I didn't realize people actually hung out after school

[daydreamER]

yeah i don't think introverts exist lol. idk how truecel or rich you are but if you can hardmaxx in any way i recommend it even if you only turn out a LTN, it wont get you a gf but it might significantly improve your social life.

I think you would fit in much better at looksfag.org. I mean this respectfully, you really don't seem like you belong here, GrAY.

 

[Allah (Real)]

I think you would fit in much better at looksfag.org. I mean this respectfully, you really don't seem like you belong here, GrAY.

You're right, I don't think i belong here either lol. I'm gonna check out looksmax.org, someone else also mentioned it to me. I'm probably gonna delete this account in a week, idk yet.

 

[daydreamER]

You're right, I don't think i belong here either lol. I'm gonna check out looksmax.org, someone else also mentioned it to me. I'm probably gonna delete this account in a week, idk yet.

Good luck to you man

 

[Allah (Real)]

Good luck to you man

thanks brocel

 

[guessthatsit]

I always just went home and LDAR'd.

 

[FreeCipher]

I had the same realization. When I first discovered that my classmates—some of whom I thought were my friends—not only hung out after school, but actually had friends who shared their interests and invited them to things, I was completely devastated. It changed my whole worldview. I couldn't fathom why I wasn't included, and it left me feeling like absolute shit. Looking back, it's clear that I hadn't made a real friend since elementary school.

I was LDARotting while all of this happened

 

[Yournotcold0]

To me that feels like shit that only happens in movies. But it's only because I never got to experience that

 

[ItsOverMan]

Even now I see people on Omegle and they're hanging out at their friend's house after school or having a slumber party or whatever, and they're in junior high or high school. I'm thinking "people hang out at a friend's house in high school? They spend night with them?"

 

[JKlancecaster069]

I always just went home and LDAR'd.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I had the same realization. When I first discovered that my classmates—some of whom I thought were my friends—not only hung out after school, but actually had friends who shared their interests and invited them to things, I was completely devastated. It changed my whole worldview. I couldn't fathom why I wasn't included, and it left me feeling like absolute shit. Looking back, it's clear that I hadn't made a real friend since elementary school.

I'm not even sure I had a "real" friend in elementary school. Just acquaintances, people you speak to during the school day. I spent the night at one friend's house one time in like 3rd grade, but so what. I went to somebody's birthday party at Pizza Hut in like 4th grade, so what. Eventually around 6th grade they realized I wasn't one of "them" and they didn't invite me or want me around anymore.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I'm not even sure I had a "real" friend in elementary school. Just acquaintances, people you speak to during the school day. I spent the night at one friend's house one time in like 3rd grade, but so what. I went to somebody's birthday party at Pizza Hut in like 4th grade, so what. Eventually around 6th grade they realized I wasn't one of "them" and they didn't invite me or want me around anymore.

Same, I was never truly a friend to anyone

 

[ItsOverMan]

What, you never had after school plans?

 

[ItsOverMan]

One guy in 9th grade asked me to come to his house to help him with geometry (since I was seen as the smart kid in class and good at math), I went there and helped him and it seemed like we became friends because we talked about the music we liked and he drove me home and we went to McDonalds, then after that he totally ignored me at school. Wouldn't even speak to me when we passed in the hallway.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I am neurotypical and it seemed like my communication and value in the eyes of normies only improved after i sorted my looks at least a bit though I also did become 10x more low inhib

 

[DutchCel01]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

Brutal. I stopped getting invited and started getting rejected to hangout after school at the age of like 12. I remember after the weekend they all went to the same party except me, cause no one asked me

 

[InternalJizzz]

same but I occasionally did hang out with people outside of school. since our houses were in close proximity.

 

[blackraven]

related to most of the experience detailing posts, planned to quote them, but if pinned all of them that would kind of defeat the point

 

[justuseless]

Nigga how did you not know that

 

[Mecoja]

Same, i realized it at 3rd or 4th grade. And that they go to one another's birthday parties. I had 3 "friends" i found out that 2 of them hated me and all 3 of them hang out often.

 

[underballer]

just not with you

 

[Popovshishman]

its my last grade in high school and only this grade i realized that people actually do go to parties in high school i thought this didn't even exist but just from overhearing people it's not only happen but it may involve up to like a hundred people can be far away usually involves a lot of normies trying to get women but failling to do so. I don't really care though because my parents would not allow me anyways and this is probably just suicidefuel as a sub 5 especially when you dont have any close friends or even aquantainces there to talk to (especially if they just spend their time trying to impress women)

I'm also in this position. I knew people hanged out anyway, but now they all talk to me about it and I can't do much besides smile and laugh with them and try to act interested. They'll never invite me to one of their parties though. It's a sad reality we find ourselves in. Atp I've just given up and resorted to drinking alone and trying to enjoy myself in my room but that's not a substitute for friends. Shame that everything's superficial, maybe it might get better for us one day but who am I kidding; probably not.

 

[BoneHermit666]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

same here but I was always going home as my mother always picked me up after school. My parents were overly protective plus I always had to help my mother out with looking after my little brother and cooking. I realised this only recently when I would be at the shopping mall or something