I'm obsessed with sex, I hate being a 22yo virgin so fucking much, it makes me feel like a fucking failure and an undesirable man.
I'm a 28 year old kissless virgin. Take it from me when I say, you shouldn't feel like it's too late yet. You also shouldn't feel like a failure. Your life is difficult enough, otherwise you wouldn't be here. Hating yourself is insult-to-injury, and in the event there's hope to ascend, also counterproductive. As far as being undesirable: I'm not sure to what extent how many women would or wouldn't find you desirable because I don't know your looks, height, and situation — nor how much you've tried to find dates and been rejected.
All I do know is you've only been an adult in the real world for 4 years, and assuming you just finished college, you're actually just getting started, so it's absurdly to have this attitude about yourself and your potential future prospects this early. At the end of the day, characterizing yourself as an "undesirable man" in general is really the same thing as thinking yourself a "failure," it's just an embellished attack on your own self-esteem.
I'm guessing you're not particularly tall, and there's a good chance you're below average in height and that's part of why you're here. Height is one of the most important things.
The purpose of the blackpill is to soberly confront the extent of the pool of women who will find you undesirable no matter what, no matter how much you gymmaxx, moneymaxx and gamemaxx. Once you've determined that,
then you can focus on the women that will give you a chance and not drive yourself crazy focusing on the ones who won't. (as the bluepill and redpill encourage) The blackpill is the best way to help incels ascend tbh. The overwhelming majority of women taller than you will reject you except unicorns. There are women the same height as you that could be willing to date you, but you are making things far easier for yourself by focusing on the women shorter than you because this is your most likely shot.
The Blackpill looks at a man's likelihood for romantic success along every dimension: race, height, age, face, build, money, mental health, disabilities, and more. Certain "unattractive" features can be more harmful than others or compensated for in different ways.
The Blackpill can help an unattractive man find his best pathway to success, if any exists. However, if a man has fallen short in every category of life, it is unlikely he will find a way to succeed. One must always look at the total picture.
Introduction to Incels
I often am inclined to agree with guys here who say that those who have a height of 5'8 and up can't be incels or at least not truecels. Even if the guy has an ugly face, because of the height being sufficient, he can find a woman who isn't a landwhale and/or terribly ugly willing to be with him. I would say that a guy of sufficient height with an ugly face who moneymaxes, gymmaxes and is in good health physically and mentally could not really be a truecel.
I'm 5'5. Anything below 5'7 means a man is living a nightmare unless he lucks out and a short girl shows interest in him. (or he lives in a country where everyone is
much shorter like Guatemala or something, LatAmMaxxing is a good idea for shortcels.) But even short women are willing to date men taller or the same height as you so it's just as likely they would reject you, too.
I hate sexhavers, they live in a parallel universe.
This. I couldn't agree more. Being 28 years old (I turn 29 in March) living in society is just unbearable at this point. I can't stand normies and sexhavers. I have no friends. I don't even
want friends at this point because I can't relate to anyone. They'd all dismiss my situation and my valid grievances with society with the same normie dismissals and platitudes. I've heard them all by now so there's no point going in circles again. My brother is like the only person I feel I can relate to.
