Venting I am incel because of my father

[jeetcel]

imagine your own father turning situations in such a way that long term effect turned into your inceldom

so here is my story,
i live in a very old fashioned suburban area which is famous for its fisheries industries in eastern side of India, born into a very lower middle class (borderline poor) family as their youngest child, father is a boomer who never bothered to game and win in his life when there was a chance in his youth in past; but after economic conditions and realities started going 180 degree he started working-got married-borne us siblings-started family etc whatever;

so when my time arrived for college etc i wanted to become a programmer (or for lack of better words, an itkoolie) because back in my youth IT was in rising phase here and many young people could get easy buxxs by working in it - except my cockblocking father did not want me to do it BECAUSE, well, he compared salaries of a cousin of mine in IT with his cousin (an uncle of mine) doing engineering; and found out IT guy was earning much less than his cousin; so he forcefully threw me into a kind of specialisation that i didn't want to do over his ego and "trust me you'll earn more"

by the time i could finish my college things changed massively as first time we got a nationwide stable internet with 4G mobile internet being introduced here at big scale - while your "core engineering" branches like mechanical, electrical, civil, automobile engineering etc progressed very slowly; and it all showed up in job market as well like so so many "core branch engineers" roaming jobless due to overwhemingly high supply over demand while IT guys could get it easily at one place or other and start "gaming" with life etc

and that's exactly how i got left behind, because my father who just didn't allow me to sail on that IT wave here and forcefully threw me into electrical and electronics engineering; that cousin of mine is earning about 75000 US dollars worth of monies every year while i barely make 300 dollars worth of monies per month (3600 some dollars per year) that's quite low in this era of rising inflations - and it also shows in realities between us two, my IT working cousin is married with two kids while i could never get a chance with ladies owning to my financial realities

i know this all could sound so strange for a non-indian person but trust me it is quite frustrating for me that my father didn't allow me to pursue my career as per my interests but thrusted his preferences over me; i often get thoughts over it like "If only he allowed me to pursue IT..." whenever some money related matter happens; or whenever i get asked 'why i am still not settled in life' while many of my friends are already married, having kids etc...

i even have had verbal arguments-fights over it with him and he always shrugs it with "i only made that decision with good intentions" or "back then core engineering was much profitable hence..." or "i'm your father why would i harm you..."

i dunno for how long i would be able to continue as this brain rot is slowly taking over my subconscious, i get dreams over that "if only he allowed me.." part and so;

working in my current field and getting consant exposure to high flashing weldings etc also affected my eyes in bad way like more than often i feel they are dried up, likewise the kind of industrial noise that occurs at my workplace lots of thuds and so is affecting hearing in my left ear...commuting to that place (and from there to back home) is a daily hell of its own and i often feel like it's unfulfilling work for the kind of peanuts i get for salary, and yes no wife yet because no stability in life no monies and so

why do boomers do such things with their kids

 

[Med Amine]

India

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

 

[jeetcel]

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

jeet lives matter too

 

[Cletus Longthing]

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

 

[Med Amine]

jeet lives matter too

i am not saying it dosen't matter. i am just saying that being indian and ugly is the real reason for your inceldom and not your father

 

[overrrrrrrrrrr]

Brutal men, u got cucked hard by your father and now he wont even acknowledge that he fucked up your life admit he was wrong and apologize, I am sorry men that shit is beyond brutal

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

imagine your own father turning situations in such a way that long term effect turned into your inceldom

so here is my story,
i live in a very old fashioned suburban area which is famous for its fisheries industries in eastern side of India, born into a very lower middle class (borderline poor) family as their youngest child, father is a boomer who never bothered to game and win in his life when there was a chance in his youth in past; but after economic conditions and realities started going 180 degree he started working-got married-borne us siblings-started family etc whatever;

so when my time arrived for college etc i wanted to become a programmer (or for lack of better words, an itkoolie) because back in my youth IT was in rising phase here and many young people could get easy buxxs by working in it - except my cockblocking father did not want me to do it BECAUSE, well, he compared salaries of a cousin of mine in IT with his cousin (an uncle of mine) doing engineering; and found out IT guy was earning much less than his cousin; so he forcefully threw me into a kind of specialisation that i didn't want to do over his ego and "trust me you'll earn more"

by the time i could finish my college things changed massively as first time we got a nationwide stable internet with 4G mobile internet being introduced here at big scale - while your "core engineering" branches like mechanical, electrical, civil, automobile engineering etc progressed very slowly; and it all showed up in job market as well like so so many "core branch engineers" roaming jobless due to overwhemingly high supply over demand while IT guys could get it easily at one place or other and start "gaming" with life etc

