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I could’ve had a social life in my teens but I bought into negativity

Pikacel

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I had friends from secondary school so I could’ve just kept in contact with them to link up lol. Instead I shut myself off and rotted in my room. And I didn’t socialise properly from 16-18 either idek why. Tbh I did hang out with people during breaks but shit.

I could’ve been playing football and going out regularly. And during my gap year I shut myself off expecting people to invite me instead of just reconnecting with friends and linking up. What the fuck is wrong with me. This must be some abused dog syndrome shit because idk.
 
niggER, you are voluntarily isolated. Most of are involuntarily isolated from others (although some of us begin to start accepted the solitude).
 
niggER, you are voluntarily isolated. Most of are involuntarily isolated from others (although some of us begin to start accepted the solitude).
I think it’s low self esteem. I thought I was some outcast and nobody would want to hang out with me outside of school? Or that other friends weren’t going out themselves. Brain fog delusions ngl
 
forced friendship is no better, if people don't invite you and don't want to be friends with you and you would try to force it, at best you will be some jestermaxxer who's always out of place, you will get ghosted eventually.
 
I was forced to socialize when i was in hs, fucking hated group activities
 
forced friendship is no better, if people don't invite you and don't want to be friends with you and you would try to force it, at best you will be some jestermaxxer who's always out of place, you will get ghosted eventually.
Yeah exactly, this is what made me give up. Like I have tried and hang out with people but I just don't get the same effortless, pleasant experience that normies do when they socialize. At some point it's not social skills, you're just fundamentally neurodivergent from these automatons.
 
I had friends from secondary school so I could’ve just kept in contact with them to link up lol. Instead I shut myself off and rotted in my room. And I didn’t socialise properly from 16-18 either idek why. Tbh I did hang out with people during breaks but shit.

I could’ve been playing football and going out regularly. And during my gap year I shut myself off expecting people to invite me instead of just reconnecting with friends and linking up. What the fuck is wrong with me. This must be some abused dog syndrome shit because idk.
no football for your face
 
Truecel trait: you never could have had a social life.
 
I had friends from secondary school so I could’ve just kept in contact with them to link up lol. Instead I shut myself off and rotted in my room. And I didn’t socialise properly from 16-18 either idek why. Tbh I did hang out with people during breaks but shit.

I could’ve been playing football and going out regularly. And during my gap year I shut myself off expecting people to invite me instead of just reconnecting with friends and linking up. What the fuck is wrong with me. This must be some abused dog syndrome shit because idk.
Why would you play football and go out regularly? What do you achieve with that other than wasting your time?
 
Why would you play football and go out regularly? What do you achieve with that other than wasting your time?
Everything is a damn cope
 
I had friends from secondary school so I could’ve just kept in contact with them to link up lol. Instead I shut myself off and rotted in my room. And I didn’t socialise properly from 16-18 either idek why. Tbh I did hang out with people during breaks but shit.

I could’ve been playing football and going out regularly. And during my gap year I shut myself off expecting people to invite me instead of just reconnecting with friends and linking up. What the fuck is wrong with me. This must be some abused dog syndrome shit because idk.
I am the same, but you're being a cuck by having this sentiment, if i couldve just stopped being bullied and deathening anxiety i too couldve had a social life, but we all know why dont we? I just didnt fit into social norms for an inexplicable reason.

I saw uggos laugh with their nintendo switches in fucking school, i had no friends in class, id get lynched if i brought a nintendo jfl
 
To make you feel better I tried hard to make friends and hang out with my friends from 16 to 20 and I got nothing. Just laughed at by any girls I tried to connect to.
 
To make you feel better I tried hard to make friends and hang out with my friends from 16 to 20 and I got nothing. Just laughed at by any girls I tried to connect to.
You at least know now your position in the dating market and social hierarchy
 
niggER, you are voluntarily isolated. Most of are involuntarily isolated from others (although some of us begin to start accepted the solitude).
Indeed fuck this fakecel
 
I am the same, but you're being a cuck by having this sentiment, if i couldve just stopped being bullied and deathening anxiety i too couldve had a social life, but we all know why dont we? I just didnt fit into social norms for an inexplicable reason.
Getting bullied in your formative years does irreparable damage to your self-esteem.
It’s been years and I still haven’t gotten over the sensation of inferiority and weakness that was drilled into me back in middle school.
 
Deserve it. A good chunk of you dumbasses here have brought it upon yourselves. Disabledcels and truecels like myself were never given a chance at life.
 
Getting bullied in your formative years does irreparable damage to your self-esteem.
It’s been years and I still haven’t gotten over the sensation of inferiority and weakness that was drilled into me back in middle school.
I am going to force myself to relive all traumas in my brain, id rather end up an successful incel than live in the past, (its insanely hard)
 
Cope. You said it yourself : you expected others to invite you and I'm thinking they didn't. Also normies don't shut themselves in out of the blue for no reason, I'm willing to bet that something lead you do to this. Some form of negative reinforcement during social interactions.
 
Cope. You said it yourself : you expected others to invite you and I'm thinking they didn't. Also normies don't shut themselves in out of the blue for no reason, I'm willing to bet that something lead you do to this. Some form of negative reinforcement during social interactions.
Yeah true, low self esteem fucked my mid-late teens
 

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