I didn't realize people actually hung out after school

[daydreamER]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

 

[Paladin]

To me that feels like shit that only happens in movies. But it's only because I never got to experience that

 

[daydreamER]

To me that feels like shit that only happens in movies. But it's only because I never got to experience that

I had similar feelings until I lurked their social medias and saw them posting pictures of themselves with each other, girls, etc. Now even if I ever got invited to anything I wouldn't know what to do. That's why developmental experiences are so important.

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

This exact realization is an underrated incel/social reject developmental milestone tbh.

 

[daydreamER]

This exact realization is an underrated incel/social reject developmental milestone tbh.

It is a canon event in the incel timeline. There should be a thread of events every incel experiences.

 

[Guatemalancel]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

its my last grade in high school and only this grade i realized that people actually do go to parties in high school i thought this didn't even exist but just from overhearing people it's not only happen but it may involve up to like a hundred people can be far away usually involves a lot of normies trying to get women but failling to do so. I don't really care though because my parents would not allow me anyways and this is probably just suicidefuel as a sub 5 especially when you dont have any close friends or even aquantainces there to talk to (especially if they just spend their time trying to impress women)

 

[daydreamER]

its my last grade in high school and only this grade i realized that people actually do go to parties in high school i thought this didn't even exist but just from overhearing people it's not only happen but it may involve up to like a hundred people can be far away usually involves a lot of normies trying to get women but failling to do so. I don't really care though because my parents would not allow me anyways and this is probably just suicidefuel as a sub 5 especially when you dont have any close friends or even aquantainces there to talk to (especially if they just spend their time trying to impress women)

That's brutal, mang. My parents would not have allowed me either but we never had to worry about it because we never got invited

 

[Guatemalancel]

its my last grade in high school and only this grade i realized that people actually do go to parties in high school i thought this didn't even exist but just from overhearing people it's not only happen but it may involve up to like a hundred people can be far away usually involves a lot of normies trying to get women but failling to do so. I don't really care though because my parents would not allow me anyways and this is probably just suicidefuel as a sub 5 especially when you dont have any close friends or even aquantainces there to talk to (especially if they just spend their time trying to impress women)

even at school i have few aquantainces no one i can call a friend and when I talk i just babble about random stuff although sometimes very interesting things but i get almost "left on read" whenever a woman is close cause normies would rather speak with a woman about dumb or stupid stuff or even hearing a woman tell her life story for hours just before a lesson so i usually wouldn't care about not hanging out after school if it wasn't for the fact even at school im often the last person people talk to unless i do jestermaxxing which i tried to stop since middle school

 

[AsiaCel]

This exact realization is an underrated incel/social reject developmental milestone tbh.

Very relatable

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I had the same realization. When I first discovered that my classmates—some of whom I thought were my friends—not only hung out after school, but actually had friends who shared their interests and invited them to things, I was completely devastated. It changed my whole worldview. I couldn't fathom why I wasn't included, and it left me feeling like absolute shit. Looking back, it's clear that I hadn't made a real friend since elementary school.

 

[Guatemalancel]

That's brutal, mang. My parents would not have allowed me either but we never had to worry about it because we never got invited

it's not even about invitations im rarely among normies who do get invited so i didnt even knew these existed it's only HTN and a few MTN that do get invited (i guess they filter out sub 5s and LTN) cause i never heard anyone below HTN or atleast MTN talk about parties. so I just overheard some talking about it 2 times this year and now i know parties like this exist and i dont even get people talking to me about what they did and what they went to or even hear about invitations i have to overhear to even know of its existence. and the the difference in what happens in my life between me and some of these people is crazy sometimes

 

[9009]

I always just went home and LDAR'd.

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

I always just went home and LDAR'd.

 

[SilverBullet]

To me that feels like shit that only happens in movies. But it's only because I never got to experience that

My exact thought, it’s such a foreign concept to us. But when i see kids riding their bikes after school, the reality sets in. We simply never experiences it. We went home and rotted

 

[kaijicel]

yh i was kinda mind blown

 

[Ibrahim997]

To me that feels like shit that only happens in movies. But it's only because I never got to experience that

What, you never had after school plans?

 

[Ibrahim997]

Nah, I knew. Just never knew others did not

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

What, you never had after school plans?

who has those besides normies

 

[daydreamER]

What, you never had after school plans?

JFL, never. I can count the times I met my "friends" outside of school since middle school on one hand.

Nah, I knew. Just never knew others did not

 

[coping_manlet]

I got to go home and hang out with my Nintendo ds. While other kids were out doing real things with one another

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

its my last grade in high school and only this grade i realized that people actually do go to parties in high school i thought this didn't even exist but just from overhearing people it's not only happen but it may involve up to like a hundred people can be far away usually involves a lot of normies trying to get women but failling to do so.

I had the same realization. When I first discovered that my classmates—some of whom I thought were my friends—not only hung out after school, but actually had friends who shared their interests and invited them to things, I was completely devastated. It changed my whole worldview. I couldn't fathom why I wasn't included, and it left me feeling like absolute shit. Looking back, it's clear that I hadn't made a real friend since elementary school.

Same here. It's insane to realize that while you are thinking in theoreticals about maybe doing those things once and how great it could be, they are already doing it and talking about it in front of you.

 

[Mistake]

I remember when I used to hang out with some group like once every few months (I assume they invited me because they felt bad) when I was a kid but they stopped talking to me and started making fun of me when I turned 14. They made plans in front of me

 

[curryboy420]

Our life's suck

 

[Rapistcel]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

For me it's exactly the same.

