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RageFuel I CAN’T SOCIALCIRCLEMAXX

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I have fully adopted the notion that personality and perceived social status do in fact play a major role in male attractiveness, but they still seem to be largely out of your control. Personality, like I said in an earlier post, is 50 percent nature and 50 percent nurture. Dividing the influencing factors of your personality like this makes no odds though, since the way you are nurtured is based upon things outside of your control, such as your facial attractiveness. How well you can socialcirclemaxx, which definitely seems to be a viable way to make yourself more attractive if you are a 3 or above, is determined by your personality.

I clearly have an unlikeable personality since I have found it extremely hard to get accepted into social groups of even incel-tier guys, let alone stay in them for any prolonged period of time. I don’t understand what is so irritating about me? Why do all of these cunts see me as an annoyance? It’s so fucking demoralising seeing everyone leave your messages on read, or how people, especially taller ones, constantly barge in front of you when you are standing in a circle chatting, subsequently pushing you out. I guarantee most incels have experienced the latter first-hand. Nothing makes you feel more emasculated and utterly pathetic than someone taller and more popular than you pushing you out of a group circle, with you having to fight your way back in like some pathetic beta. I know this is an ultra specific scenario, but it pretty much is the perfect demonstration of what has caused so much frustration and helplessness for myself when it comes to ‘being social’ over the years. Dear God I hate normies.

Sorry for the rant post. I just remembered the time that some fat retarded bitch who’s only semblance of a personality trait was her tall boyfriend told me that I needed to “develop a personality”. Kek. Fuck women :feelsUnreal:
 
Social climbers are only available for normies who don't look like ogres (not incels)
 
I social circle maxxed and made foid friends but I ended up ghosting them all. I grew disillusioned with it because I unironically prefer to sit in my room and browse incel forums and play vidya. Also none of the foids were really that hot. I only want stacy.

I just like to be alone. Normies always get so shocked when I tell them this. That I don’t have any hobbies, no friends. I just sit in my room and don’t go anywhere. I’ve learned it’s basically social suicide to show your power levels like that. They will know that you’re “weird”
 
Neither can I. And on that note, 1k POSTS :feelsLightsaber::feelsLightsaber::feelsLightsaber:
 
I only want stacy.
Ah, the Januscel, simultaneously a volcel due to their extremely high standards, and also a truecel, due to the autism that brought on such high standards
 
Same here bro. Over for hermitcels.
 
Ah, the Januscel, simultaneously a volcel due to their extremely high standards, and also a truecel, due to the autism that brought on such high standards
:feelskek: I love it
 
sounds like you have something called "inhibitions"

try using drugs
 
I'm trying to figure out what is it that I'm lacking that makes me undesirable to others. Actually today was a perfect case study. We were on class (first class of the semester), the teacher divided us into groups, I felt like the chemistry with my group was ok, I was interacting with them and I got the impression we were all getting along. When the class was over, everyone in my group left together, but they didn't wait for me, so I basically ran to try and join them a bit farther ahead, but it was like I didn't exist, they were getting along wtih each other like they've known each other for years (even tho we were all new), and for some reason I could feel this invisible force, pushing me aside, leaving me behind.

And this is not the first time this happens. There have been several times when I interact and converse with people, and I feel like I'm doing good, but after a while it becomes clear I'm just not a part of them, I don't have whatever it is that they want. Another case study from today as well. This was in another class on the afternoon, a few people got early to class including myself, we were talking about stuff and I thought I was a part of the group just as much as anyone else in there, but it quickly became apparent that was not the case. They started asking each other's names and other personal questions to get to know each other better, but for some reason nobody asked me me. I was sitting right next to them and talking to them, but as the conversation progressed I started to become less and less relevant on it. Eventually it was just them talking and it was like I wasn't even sitting there.

Anyways, I don't know if I should just drop the towel with normies and never try interacting with them ever again, or try to change something about me, something that right now I don't know what it is.
 
sounds like you have something called "inhibitions"

try using drugs
1. Drugs are out of the question in the environments I hang around in
2. Can’t find drugs
3. Don’t want to become a degenerate addict piece of shit
4. Alcohol cures my autism but I am very wary due to reason 3
 
I'm trying to figure out what is it that I'm lacking that makes me undesirable to others. Actually today was a perfect case study. We were on class (first class of the semester), the teacher divided us into groups, I felt like the chemistry with my group was ok, I was interacting with them and I got the impression we were all getting along. When the class was over, everyone in my group left together, but they didn't wait for me, so I basically ran to try and join them a bit farther ahead, but it was like I didn't exist, they were getting along wtih each other like they've known each other for years (even tho we were all new), and for some reason I could feel this invisible force, pushing me aside, leaving me behind.

And this is not the first time this happens. There have been several times when I interact and converse with people, and I feel like I'm doing good, but after a while it becomes clear I'm just not a part of them, I don't have whatever it is that they want. Another case study from today as well. This was in another class on the afternoon, a few people got early to class including myself, we were talking about stuff and I thought I was a part of the group just as much as anyone else in there, but it quickly became apparent that was not the case. They started asking each other's names and other personal questions to get to know each other better, but for some reason nobody asked me me. I was sitting right next to them and talking to them, but as the conversation progressed I started to become less and less relevant on it. Eventually it was just them talking and it was like I wasn't even sitting there.

