ItheIthe
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If you don't meet the love of your life before 20, I don't believe you'll find true love. Of course, there can be rare cases, but I do believe this to be true the majority of the time.
The average age of marriage in the US is about 28. So let's say you meet your future spouse at 26. 26! Compare that to a century ago when people got married around age 19 or 20. Muh progression!
But, in 100% honesty, it's just really hard to imagine falling in love at 26. You're already working a 9-5. You've already dated numerous other people and had sex with numerous other people. So has your woman.
What is so special about it, then? How is it possibly special in any way when you're like the 9th guy she's dated and 13th she's had sex with, and vice versa? Both of you are already jaded from sifting in and out of relationships. It's just the next one up for each of you. I, HONESTLY, IN MY HEART OF HEARTS, just don't see how it's plausible at all. It really seems like 2 people who just don't want to be lonely, not 2 people in love.
The average age of marriage in the US is about 28. So let's say you meet your future spouse at 26. 26! Compare that to a century ago when people got married around age 19 or 20. Muh progression!
But, in 100% honesty, it's just really hard to imagine falling in love at 26. You're already working a 9-5. You've already dated numerous other people and had sex with numerous other people. So has your woman.
What is so special about it, then? How is it possibly special in any way when you're like the 9th guy she's dated and 13th she's had sex with, and vice versa? Both of you are already jaded from sifting in and out of relationships. It's just the next one up for each of you. I, HONESTLY, IN MY HEART OF HEARTS, just don't see how it's plausible at all. It really seems like 2 people who just don't want to be lonely, not 2 people in love.