You just couldn't resist posting a gif to height-shame an incel on incels.is
I don't care about continuing this argument, I wasn't the one who derailed this thread.
I will leave if @DeliriousMerchant stops deflecting/playing victim card and owns up to his mistake
I will leave if @DeliriousMerchant stops deflecting/playing victim card and owns up to his mistake
Can I ask you why your friend attacked me and tagged a lot of people to make fun of my only copes and then called himself a manlet when DarkStar was trying to vent out? Why didn't he console DarkStar? Why didn't you?
You're actually quite smart. You're free to leave anytime.I will leave if @@DeliriousMerchant stops deflecting/playing victim card and owns up to his mistake
Im a person who works as well. I get up at 5 every morning and leave at 7. I arrive at work at 7:40. Every single day. Sometimes Saturdays too.
What helped me not go crazy was that I took breaks. I quit my job and regenerated my energy for a month. I looked for a new job during my time of regeneration. That way I get a job once I am ready again.
I don't spend my finances like a madman. I always have money saved up. I recommend you do the same. If you live with your parents then its much easier. Alone is the hard part.
About your emotional issues. You can think about the bad parts of life every day. This will ruin you. I recommend going to the gym, building a physic. Yes we are ugly but at least we will have good bodies. Our work visibly pays off.
To get rid of anger. Buy a boxing sandsack or anything similar. Learn how to box. Its fun and you can unload.
I wouldn't recommend dojos because they're full with idiots.
Tldr: take a month off, unload your anger in form of sports and come back a better man.
What helped me not go crazy was that I took breaks. I quit my job and regenerated my energy for a month. I looked for a new job during my time of regeneration. That way I get a job once I am ready again.
I don't spend my finances like a madman. I always have money saved up. I recommend you do the same. If you live with your parents then its much easier. Alone is the hard part.
About your emotional issues. You can think about the bad parts of life every day. This will ruin you. I recommend going to the gym, building a physic. Yes we are ugly but at least we will have good bodies. Our work visibly pays off.
To get rid of anger. Buy a boxing sandsack or anything similar. Learn how to box. Its fun and you can unload.
I wouldn't recommend dojos because they're full with idiots.
Tldr: take a month off, unload your anger in form of sports and come back a better man.
Take deep breaths & try to do things you enjoy while your having a panic attack.
You’re the worst user here
Hush nigger
Great advice.
Are you in Europe, the US, or somewhere else?
I feel very bad and guilty, because I'm in my late 20s, live at home with mother, and I study 100% online/distance-learning but it's only part-time and mother always says it's "not normal to not work in my situation". Everyone should listen to your advice.
@DarkStar - good luck to you bro, for what it's worth. I think he gave you very good advice. I used to work for a year in an office. For the sake of your sanity, take a break if you can afford it/if your life permits it.
Im in Germany
The issue with her point is that this advice comes from someone who has it easy. It is very easy for me to a buy a shirt and tell a poor man, who is naked, to simply buy a shirt.
Our parents grew up in a very easy environment. Their parents took care of the governmental issues, they had good social circles. These social circles are important for the future. You can use them to find more opportunities and get into jobs. You go into a meeting the boss will say 'oh you're the friend of GrayWolf?' And you have a job. The economy was good too. We lived in high trust societies.
We don't have social circles, we have a bad economy, we can't walk into meetings, shake the boss's hand and get a job. An AI is filtering our applications. We can't make an impression. A pdf file is our impression.
Your mother has no clue. Don't feel bad. This stress she's putting on you is unnecessary. It is typical woman hysteria. Try to listen to her without a fight and not care. In one ear and out the other.
WW3 needs to start already
Nice. I'm German but live in Switzerland.Im in Germany
This makes sense. Thanks.
My problem is - on the one hand I have a facial deformity/treated differently in society because of it.
On the other mother cooks and shops for me and I don't need to pay a lot of stuff on my own.
So it's not my fault - also for the reasons you listed! - but I also feel abnormal (because everything about me and my life is). It's been going on for over 4 years now (of online/distance learning studies and I'm not even getting that good grades).
Are you German?Im in Germany
Perhaps you can ease that feeling of guilt by helping your mother carry the bags. Try to cook. Not only because of this problem. But because its important. We will be alone for most of our lifes and our parents will one day leave this earth. Use the time at home learning cooking. It's fun and useful.
So if you do this 1 problem is solved. Cooking isn't hard trust me. Helping your mother will make her go easier on you i hope. Because now you're contributing to the household.
I got bullied in school. This made me sad. One day I decided to quit school. Fuck them I thought to myself.
I did a good thing. I first started with part time jobs and later full time. The time I saved from school, I now have as work experience. This boosts my profile slightly.
If you see that school doesn't work out for you. Stop it. Connections are far more important than school. Yes you have a deformed face. Work at a warehouse. Or at a posting office were you sort letters. You make nice money. Give a little bit of that money to your mom. This way she can no longer criticize you.
No im Turkish.
Good point. I do sometimes cook but I think I should do it more often especially because I'm 27 and this has been going on more or less my whole life. Mother did complain "you generate so much laundry, why don't you do it yourself, who do you think will do it once you have to work." … "Me?," I asked. She then said something like "that's right."
Thanks for all this advice man, appreciate it. I'm actually studying because my parents want me to, and they demand I finish college (it's complicated).
Fully online, of course, and my mother has often said how "abnormal" that is. But she has implied many times - on purpose and not on purpose - that it's over for me, in terms of getting a gf. But again, thanks for this advice, I will try to follow it.
Yeah just do those things. Try to remove as many potential critics points as possible. If your mother is mentally unstable then don't. But from i gathered she is normal.
Parents will always go by the words 'Do as I say not as I do'. If you want to quit discuss it with them. Everything you told me, tell them. Dramatize a little if you want. If you tell them you can deal with this they won't let you change it.
Tell them of your work related plans and see what happens. I can't imagine your parents being disappointed at their son trying to better himself
Didn’t ask to be one
None of us asked to be one
No one asked you to pollute the forum with your shit faggot
This forum is a fucking disgrace & joke
Some here are genuinely worse than normshits
As if I gave a shitEnjoying your 20%?
I love how you're trying to "play it cool" jflAs if I gave a shit
Face the facts, most here do hate you, and perhaps this shows even the mods are having enough with you.
Brutal stuff
Well I’m here if you don’t like it do something
Literally me everyday.
Do your parents know about your struggles? If they are inept in the face of your strut, then they suck.
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