So I started talking to this girl again after ghosting her. (I’ll make a different post about how she reacted to ghosting) we talk for 5 hours and now she wants my sc, now I had a fake snap chat so I was like why not. I send her a snap and I get nothing for 1 hour, I text her in I message and it doesn’t go though.
I think, she finally blocked me. I check online to make sure and it says I have to call her to know 100% if she blocked me or not. If it goes to voice mail after 1st ring, it means blocked. I call her and it rings, she picks it up on the second ring! My heart stinks because I was not expecting her to pick up. Plus I was very insecure about my incel voice. Anyways, no turning back now.
She says hello 5 times because I just went quiet, but then I reply with a hello. I tell my self “just say what you would say if you were texting her”. So I say “heyyyu *her name *, whatchu up to” she laughs and giggles and says, you finally picked up. [i never pick up the phone].
We talk for 5 minutes and she says, “do you have a accent” my heart sinks and I think to myself, she finally figured out my curry accent, wtf was I thinking a blonde chad would never have a voice like mine”. Then she says “yea, you sound French”. I was like whew saved. Then we joke around I only took 2 French courses. We joke and talk for 10 more mins and she tells me she is free on Tuesday and wants to go out. So we set it up cuz I was nervous, I’ll try to cancel it again for the 5 th time lmao.
I took a deep breath after the call ended, I was so nervous and sweaty. Then I felt good that I am not a voicecel, because I always hated my voice. But if a roastie can’t differentiate between my voice and chads voice, then it must be ok.
I’ll try to record convo next time, are there any softwares for recording calls that won’t notify her that the call is being recorded?
Anyways, that was a very weird experience.
I think, she finally blocked me. I check online to make sure and it says I have to call her to know 100% if she blocked me or not. If it goes to voice mail after 1st ring, it means blocked. I call her and it rings, she picks it up on the second ring! My heart stinks because I was not expecting her to pick up. Plus I was very insecure about my incel voice. Anyways, no turning back now.
She says hello 5 times because I just went quiet, but then I reply with a hello. I tell my self “just say what you would say if you were texting her”. So I say “heyyyu *her name *, whatchu up to” she laughs and giggles and says, you finally picked up. [i never pick up the phone].
We talk for 5 minutes and she says, “do you have a accent” my heart sinks and I think to myself, she finally figured out my curry accent, wtf was I thinking a blonde chad would never have a voice like mine”. Then she says “yea, you sound French”. I was like whew saved. Then we joke around I only took 2 French courses. We joke and talk for 10 more mins and she tells me she is free on Tuesday and wants to go out. So we set it up cuz I was nervous, I’ll try to cancel it again for the 5 th time lmao.
I took a deep breath after the call ended, I was so nervous and sweaty. Then I felt good that I am not a voicecel, because I always hated my voice. But if a roastie can’t differentiate between my voice and chads voice, then it must be ok.
I’ll try to record convo next time, are there any softwares for recording calls that won’t notify her that the call is being recorded?
Anyways, that was a very weird experience.
