I can't stop stalking

[Whitefeminineboy]

I'm stalking people on Instagram all the time these days. People I used to know have progressed in life. I see how they master their lives. Recently I saw a foid posting a picture in a thong and behind her was a migrant (Arab, Turk, Spain or something). Why can't I stop stalking people even though I know how jealous I get of the good looking people afterwards. I often watch how much fun people are having only to get even more jealous of a life that as a subhuman I will never have. I also look for pictures on the internet of friends I know just to see how good they look in the pictures. Then I compare myself just to see what kind of subhuman I am. What a broken and sick life I have.
I have an acquaintance who keeps hinting at how much he would fuck women around me. Again and again he shows me how easy it is to approach women. And said he could be the wingman for me. I never accepted his help because the toilets would take him when I did. He knows he looks worlds better and mogs me hard.
My own mother thinks I'm ripe for psychiatry.
When I see how self-confident many people look in the pictures. I'm a sad caricature of a man by comparison.

 

[Aspergcel]

Same here

 

[Govid_Dorious]

just dont bro

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

what a faggot you are

fags like u in my carehome keep me up at night

 

[Epedaphic]

Sorry, that sounds really rough.
You gotta uninstall social media apps though. Find something else to do in your phone (or better yet, off your phone) when you're bored (well, ideally off your phone, but I know how hard it can be). Maybe download some phone games that you can just zone out with, that's what I do. It's basically just killing time but it doesn't destroy my mood and self esteem like social media does.

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

What a broken and sick life I have.

 

[Whitefeminineboy]

Same here

Iam a Aspi too!

 

[Praise the Sun]

I read the title as "I can't stop talking" and related bc I also sometimes can't shut up and just annoy the people around me with my schizo talk.
But I don't really stalk anybody, I don't even remember the social media names from my classmates.

 

[VλREN]

I feel like shit using this site, I don’t know why anyone sub 5 would even touch social media especially Instagram

 

[Narcicel's Oneitis]

Do you want to stop?

 

[Lonelyus]

just dont bro

 

[Mortis]

just dont bro

 

[Profligate]

Truecel trait. I used to be the same. As you get older you just stop caring.

 

[Whitefeminineboy]

Sorry, that sounds really rough.
You gotta uninstall social media apps though. Find something else to do in your phone (or better yet, off your phone) when you're bored (well, ideally off your phone, but I know how hard it can be). Maybe download some phone games that you can just zone out with, that's what I do. It's basically just killing time but it doesn't destroy my mood and self esteem like social media does.

It's not just on social media. I also stalk people in real life. For example, sometimes I watch people out the window or try to hear what they are talking about. When young people laugh around me, I am extremely afraid that they will laugh at me. I even thought about tracking my sister via GPS.

 

[uranium235]

Same here

Reminded me of you

 

[Whitefeminineboy]

Do you want to stop?

It's like a terrible accident you can't stop looking.

 

[depressedblackcel]

I made that mistake and discovered one of my Hispanic chad classmates works in Microsoft and the other in a top 4 firm

 

[Epedaphic]

It's not just on social media. I also stalk people in real life. For example, sometimes I watch people out the window or try to hear what they are talking about. When young people laugh around me, I am extremely afraid that they will laugh at me. I even thought about tracking my sister via GPS.

I see. Sounds like a tough habit to break.

 

[Clownworldcell]

I quit stalking because it ended up being too consequential for me. When I sent those i stalked unwanted messages it only caused people to think the worst of me so everyone on the side of the person being stalked was against me and thought the worst of me.

I understand how social media might make others miserable with the way in which they show off their relationships. People look at other’s relationships on social media to look at something they wish they have because they’re is some kind of void in the mind causing the person viewing what they view to keep feeling more and more miserable over the focus of what they do not have which is being in relationships.

Stalking is the outcome of lonleyness I don’t see most stalkers as bad people. It’s unfair to label someone as bad because they stalk because it only causes division amongst the stalking person and the people being stalked who want to sell the worst about someone over the socially unacceptable case of stalking. Would a lot of stalkers still stalk if they were not so lonley and had such the big problem with being excluded to easily? The answer to my own question is no they probably wouldn’t. Understanding this problem with inadequacy could prevent such horrible amounts of division between the person who got stalked and the stalker.

The way in which a stalker will be villainised is absolute hell for the stalker. Not all stalkers are predatory threats yet a lot of people label stalkers as predatory threats to bet the worst on stalkers. When a stalker is sold as a threat it makes the case of stalking to be a case where other people’s assumptions of your intentions hold a dominant place in the case and that’s really unfair because a lot of the time a lot of people might not have the intentions other people assume they have. So this problem just brings on any problem with a stalker being guilty until proven innocent if someone makes a case out of someone stalking them.

 

[uglysubhuman]

No one wants to follow me on instagram (I've added several people from irl but they unfollow me after a while lol) and aside from a couple who don't really post, I don't have anyone I know added on it. I only stalk my oneitises with my fake chad online persona and his fake social media accounts. It's a bad habit, I think, but because of my assburgers, I just want to know everything about someone.