and that's exactly how i got left behind, because my father who just didn't allow me to sail on that IT wave here and forcefully threw me into electrical and electronics engineering; that cousin of mine is earning about 75000 US dollars worth of monies every year while i barely make 300 dollars worth of monies per month (3600 some dollars per year) that's quite low in this era of rising inflations - and it also shows in realities between us two, my IT working cousin is married with two kids while i could never get a chance with ladies owning to my financial realities

i know this all could sound so strange for a non-indian person but trust me it is quite frustrating for me that my father didn't allow me to pursue my career as per my interests but thrusted his preferences over me; i often get thoughts over it like "If only he allowed me to pursue IT..." whenever some money related matter happens; or whenever i get asked 'why i am still not settled in life' while many of my friends are already married, having kids etc...

i even have had verbal arguments-fights over it with him and he always shrugs it with "i only made that decision with good intentions" or "back then core engineering was much profitable hence..." or "i'm your father why would i harm you..."

i dunno for how long i would be able to continue as this brain rot is slowly taking over my subconscious, i get dreams over that "if only he allowed me.." part and so;

working in my current field and getting consant exposure to high flashing weldings etc also affected my eyes in bad way like more than often i feel they are dried up, likewise the kind of industrial noise that occurs at my workplace lots of thuds and so is affecting hearing in my left ear...commuting to that place (and from there to back home) is a daily hell of its own and i often feel like it's unfulfilling work for the kind of peanuts i get for salary, and yes no wife yet because no stability in life no monies and so

why do boomers do such things with their kids

Tell him he literally ruined your life, and you don’t give a shit about what his intentions were. He stopped you from doing what you wanted just to make more money, and even that didn’t work out. This is another reason being ethnic sucks, cause you can’t even decide what you want to do in your life and are a slave to your parents.

 

[Antifem Lord]

My parents take no accountability either for the shit they did to me that’s why Idgaf anymore I gladly LDAR

 

[jeetcel]

Brutal men, u got cucked hard by your father and now he wont even acknowledge that he fucked up your life admit he was wrong and apologize, I am sorry men that shit is beyond brutal

well he still tries to interfere in my life by sending me random job profiles in high paying industries thinking they still just hire guys based on 'muh experience' and such things; and sending me "professional certification courses" links and those kind of things, thinking perhaps i "need to learn more, lack proper knowledge" etc...
like yeah want me to do more "studies" at age of 27 after thrusting his profession choice over me ? and when it didn't turn out as intended he want me to drag my feet further instead of accepting how things are ? - these are some of reasons behind friction between us

and oh the kind of "success prep talks" he tried to do before "look he did same electrical shit as you and now doing job in marine company (some guy from our neighbourhood) why don't you try to join him in his shipping company, LEARN FROM HIS SUCCESS WILL YA" - outright annoying

 

[jeetcel]

imagine your own father turning situations in such a way that long term effect turned into your inceldom

so here is my story,
i live in a very old fashioned suburban area which is famous for its fisheries industries in eastern side of India, born into a very lower middle class (borderline poor) family as their youngest child, father is a boomer who never bothered to game and win in his life when there was a chance in his youth in past; but after economic conditions and realities started going 180 degree he started working-got married-borne us siblings-started family etc whatever;

so when my time arrived for college etc i wanted to become a programmer (or for lack of better words, an itkoolie) because back in my youth IT was in rising phase here and many young people could get easy buxxs by working in it - except my cockblocking father did not want me to do it BECAUSE, well, he compared salaries of a cousin of mine in IT with his cousin (an uncle of mine) doing engineering; and found out IT guy was earning much less than his cousin; so he forcefully threw me into a kind of specialisation that i didn't want to do over his ego and "trust me you'll earn more"

by the time i could finish my college things changed massively as first time we got a nationwide stable internet with 4G mobile internet being introduced here at big scale - while your "core engineering" branches like mechanical, electrical, civil, automobile engineering etc progressed very slowly; and it all showed up in job market as well like so so many "core branch engineers" roaming jobless due to overwhemingly high supply over demand while IT guys could get it easily at one place or other and start "gaming" with life etc

and that's exactly how i got left behind, because my father who just didn't allow me to sail on that IT wave here and forcefully threw me into electrical and electronics engineering; that cousin of mine is earning about 75000 US dollars worth of monies every year while i barely make 300 dollars worth of monies per month (3600 some dollars per year) that's quite low in this era of rising inflations - and it also shows in realities between us two, my IT working cousin is married with two kids while i could never get a chance with ladies owning to my financial realities

i know this all could sound so strange for a non-indian person but trust me it is quite frustrating for me that my father didn't allow me to pursue my career as per my interests but thrusted his preferences over me; i often get thoughts over it like "If only he allowed me to pursue IT..." whenever some money related matter happens; or whenever i get asked 'why i am still not settled in life' while many of my friends are already married, having kids etc...