Anyways, I don't know if I should just drop the towel with normies and never try interacting with them ever again, or try to change something about me, something that right now I don't know what it is.
I have nothing to say apart from I know the feel. Just wanted to say that I read your post :blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
 
I social circle maxxed and made foid friends but I ended up ghosting them all. I grew disillusioned with it because I unironically prefer to sit in my room and browse incel forums and play vidya. Also none of the foids were really that hot. I only want stacy.

I just like to be alone. Normies always get so shocked when I tell them this. That I don’t have any hobbies, no friends. I just sit in my room and don’t go anywhere. I’ve learned it’s basically social suicide to show your power levels like that. They will know that you’re “weird”
Facts. I'll never understand how normies don't like spending time alone. I only wanted to socialcirclemaxx in hopes of building connections that could help me in careermaxxing in the future. But deep down, i honestly like being a sperg and staying at home. Instead of having to put on a NT mask 24/7. Hanging out with normies is kinda boring ngl
 
Being social = Fakecel trait
 
I'm trying to figure out what is it that I'm lacking that makes me undesirable to others. Actually today was a perfect case study. We were on class (first class of the semester), the teacher divided us into groups, I felt like the chemistry with my group was ok, I was interacting with them and I got the impression we were all getting along. When the class was over, everyone in my group left together, but they didn't wait for me, so I basically ran to try and join them a bit farther ahead, but it was like I didn't exist, they were getting along wtih each other like they've known each other for years (even tho we were all new), and for some reason I could feel this invisible force, pushing me aside, leaving me behind.

And this is not the first time this happens. There have been several times when I interact and converse with people, and I feel like I'm doing good, but after a while it becomes clear I'm just not a part of them, I don't have whatever it is that they want. Another case study from today as well. This was in another class on the afternoon, a few people got early to class including myself, we were talking about stuff and I thought I was a part of the group just as much as anyone else in there, but it quickly became apparent that was not the case. They started asking each other's names and other personal questions to get to know each other better, but for some reason nobody asked me me. I was sitting right next to them and talking to them, but as the conversation progressed I started to become less and less relevant on it. Eventually it was just them talking and it was like I wasn't even sitting there.

Anyways, I don't know if I should just drop the towel with normies and never try interacting with them ever again, or try to change something about me, something that right now I don't know what it is.
Not knowing the "WHY" you are naturally and politely ignored is the reason why i accepted the loners life for the rest of my life 7 years ago.

Its just rage inducing. After years, i say a pattern, very different people in different context, casually acting like im a useless trash. Several times i just exploded and said in french "GOD DAMN IT, IM TRYING TO TALK WITH YOU GUYS AND JUST ACT LIKE IM NOT WORTY OF RESPONSE" they all freezed giving me a weird look "wtf man, chill" after ignoring me for 10min straight.
I just assumed i had to stop trying or one day my rage will reach celestial level and commit a crime
 
I have fully adopted the notion that personality and perceived social status do in fact play a major role in male attractiveness, but they still seem to be largely out of your control. Personality, like I said in an earlier post, is 50 percent nature and 50 percent nurture. Dividing the influencing factors of your personality like this makes no odds though, since the way you are nurtured is based upon things outside of your control, such as your facial attractiveness. How well you can socialcirclemaxx, which definitely seems to be a viable way to make yourself more attractive if you are a 3 or above, is determined by your personality.

I clearly have an unlikeable personality since I have found it extremely hard to get accepted into social groups of even incel-tier guys, let alone stay in them for any prolonged period of time. I don’t understand what is so irritating about me? Why do all of these cunts see me as an annoyance? It’s so fucking demoralising seeing everyone leave your messages on read, or how people, especially taller ones, constantly barge in front of you when you are standing in a circle chatting, subsequently pushing you out. I guarantee most incels have experienced the latter first-hand. Nothing makes you feel more emasculated and utterly pathetic than someone taller and more popular than you pushing you out of a group circle, with you having to fight your way back in like some pathetic beta. I know this is an ultra specific scenario, but it pretty much is the perfect demonstration of what has caused so much frustration and helplessness for myself when it comes to ‘being social’ over the years. Dear God I hate normies.

Sorry for the rant post. I just remembered the time that some fat retarded bitch who’s only semblance of a personality trait was her tall boyfriend told me that I needed to “develop a personality”. Kek. Fuck women :feelsUnreal:
I'm trying to figure out what is it that I'm lacking that makes me undesirable to others. Actually today was a perfect case study. We were on class (first class of the semester), the teacher divided us into groups, I felt like the chemistry with my group was ok, I was interacting with them and I got the impression we were all getting along. When the class was over, everyone in my group left together, but they didn't wait for me, so I basically ran to try and join them a bit farther ahead, but it was like I didn't exist, they were getting along wtih each other like they've known each other for years (even tho we were all new), and for some reason I could feel this invisible force, pushing me aside, leaving me behind.

And this is not the first time this happens. There have been several times when I interact and converse with people, and I feel like I'm doing good, but after a while it becomes clear I'm just not a part of them, I don't have whatever it is that they want. Another case study from today as well. This was in another class on the afternoon, a few people got early to class including myself, we were talking about stuff and I thought I was a part of the group just as much as anyone else in there, but it quickly became apparent that was not the case. They started asking each other's names and other personal questions to get to know each other better, but for some reason nobody asked me me. I was sitting right next to them and talking to them, but as the conversation progressed I started to become less and less relevant on it. Eventually it was just them talking and it was like I wasn't even sitting there.

Anyways, I don't know if I should just drop the towel with normies and never try interacting with them ever again, or try to change something about me, something that right now I don't know what it is.
i relate so much to this...
 

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