I can't help but feel like I'm not ugly. I just can't truly accept this thought, it seems pretty ridiculous tbh

[Deleted member 7448]

I don't know why. A lifetime of experiences would confirm that I'm in fact ugly.

But I look at my face and I think: "it wouldn't be that bad if I could fix some things". And this is the problem, all my problems are technically fixable with a lot of effort. I just don't have the willpower, energy or money to fix them.

For example, my main problems are: balding hard, fat, acne face (the last few days my face has been pretty clear though idk why), big ass glasses, framecel/wristcel (though that's not that important I guess). Technically all of these are fixable, even the baldness with enough money for a hair transplant. The fact that I'll never have money for a hair transplant aside, I just don't have it in me to do anything about any of my problems. I'm too beaten down by life, all I want to do is lay in bed.

 

[TheRiseOfCope]

Your brain is probably tricking you as a survival mechanism, because if you knew how bad it was you'd probably rope. I'm the same, intellectually I know I'm ugly as fuck but I still can't accept it somehow

 

[Angry_runt]

Step 1: take off your glasses.
Step 2: put them back on because you can't see without them

 

[femalesentience]

even if you arent structurally ugly underneath your flaws the qualities you listed are sufficient in and of themselves to place you in the bottom tier of males in womens eyes. you don't want to have to honestly assess your looks because if you found you were legitimately ugly even underneath your flaws it would cause substantial mental duress. On the other hand if you found you were salvageable it would induce regret and persistent guilt at not improving yourself.

 

[AsiaCel]

How do you look like?

 

[LordDylan]

Use bio oil for your acne, my dad used bio oil for his acne and it made his face nearly normal.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Try and do everything you can before it’s too late.

 

[Animecel2D]

Just looksmaxx as much as you can. if you fail then you know it’s over and you can finally accept your place in the world

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

Biggest problems is picky primitive femoids with their lust for chad

 

[Marquis de Sade]

As times change so does your ugliness. When i was young i had shite skin, but i had hair an i was thin. 20 years later, my skin tho not great, a lot better than what it was, but I'm now also fat an bald. My massive nose being the ever present anchor of my ugliness i suppose

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Well the longer you wait, the worse you'll feel.

Do you wageslave btw? If you do, like me, then take out a bank loan for the surgeries, that's what I'm doing. Bank gave me £7,500 to pay back over 3 years

 

[Michael15651]

We are only as attractive as our worst camera angle.

 

[Saung-Hui Cho]

I’ve heard the argument that if you could somehow see yourself as a hologram or from a 3D perspective you may not even recognize yourself. I always thought that was pretty telling.

 

[KingOfRome]

even if you arent structurally ugly underneath your flaws the qualities you listed are sufficient in and of themselves to place you in the bottom tier of males in womens eyes. you don't want to have to honestly assess your looks because if you found you were legitimately ugly even underneath your flaws it would cause substantial mental duress. On the other hand if you found you were salvageable it would induce regret and persistent guilt at not improving yourself.

This. The mirror lies almost as much as your mother.

We are only as attractive as our worst camera angle.

Also this. If you're a 3.5/10 from the front and a 6/10 from profile, you're a 3.5/10.

 

[GoonCel]

Step 1: take off your glasses.
Step 2: put them back on because you can't see without them

 

[Deleted member 17997]

We are only as attractive as our worst camera angle.

High iq

 

[Dionysus]

It's just hard to accept the truth sometimes. Take a good look at cucktears and see how hard they cope

 

[ihaveno1]

definitely over for feelinglikeyournotuglycels

 

[Anoncel123]

I can relate to this, when I look myself in the mirror I feel that I'm not that ugly (5/10 in the most optimal view), but when I see my photos (mainly family photos or some selfies) I see the reality of myself, I'm more ugly and fat than I thought I was.

 

[Cffcel]

It really doesn't matter if you think your ugly or not. If your not in the top 20% lookswise it never began for you.

 

[Deleted member 4760]

over for sub6 theory
you dont need to be fugly to be incel
evne just under average is enough to force you into celibacy

 

[DoctorBlythe]

For example, my main problems are: balding hard, fat, acne face

I wish I were you. None of my problems are fixable. Dude, honestly, why don't you just stop eating and take accutane?

 

[ihaveno1]

OP hasn't posted in 2 months. Over.

 

[Evildоer]

Realistically, you're around 3-4/10 PSL like 80% of users here. The problem is that it's no longer enough to get laid in 2019.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

OP hasn't posted in 2 months. Over.