, probably 10 out of the 12 guys mogged the shit out of me and I had no interest in a roastie twice my age anyway.

The other one I went to was a Christian based one I heard on the radio. I showed up and I was the only young guy in a room full of boomers, so I left.
So, what do guys like you an me have left? Seriously, is it just prostitutes and masturbation for us? No other options? I can't even go to a prostitute, not that I'd want a disease-ridden, uninterested cunt to take my hard-earned money for a few minutes of me sticking my dick in her.
 
Idk man, I don't know of any other 26 year old virgins. I seem to be the only one, but I keep it a secret.
You should hide it man, it will destroy your already low smv.
 
Idk man, I don't know of any other 26 year old virgins. I seem to be the only one, but I keep it a secret.
Many here are 25 yo virgins or incels
 
You should hide it man, it will destroy your already low smv.
My country is very backwards and I don't think there even are single scenes. I swear everybody hooks up with their colleagues or childhood/adolescence friends or something. I do not know of any other way people meet around here.
Theres gotta be something.
 
JFL for waiting 40 years to get laid
This society is fucked for making fun of male sexuality
Ive been a shut-in hermit since age 16, and I'm 32 soon. Never finished any education, never had a job, no friends, never had any female interest in me.

I'm basically a prisoner in my own home, as I have no reason to leave the house and I hate interacting with people because my brain feels pain and anxiety anytime I have to do it because all my socialization experience is negative experiences.

In a weird kind of way that I can't really explain, but there seems to be a "calm" feeling to having nothing to lose. I have no steak for anything in the future, no skin in the game.
Same for me. Increasingly not giving a fuck. Trying to focus on religion now (paganism) lol
 
I guess what annoys me the most is that I'm at a point where if I'm ever to improve, I HAVE TO BE DELUSIONAL. If my mind is set in reality and honesty with myself, I cannot change, because the reality is that it's over, I have to take on a delusional mindset that everything is okay and that I can go out and compete in the world, which is just 100% false.

Speaking with my Clinical Psychologist this is what they essentially want me to do, just to stop worrying about the reality and just focus on doing things here and there, even if it's just small things, to get better and improve life.

I just don't know how to take on that delusional state of mind, I can't pretend at all, I can't pretend that everything is okay and to ignore the reality of my situation, I can't do anything without constantly thinking of my situation, or being reminded of my place in the world anytime I do go outside. Just being aware of my situation kills all my motivation or interest in everything, why bother doing anything in this situation. LDAR is just a natural reaction and conclusion to the reality of my life. I've been at a point for years now where I just have no interest or care for anything.
 
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I have zero options as well. My coworker who is my only friend is an incel in denial lol. There is absolutely no way that I'll ever lose my virginity.
 
@RegisterUserName what you think
 
I guess what annoys me the most is that I'm at a point where if I'm ever to improve, I HAVE TO BE DELUSIONAL. If my mind is set in reality and honesty with myself, I cannot change, because the reality is that it's over, I have to take on a delusional mindset that everything is okay and that I can go out and compete in the world, which is just 100% false.

Speaking with my Clinical Psychologist this is what they essentially want me to do, just to stop worrying about the reality and just focus on doing things here and there, even if it's just small things, to get better and improve life.

I just don't know how to take on that delusional state of mind, I can't pretend at all, I can't pretend that everything is okay and to ignore the reality of my situation, I can't do anything without constantly thinking of my situation, or being reminded of my place in the world anytime I do go outside. Just being aware of my situation kills all my motivation or interest in everything, why bother doing anything in this situation. LDAR is just a natural reaction and conclusion to the reality of my life. I've been at a point for years now where I just have no interest or care for anything.
Memory wiping is all they have in this dystopia, with https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electroconvulsive_therapy if need be
 
fuck overprotective daddies of teen girls
cope if you think teen girls dads prevents them from fucking you. Teen girls will sneak around to fuck Chad if they have to (and even Brads and Tyrones to dab on her boomer dad)
 
Ive been a shut-in hermit since age 16, and I'm 32 soon. Never finished any education, never had a job, no friends, never had any female interest in me.
That's legendary if true. You certainly speak more clearly than people who claim to be educated and can't put two words together properly.
 
(Venting) Fuck normies and foids. Alot of us try our best to progress and yet they still treat us like shit. They are pathetic scum.
 
only hope for me is SEAmaxxing
 

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