i even have had verbal arguments-fights over it with him and he always shrugs it with "i only made that decision with good intentions" or "back then core engineering was much profitable hence..." or "i'm your father why would i harm you..."

i dunno for how long i would be able to continue as this brain rot is slowly taking over my subconscious, i get dreams over that "if only he allowed me.." part and so;

working in my current field and getting consant exposure to high flashing weldings etc also affected my eyes in bad way like more than often i feel they are dried up, likewise the kind of industrial noise that occurs at my workplace lots of thuds and so is affecting hearing in my left ear...commuting to that place (and from there to back home) is a daily hell of its own and i often feel like it's unfulfilling work for the kind of peanuts i get for salary, and yes no wife yet because no stability in life no monies and so

why do boomers do such things with their kids

another brutality that goes along with this - my siblings who are doing great with their lives

> my elder brother, eldest child in family, doing a low but very stable government job at nearby big city, doesn't earn that much but pay is still good and job is secured till his retirement and he often gets inflation increments and bonus and lots and lots of paid leaves - pretty chill life
> my elder sister, middle child in family, did nursing course and secured a relatively well paying job in same city as my brother above, her life is busy due to those medical schedules but otherwise it's good pays-chill life and lots of free treatment-medicines to family at home

both big bro and sis married, big bro is saving to buy a house in his city and big sis' husband is also into medicine profession and has a big ancestral house of his own there

^and because they are successful i often get compared with them and pushed around "TAKE INSPIRATIONS FROM THEM!" and so;
except they didn't get to see my father imparting his choices for profession they both followed their own path - but since i was YOUNGEST AND IMMATURE I NEEDED PARENTAL OVERWATCH...even in selecting professon

more than this, there is this cultural thing here in orthodox families-places etc that children don't dare to go against parent's wishes, even for marriage etc so i initially followed but outcome is not so good for me and the things happening around me with due to all that is just bugging my brains at this stage

probably i'll end up roping myself one day, he already has got two kids that will give him grandkids whatever and take care of him in his old age etc

just wanted to vent out for once, i don't usually tell all these to people around me as they would rather point faults on me owning to cultural realities

AT VERY MINIMUM, i don't want his apology or accepting mistake - he never will do so even on deathbead, i just wish that he'd leave me alone on my own and don't try to interfere with these things; i talked with him over it but all the emotional torture that follows after that is even more mind bugging

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

My mother, as kind as she may be, used to grab me very forcefully(By the neck, as I was fidgeting with items; I would ache from it) and repeatedly tell me "Do you hear me!?! If people see you doing that, they will think you are men-tally retar-ded!" while shaking me and shaking the item near my eyes. She would tell me how embarrassing it is to have an autistic son who fidgets with items as a form of stimulation. Other times, she would hit me. When I said, "Please don't hit me!" once, she started laughing.

All races of hole become hypergamous for White males when in the West.

Re: i rlly miss having a father

Unsourced_Anon Join Date: 2016-03-08 Post Count: 58

#185757523Sunday, March 20, 2016 9:08 PM CDT "they are the only ones that will love you forever" You are quite naive, adolescent schoolchild.

No.

Re: who in rt knows scripting :3 Unsourced_Anon Join Date: 2016-03-08 Post Count: 58 #186208104Sunday, March 27, 2016 7:27 PM CDT "Scripting" is a vague term. Which scripting language are you referring to? Perl? Lua? Python? Please specify.

Re: What is intellectual superiority complex? Unsourced_Anon Join Date: 2016-03-08 Post Count: 58 #186211883Sunday, March 27, 2016 8:10 PM CDT It is evident that you indeed do. The majority of neuro-typical individuals are inherently narcissistic.

