Your love for singing shouldn't be overwhelmed by your competitive nature or your envy, especially if you're not 'gifted'. Otherwise, you are gonna burn out very fast,
I see. There's certainly truth in what you're saying, that much is obvious. I'd be a fool to deny something like that, however, I believe that you're severely underestimating my drive that's fueled by hatred. As incels, we don't have many perks to our lives, but there is one notable thing that we can take advantage of us.
That being, we have the ability to tap into energy that would otherwise be spent in relationships and being loved by others. We build up contempt, hatred, and anger from our situations. We never allocate that energy anywhere, since we don't have anyone to spend time with and love.
People like Ado have to spend time on dates, cuddling, spending time with their partners. That's
time & energy she's spending that's not directly related to developing her skills further. I originally stated that her an I are the same age, but I found out that was incorrect. She's actually 3 years older than I, which means I have time to catch up with her skill.
I fully believe that if I proactively work hard enough and persevere, I will undoubtably surpass Ado.
It's a matter of what your innate qualities are limited to. You consciously realize how flawed and stagnate your acumen is and that there is minimal room for improvement.
Only if you sing for personal amusement, you'll never surpass someone with the talent of a recognized professional if you cannot even overcome your own self-criticisms. Just face it, this aspiration of yours to best that girl is hopeless; women have always been widely regarded as better aestheticians even if their skill and tenacity fail to reach the heights of the great artists in history.
You are a part of this forum. You should know how illogical, lazy, and foolish foids tend to be. This is why men have always surpassed women. We're the better gender,
that isn't even up for debate. I have to ask -- why do you hold such a pessimistic view? True, I may never surpass Ado, but even if I don't, what's the worst that could happen? That I feel inadequate? I, along with many others here, already grapple with that feeling -- nothing would change.
What do you think I'm sacrificing in my pursuit to surpass her? Time, perhaps? The time I would otherwise spend wallowing in self-doubt and resentment toward those who've wronged me in this world? Three years ago, I concluded that pursuing a relationship, being loved, and finding someone to share my life with was impossible.
I gave up because there was
nothing I could do to have changed that. I was extremely short at 5'3, and my face was beyond hideous. What was I supposed to do?
But now, I have the chance to work toward something -- something that won't judge me based on my height, my appearance, or the shape of my nose. All it demands is practice and determination, and I'm more than willing to give that. Why should I deny myself this opportunity just because I wasn't born 'talented'?
It seems to me that 'talent' is just an excuse people use to avoid confronting their own shortcomings. If you lose, the other person must be talented -- surely, it couldn't have been your own fault.
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