 

[Guatemalancel]

Same here. It's insane to realize that while you are thinking in theoreticals about maybe doing those things once and how great it could be, they are already doing it and talking about it in front of you.

it's probably not good unless you are a normie with a lot of friends or jestermaxxing and happy about it in most cases you will be ignored by most people that aren't your friends because they're often only there for women

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

it's probably not good unless you are a normie with a lot of friends or jestermaxxing and happy about it in most cases you will be ignored by most people that aren't your friends because they're often only there for women

Truth.

 

[unionistcel]

Yeah I heard about these parties and my mate (still my mate) played football with me and his Dad i realised later it was forced upon him. Wish I noticed and just went home I just wanted a friend ANY FRIEND sorry if you’re seeing this somehow

 

[Maocel]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

Didnt understand why they were yapping about things that happened outside of school for a while

 

[Maocel]

Didnt understand why they were yapping about things that happened outside of school for a while

Its over

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

I was LDARotting while all of this happened

 

[ERpill]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

i remember this realization too

fuck them

 

[Castaway]

Normfag trait if you hung out with friends after school

 

[UglyDumbass]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

i never had real friends. Everyone i spoke too was just someone who spoke to me cuz we shared the same class but that was it. Once the year was over they forgot about me

 

[Allah (Real)]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

This fucked me up hard when I first found out and continued to fuck me up each time I knew. I made an effort to try to hang out with others but it seemed like I was met with infinite friction coming from nowhere. It became obvious eventually that no behavior would make me likeable and the problem was my looks. "Men aren't lookist" is bs.

 

[Flagellum_Dei]

This exact realization is an underrated incel/social reject developmental milestone tbh.

True

 

[Flagellum_Dei]

"Men aren't lookist" is bs.

It's not. Communicating with normcattle is about being nt, even while being nonnt you can still learn it at some degree.

 

[fullofchagrin]

I remember first finding out late in middle school that people actually spent time with their friends after school and socialized. I thought school was just for learning and then going home and doing your own thing, but there were people going to parties and having fun outside of school too. Some of my so called friends were hanging out together without inviting me or anything. I don't think I have made a real friend since elementary school.

brutal

 

[fullofchagrin]

To me that feels like shit that only happens in movies. But it's only because I never got to experience that

same

 

[Allah (Real)]

It's not. Communicating with normcattle is about being nt, even while being nonnt you can still learn it at some degree.

I am neurotypical and it seemed like my communication and value in the eyes of normies only improved after i sorted my looks at least a bit though I also did become 10x more low inhib

 

[daydreamER]

It's not. Communicating with normcattle is about being nt, even while being nonnt you can still learn it at some degree.

I would say social hierarchies are decided at least 80 percent by looks. There is a reason you don't see many subpar looking people in groups that are high on the hierarchy.

 

[daydreamER]

I am neurotypical and it seemed like my communication and value in the eyes of normies only improved after i sorted my looks at least a bit though I also did become 10x more low inhib

You are NT and look okay? Why are you on this forum?

 

[Flagellum_Dei]

I would say social hierarchies are decided at least 80 percent by looks. There is a reason you don't see many subpar looking people in groups that are high on the hierarchy.

It's cuz normies are trying to jestermaxx for a foid and know that a sub5 near them would ruin it. Although they aren't lookists themselves.

 

[Allah (Real)]

You are NT and look okay? Why are you on this forum?

I meant acceptable for men, I definitely don't look good. I didn't mean I looked okay to women lol

Or maybe I am delusional and truecel, and it was the low inhib that saved me.

 

[Flagellum_Dei]

You are NT and look okay? Why are you on this forum?

Future is now, old man. Sub8 theory is real among zoomers.

 

[Allah (Real)]

I meant acceptable for men, I definitely don't look good. I didn't mean I looked okay to women lol

Or maybe I am delusional and truecel, and it was the low inhib that saved me.

i looked in the mirror and i can confirm. it is still over for me

 

[fullofchagrin]

I had similar feelings until I lurked their social medias and saw them posting pictures of themselves with each other, girls, etc. Now even if I ever got invited to anything I wouldn't know what to do. That's why developmental experiences are so important.

Some people say that face and height are all that matters, but they are wrong for the reason you listed. If you didn't have a normal childhood, it's over for you, unless you have at least chadlite features.

 

[Allah (Real)]

I had similar feelings until I lurked their social medias and saw them posting pictures of themselves with each other, girls, etc. Now even if I ever got invited to anything I wouldn't know what to do. That's why developmental experiences are so important.

if you're invited all you need to do is show up and try not to be high inhib, and eventually it becomes easier and easier to be more outgoing. negating introversion is a lot easier than you probably think it, because it likely isn't your nature. granted it's impossible to delude yourself out of introversion; if people ignore you every time you try to talk to them then you cant do anything, that's the lookism aspect. also if you're neurodivergent it might be a lot harder, idk though.

 

[daydreamER]

if you're invited all you need to do is show up and try not to be high inhib, and eventually it becomes easier and easier to be more outgoing. negating introversion is a lot easier than you probably think it, because it likely isn't your nature. granted it's impossible to delude yourself out of introversion; if people ignore you every time you try to talk to them then you cant do anything, that's the lookism aspect. also if you're neurodivergent it might be a lot harder, idk though.

I have never been invited to anything. I don't think I am naturally introverted, years of isolation socially crippled me.

 

[Allah (Real)]

I have never been invited to anything. I don't think I am naturally introverted, years of isolation socially crippled me.

yeah i don't think introverts exist lol. idk how truecel or rich you are but if you can hardmaxx in any way i recommend it even if you only turn out a LTN, it wont get you a gf but it might significantly improve your social life.