SuicideFuel I am suffering from oneitis at the moment

[Gaelic-Truecel]

This is embarrassing to write as a 33yo who has been Blackpilled for over 7 years. I was prone to having oneitis syndrome earlier in my life but my last one was in 2017 shortly before I learned about blackpill and incel community.
I thought I was free from it until I got hit with a bad case of oneitis 2 months ago. This girl is 30yo and I think what attracted me to her is she looks like a "girl next door" type.
She is single which makes it worse because it is very likely she has fuck buddies from Tinder.
It makes my stomach churn to thing of her being ravaged by Chad. The thought of Chad or even high tier normie cumming in her makes me feel physically ill.
I am wondering if this is hitting me so hard because I am also experiencing SSRI withdrawal at the moment.

I really hope this dies down because it has been very bad for my health.

Do you have any tips on getter over oneitis?

 

[FBI]

Do you have any tips on getter off oneitis?

You should rape her (in Roblox).

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

 

[Grodd]

She's a fucking whore who doesn't even notice your existence forget about the cunt, having a oneitis is cucked.

 

[VλREN]

 

[Barlog]

Something similar happened to me recently. Caught feelings after like 6 years of emotional desert. Walking long distances helped me. I also started dieting and looksmaxing which I guess redirected a lot of the hopelessness into something positive. But once the oneitis wore off I gave up lol.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

having a oneitis is cucked.

 

[Chud Norris72]

I guess you could chadfish

 

[RandomGuy]

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

The worst thing about the situation is she isn't even that far above my looks match. She is like a 6/10 without make-up and a 7/10 with it plus her body is a little chubby.

 

[Punished Watcher]

I know it sounds trite, but what's always worked for me is just plain, old separation therapy. Out of sight, out of mind. If you can avoid seeing her, then do. If you can't, then just minimize contact.

Last time I had oneitis was for a girl who works at the coffee shop I went to. She's five years younger, my height and exactly my type. She shot me down a couple of times, so to get over it I had to stop going when she was working. I still see her sometimes but I needed that time to just completely reboot. It's like going cold turkey off any addiction. You've gotta keep your mind off what you're jonesing for.

 

[Punished Watcher]

Walking long distances helped me.

This is also a top tier strat, not just for getting over oneitis. I go real late at night. Long walk, either listening to music, in a group voice chat with the lads or both. Great sanity restorative.

 

[BPJ]

She's a fucking whore who doesn't even notice your existence forget about the cunt, having a oneitis is cucked.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

My oneitis has improved a bit over the past week but I think it may take a couple of months to fully get over this one. I still think my Prozac withdrawal is playing a part in it.

 

[Wolnir]

Do you have any tips on getter over oneitis?

just avoid her and block her on all social media

 

[Bulbasaur]

The worst thing about the situation is she isn't even that far above my looks match. She is like a 6/10 without make-up and a 7/10 with it plus her body is a little chubby.

So, if she's a 6/10 and your looksmatch, this implies you're a 6/10.
Fucking fakecel high tier normie.

But okay. Blackpill allows for looksmatching to happen in theory, at least. Then, not to be that guy, but have you confirmed somehow that she's not interested?

 

[The Judge]

Do you have any tips on getter over oneitis?

First, you must dismantle that false image you have of her in your mind. The characteristics you've assigned her only exist within the confines of your psyche.

She might look like a "girl next door type" but I assure you, she is anything but. At 30 years of age, she has already been plowed more times than your average crop field. While she may be be "single" she is not some lonesome spinster sitting in her room, waiting for you to whisk her away from her life of solitude. No. She is likely enjoying the company of men far more attractive than you could ever hope to be.

While you fantasize about her daily, she has not thought of you even once. You are as significant to her as a cockroach is to the bottom of a boot.

 

[FuckYou]

First, you must dismantle that false image you have of her in your mind. The characteristics you've assigned her only exist within the confines of your psyche.

She might look like a "girl next door type" but I assure you, she is anything but. At 30 years of age, she has already been plowed more times than your average crop field. While she may be be "single" she is not some lonesome spinster sitting in her room, waiting for you to whisk her from her life of solitude. No. She is likely enjoying the company of men far more attractive than you could ever hope to be.

While you fantasize about her daily, she has not thought of you even once. You are as significant to her as a cockroach is to the bottom of a boot.

Very well put

 

[The Judge]

Very well put

Thank you.
Had I understood this when I was younger, I would have been spared some very harsh life lessons.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

So, if she's a 6/10 and your looksmatch, this implies you're a 6/10.
Fucking fakecel high tier normie.

But okay. Blackpill allows for looksmatching to happen in theory, at least. Then, not to be that guy, but have you confirmed somehow that she's not interested?

I said "she is not that far above my looks match" I meant that I am a 4/10 probably.

 

[Bulbasaur]

I said "she is not that far above my looks match" I meant that I am a 4/10 probably.

Then she is very far above your looksmatch, provided you are able to rate at least somewhat accurately. Maybe you aren't because of your emotional state.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

First, you must dismantle that false image you have of her in your mind. The characteristics you've assigned her only exist within the confines of your psyche.

She might look like a "girl next door type" but I assure you, she is anything but. At 30 years of age, she has already been plowed more times than your average crop field. While she may be be "single" she is not some lonesome spinster sitting in her room, waiting for you to whisk her away from her life of solitude. No. She is likely enjoying the company of men far more attractive than you could ever hope to be.

While you fantasize about her daily, she has not thought of you even once. You are as significant to her as a cockroach is to the bottom of a boot.

The thing is that I know these harsh realities but it doesn't stop my mind longing for her. However I am sure it will die down eventually because I have been through this before although a long time ago.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

A month since posting this and I am still dealing with this case of oneitis.
I am not delusional about it though, I know I couldn't have her for many reasons but it hasn't stopped my brain obsessing over her every day.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

She's a fucking whore

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Having a oneitis is pointless actually, 0 reward and you stuck in a vicious circle worrying about someone you think is holier than thou, but in actual fact is a Whore.
I recommend you to move on and stop torturing yourself mentally.
Women are very good at hiding their true whorish nature, it's not worth it.