This site isn't for them, so I see no reason why they would come here if they're not even incels. You're right about preserving the original identity of this place
That problem cannot be avoided, the "sheepciety" seeks simple solutions to complex problems with their optimism and sense of equality. Tell me, after all this gatekeeping that you guys did. Did they change their way of thinking at all? They don't even take into account the people who can't really get out of there, they just keep looking at us as angry misogynists who are just resentful. Regardless of the things we went through and learned.
Obviously there are people who suffer more and others less, trying to equalize everything is just so we don't feel "alone or specials"
When we really are alone or specials.
You're right, as I said there are more complicated cases and others less. But the word incel means the same thing to everybody, 16 incel or 25 incel. I don't think that specifying so much one condition will fix it, since then we would be talking about closed cases and not something that is happening to many more in different ways
If you said now that you belong to the body positive movement, wouldn't they believe you? "has become a joke" And how did people treat you before? I don't think there's a real change. If they only dealt with cases like yours then it would be too small a minority for anyone to do anything But with the case of fat people, at least now it's better known, the more people you have, the more your problem will be taken into account in this utilitarian system.
Thanks for take the time to write me, even being a graycel.