Let me aid you then:

Re: what is the meaning of life? Unsourced_Anon Join Date: 2016-03-08 Post Count: 58 #190247409Wednesday, June 01, 2016 3:12 PM CDT It all depends on the perspective on which you seek to approach the question. From a purely abstract perspective, an overall "meaning" does not exist; individuals merely construct their own principles of "morality" because it directly benefits them in some manner. From a biological perspective, the actual purpose is nothing more than constant replication(Via reproduction) to ensure persistence/dominance of a given species. "Religion" is merely a fabrication to allow vulnerable civilians to be manipulated by the dominant elite. Ignore such claims of "divine" guidance. When the aforementioned perspectives intersect, the result is civilization, which utilizes the correlation of abstract principles and concrete knowledge to ensure that a given ethnic group is abundant.

Re: I'm stuck in a Love Triangle... HELP ME ;-; Unsourced_Anon Join Date: 2016-03-08 Post Count: 58 #190247699Wednesday, June 01, 2016 3:18 PM CDT Do not worry, I am certain that the male will be your ally's subordinate while you both are romantically-connected. Western males are testosterone slaves, after-all. Western females are narcissists. It is a splendid combination.

Re: oters pshycopathic tendancies AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #152808564Tuesday, December 30, 2014 10:29 AM CST It's plausible that the statements themselves are merely hyperbolic and based entirely on Crowd-Psychology rather than an underlying psychopathic perception of reality.

Re: lmao my dad who's been away for like most of my life AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #158661030Thursday, March 26, 2015 1:27 AM CDT Biologically, fertilization occurred, and that certainly wasn't a mistake. It would seem that your father is using you as a target for his own issues, likely out of internal psychological conflict for his abandonment of his offspring. Personally, I would suggest communicating with a trained professional in psychology about this as the situation is apparently causing you distress due to your lack of parental acceptance.

My legacy is on OpenSNP.

You're the user with the dark triad father? If so, I see your point.

Yes

Correct. My father has always had a competitive relationship with his younger brother. I haven't seen those relatives in many years, however.

When I was a four-year-old, my parents and I lived in a duplex, where my father would hit Mother and damage the walls, resulting in holes near a wooden desk she used for sewing. I recall pouring soap in my eyes at this age to stop them from arguing.

When we moved, my father would regularly come home and argue with Mother over anything he disliked. He broke the windows in our living room as well as the windows in our kitchen, he broke a "Leopard Statue", he broke our kitchen table, he broke plates, he threw Mother's computer and clothes into the garbage bin. He'd regularly pound on Mother's room door(Used for crafts). He'd yell at Mother as he was driving her to work.

One day, Mother was asked by my father to write a check, which she did. However, he was angry because she was drying off after a shower. This led him to shove her onto the floor(She was naked) and kick her legs repeatedly, which I was present for and saw. He also broke her fingers and cut her knuckles, injured her knees and kicked her abdomen. Our utilities were cut off three times due to failure to pay, and the result was living with my paternal grandparents for weeks at a time. On the day we moved in with my maternal grandparents, me and Mother sat in the dark since my father didn't pay the utility bill("Well, then leave"; he left the house after yelling, which I hid from).

I have Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria from ASD/ADHD. In those days, this was the sort of personality I had:

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My father would often denigrate me for my autistic traits and sometimes hit me. I was a heavily-depressed/anxious "puppet" for Normies to string around. I wasn't even comfortable with asking to go to the bathroom or looking around the therapy room due to fear of criticism.

In S.R.B's case, "group therapy" reinforced a lack of accountability.

"My father died when I was eight. That's why I opened my legs for Chad!"

Katerina, admittedly, seemed fairly mature. More than most of the other youth She was slightly shorter than me, pale, and blonde.

We partnered briefly for a group assignment. She'd often talk about her job at a local German restaurant or her reluctance to apply for college(As her father wanted her to do).

As much as Black male Justus Grossbier. He was adopted and never met his father. Yet, his White oneitis preferred a tall White male with a living father.

Quite strange, isn't it?

Yes, many times. In group therapy, I was repeatedly criticized because I couldn't socialize. A White foid with a rich social life was given constant passes daily. They also switched my activities after she omitted her full name from her goal sheet(I was handing them out). This was after frowning at me and keeping her head down to avoid me.

She was switched into the group for older youth despite being three years younger than me.

You expected a privileged Western Queen to understand mathematical modeling software? Tsk.

White foids are vain because they believe that having a 100 IQ White father makes them intelligent. Without coddling, the average 70 IQ African male can match them easily.

Yes...filthy. My maternal grandmother opened her legs for a Black male at the age of nineteen. Her child was raised by a Castizo.

