Maybe, but even so these people have had goods things on their lives. They have things to keep them going. What do we have?
Most of us will have had some enjoyable periods of time during our life. NEETmaxing and playing games all day is pretty great for the first few years. In the very early years both looks and autism are less impactful because status games and sex are not the main focus yet, playing games and just doing fun shit is more important. I had a few good friends in my early childhood and very early teenage years. Everyone on here is competing for the highest misery-score, so there are incentives to only ever reveal the worst parts of your life and underplay w/e good happened to you. This distorts the overall picture.
In addition, many normies also went through shit situations from early on in life. Someone I knew from elementary school grew up in some low-class white trash family. Constant screaming from the 4 siblings, family all heavy smokers, you could barely fucking breath in their appartment if you weren't used to it, both father and mother dumb alcoholics and also small time criminals who later introduced their children to a group of car thiefs from their home country.
Now, he might have way better looks then me and get girls, but he also grew up with loveless parents and might end up spending some years in jail later on in his life. It's not that his life is clearly worse than mine, it's just that it's also kind of shit.
There are so many factors influencing your life quality that there will be countless ways to combine them into "a life not worth living".
Lastly, and I said that before, imagine you are a starving child in some 3rd world hellhole. You hear about how in other countries no one has to go hungry. Everyone has food and the state takes care to ensure that everyone's most basic survival-related needs are met. Imagining how that must be, to live in a place like that, you are overwhelmed with envy. You think about all the things you would have done with your life had you been lucky enough be born in such a place. How could anyone be unhappy under such circumtances?
But most if not all of us have enough food to survive and that alone does not make us happy. We do not share that childs perspective, we were never starved for food and so we can't feel as the child would feel in our position. Having food is good, it's nice, but we are too used to it to appreciate it the way that child might.
Now, replace food with love and sex and you will get what I suspect many normie lifes are like in relation to ours. They have it way better, but without ever sharing our plight they will not be able to appreciate their luck to the appropriate extent.