Just get a millionaire bro. Then you can do... what exactly? No wife no life.
I don't think guys like you get how ironically cucked you sound for someone trying to sound "black pilled"
If literally the only thing in life you want is a wife and children, then you've set the bar really low for a "successful life", and you don't realize how easy your goal actually is
Truth is, guys like you are just lazy, and unwilling to sacrifice what it takes to get what you want
So lets get really specific, will any wife and children do?, do they have to be within a specific region on earth?, are you unwilling to give up modern conveniences in trade for a wife and children?, because if you really wanted a wife and children you could very well save up, move to a poor undeveloped country where traditional values are still strong, and work a crappy job and get a wife and children at some point, especially if you are white you'd still have a status boost in many of these countries with ethnic women so you can very likely get a wife
So what are the specifics?, whats keeping you from following such a plan, I'll guess its you not wanting to give up "muh video games" and modern entertainment, well if that's so, then you don't really want a wife and children, and it isn't really that important
So when guys like you say:
Life is about sex and family not money
I call BS, because that is within reach, especially if you wealthmaxx, its just in avenues where sacrifices are required, sacrifices you are unwilling to make, which actually means it isn't something worth sacrificing for and you don't really value it at all, so it just sounds like you are lying to yourself and others
If life is about these things, please tell me what are you doing to get something so important its what life is about, what are you willing to sacrifice to get it, if the answer is nothing, and your plan is just to come online everyday and complain and try nothing to get it, just LDAR, then truth is,
IT ISN'T THAT IMPORTANT