Yes. James Andrew Knott's father, Greg Knott, shared custody with his mother, Leeann Wright. Justus Grossbier's father was absent, and his mother abused/neglected him until he was taken away and adopted by his White adoptive mother.

No PHD for your face

He was attracted, of-course, to the lighter skin of the Wagoner family. Mother, an estranged Wagoner, was forced to dwell with the Thomas family until adulthood, when she moved into an apartment to escape their bigotry.

My mother was an illegitimate child also. Larry Wagoner, her father, was quite dark. So was my grandmother. Yet their child was nearly fair-skinned.

She was supposed to inherit Wagoner property. However...

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[Intellau_Celistic]

Oh...

 

[mlcurrycel]

Most loving curry parents:

 

[CircumcisedClown]

My dad chopped up my penis when I was born.

 

[AnilBashir]

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

 

[Chudpreet]

Most loving curry parents:

 

[mlcurrycel]

My dad chopped up my penis when I was born.

Okay, at least Hindu parents aren't that bad

 

[mlcurrycel]

another brutality that goes along with this - my siblings who are doing great with their lives

> my elder brother, eldest child in family, doing a low but very stable government job at nearby big city, doesn't earn that much but pay is still good and job is secured till his retirement and he often gets inflation increments and bonus and lots and lots of paid leaves - pretty chill life
> my elder sister, middle child in family, did nursing course and secured a relatively well paying job in same city as my brother above, her life is busy due to those medical schedules but otherwise it's good pays-chill life and lots of free treatment-medicines to family at home

both big bro and sis married, big bro is saving to buy a house in his city and big sis' husband is also into medicine profession and has a big ancestral house of his own there

^and because they are successful i often get compared with them and pushed around "TAKE INSPIRATIONS FROM THEM!" and so;
except they didn't get to see my father imparting his choices for profession they both followed their own path - but since i was YOUNGEST AND IMMATURE I NEEDED PARENTAL OVERWATCH...even in selecting professon

more than this, there is this cultural thing here in orthodox families-places etc that children don't dare to go against parent's wishes, even for marriage etc so i initially followed but outcome is not so good for me and the things happening around me with due to all that is just bugging my brains at this stage

probably i'll end up roping myself one day, he already has got two kids that will give him grandkids whatever and take care of him in his old age etc

just wanted to vent out for once, i don't usually tell all these to people around me as they would rather point faults on me owning to cultural realities

AT VERY MINIMUM, i don't want his apology or accepting mistake - he never will do so even on deathbead, i just wish that he'd leave me alone on my own and don't try to interfere with these things; i talked with him over it but all the emotional torture that follows after that is even more mind bugging

Ek bhai se dusreh bhai ko: kya tumhareh bhai tereliye pita ke saath baat chit kur sukte hei?

 

[mlcurrycel]

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I'm sorry about what happened to you. I wish your life had been better. I know I'm powerless to change the past. I hope I get the opportunity to prevent this from happening to someone else. I hope this kind of stuff never happens to anyone, ever again.

 

[IncelKing]

My dad chopped up my penis when I was born.

I guess you really are a circumcisedclown

Username checks out

 

[jeetcel]

Ek bhai se dusreh bhai ko: kya tumhareh bhai tereliye pita ke saath baat chit kur sukte hei?

Big Bro and Big Sis are rich, successful, sex havers (both married with kids) and believes despite his shortcomings our father was right about everything so i should "listen" to him and work around instead of arguing over his behaviour and all ; should 'forgive' him for bad past and all

i don't think they have any need to talk over it to my dad as they just lucky enough and enjoying their lives fully; at best they just give platitudes and that too only me; they don't even live with us to observe his doglike daily acts

my current scenario is i'm just waiting for him to croack, once he's gone off this world i shall gather whatever i could do and move away to faaaar away place where nobody could reach me and just live in solitude in real life instead of just getting ghosted by people

 

[mlcurrycel]

Big Bro and Big Sis are rich, successful, sex havers (both married with kids) and believes despite his shortcomings our father was right about everything so i should "listen" to him and work around instead of arguing over his behaviour and all ; should 'forgive' him for bad past and all

i don't think they have any need to talk over it to my dad as they just lucky enough and enjoying their lives fully; at best they just give platitudes and that too only me; they don't even live with us to observe his doglike daily acts

my current scenario is i'm just waiting for him to croack, once he's gone off this world i shall gather whatever i could do and move away to faaaar away place where nobody could reach me and just live in solitude in real life instead of just getting ghosted by people

I can't believe that you, an engineer, are being looked down upon by a government worker (fuck those parasites)

Humans don't have morals. I'm not saying they're immoral, I'm saying humans have no moral capacity.

Your siblings are basically telling you to suffer and not bother them. Don't bother wondering if they believe what they say, there is no "belief" or "conviction" that normies are capable of. There is no dichotomy between lie and truth for normies. They are closer to animals.

Hindu culture makes you not want to abandon your father. Your father has already abandoned you. He has failed in his duty.

Move to Kazakhstan with me. We'll help each other get laid.

 

[Antifem Lord]

My ethnic parents ruined my life

 

[Old Ironsides]

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

over

 

[jeetcel]

I can't believe that you, an engineer, are being looked down upon by a government worker (fuck those parasites)

Humans don't have morals. I'm not saying they're immoral, I'm saying humans have no moral capacity.

Your siblings are basically telling you to suffer and not bother them. Don't bother wondering if they believe what they say, there is no "belief" or "conviction" that normies are capable of. There is no dichotomy between lie and truth for normies. They are closer to animals.

Hindu culture makes you not want to abandon your father. Your father has already abandoned you. He has failed in his duty.

Move to Kazakhstan with me. We'll help each other get laid.

well payscales in professions like Lawyer, Engineers are already over because of every second kid being pushed to pursue it and that resulting in giga implositon of new candidates in market hence devaluation (more supplies than demand);
even pillpusher muh ;MBBS; doctors slowly going that way

so yeah it's not particularly beneficial to be an average engineer in a field like electrical and electronics engineering when market is oversaturated already; THAT IS ONE OF THE REASONS WHY i fucking begged my father to not throw me into that branch but he listened to his relative over me and now i'm wageslaved a lot

rest things; true

 

[mlcurrycel]

well payscales in professions like Lawyer, Engineers are already over because of every second kid being pushed to pursue it and that resulting in giga implositon of new candidates in market hence devaluation (more supplies than demand);
even pillpusher muh ;MBBS; doctors slowly going that way

so yeah it's not particularly beneficial to be an average engineer in a field like electrical and electronics engineering when market is oversaturated already; THAT IS ONE OF THE REASONS WHY i fucking begged my father to not throw me into that branch but he listened to his relative over me and now i'm wageslaved a lot

rest things; true

Come with us bhai, we'll need you and @Robb97 for things like solar power, hydroponics, glasshouses, automatic sprinkler/irrigation systems, etc etc. Maybe even light industry if we're terrificly lucky.

I want to be as prepared as the Viet Cong when the Americans invaded

Imagine feeling needed and being the most important engineer in a 100 km radius whose actions may influence multiple generations like a butterfly effect

Imagine meaningful work. Imagine being arranged a wife and showing your son all the systems and automation you created, walking him through and explaining while he listens in awe

Think of how slapdash and shitty construction is in India. Jughar everywhere. Cutting corners. Employees shirking work. Bosses stealing paychecks.

Compare that to being the founding father of a new community organised on the intersection of science and empathy for ugly men.

 

[dOOmerbOI]

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

 

[solblue]

In the West, electrical and electronics engineering is desirable and almost as well paid as software engineering. Does your cousin happen to work for the outsourcing arm of a big multinational? I know many companies outsource software “engineering” to India but not hardware topics due to the differences in accreditation. There’s not much that can go wrong with software since it’s is so easy to refactor compared to re-doing physical objects.
I do agree that IT was the way to go in India exactly for that reason though. Plenty of consulting firms here in the states just ship work out to India; there’s so much opportunity there. However, even in developing countries, engineering firms will have a bias towards grads from the West.

 

[Nate Higgers]

Fuck man that's so brutal
How are you doing now?
Are you considering a career change?

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

stopped reading there. no need to continue.
it's already over,

 

[CobsonCel]

Same. My father beat me up occasionally so i developed intolerance over violence which made me coward and pacifist who despise fighting which in russian schools are one of the only way to build status.

 

[jeetcel]

Fuck man that's so brutal
How are you doing now?
Are you considering a career change?

surviving somehow doing work in a field that he thrust down my throat,

still this day my cousin who took ITCoolie werks earlier in right time right moment and sailed through the rising IT wave here is mogging me completely in all terms while I am doing whatever I could,

career change...I wish but I barely get time to learn new things and my brain is already giving up and India is totally shit country in terms of upwards mobility and so, so once you're trapped in something it's over unless somehow luck favours you with a shift