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Be it's guys or girls(lol) I don't know how to keep a conversation going or if another person is annoyed by me. I guess it's the benefits of being a complete shut in with zero life experience.
News I actually have no idea how to properly interact with others
legit. no one ever has the same interests either.
years of isolation will do that.
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Same. It’s my biggest issue. Im aspie as fuck
Ye , i struggled all my life with this. I mean when i could talk to someone for like 5 minutes it´s ok... i would feel something like happyness? But after that the situation will become more and more annyoing and when i have to stay in the situation i will feel more uncomfortable. I just don´t want to talk about so many useless things, why all people must talk so much? It never made any sense for me.
its heaven if the other person can keep it going for you
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Sadly not one ever keeps a conversation going for me, it will always be me having to think of things to talk about. Sigh.
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That doesn't happen unless they want something out of you or if it's a girl, their interested in you.
Even than it's not about wanting another person to carry an conversation it's more about for me at least being able to interact with others on a similar level and not seem like it's a foreign concept.
join the club lol
SAME. Especially with females. It's like pulling teeth
yea its pretty much over for us shut ins
its over
My oneitis does and that’s why i love her so much. You will literally get high from social interaction if it’s not awkward.
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That's literally me.
Same, I never know when it's appropriate to make eye contact and when not to. I have nothing to talk about, I'm like an NPC with no topics. I slur my words.
True, if you have a solid conversation with someone, you always feel really good after. I use that energy to channel it into working out.
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Shit. That's exactly me. I can't even express my thoughts properly on a board online.....
If a conversation keeps dying it's because the other person doesn't want to talk to you. I'm awkward and nervous as fuck in general but when people who like me (for example, my wrestling teammates) talk to me, conversations always play out fine. Everyone will feel awkward when they're getting sandbagged by someone whose attention they want.
you wrestle?
his oneitis is a literal whore.
Yes sir. Submission rasslin'.
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Yup. Everything revolves around how attractive you are. Nothing is more important than your face. Life is cruel
My post referenced a situation where attractiveness has no bearing on a positive interaction, but whatever.
i got to states in high school lol. wish you luck bro with that lol.
I just do it as a hobby and not as part of any program. I don't think there's any scholastic/collegiate submission wrestling in North America anyway.
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OP I know exactly how you feel, and it doesnt help that people dont even try to help you out if you are ugly. When you are GL people do and say all sorts of weird stuff to keep you interested, theyre afraid of you walking away
If you think that applies to interactions between male teammates I do know what to tell you: you're retarded.
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Im in the same boat, i can talk to my 1 friend on xbox live and we have good conversations but thats about it. I have trouble even looking in a girls direction cuz its so uncomfortable.
If they find you attractive, you can say anything and they will be receptive.
If they don't find you attractive, you're at best being ignored and at worst annoying them and risking your freedom.
If they don't find you attractive, you're at best being ignored and at worst annoying them and risking your freedom.
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It even applies to males in a way, what kind of guy wants be friends with someone ugly? If their not ugly as well that is of course.
same for me, and i hate eye contact, its over
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Shit face, shit frame, and shitty conversational skills from an early age is the reason I have no friends. It boggles my mind how people can make friends with ease.
I don't know if I'm capable of interacting with others, it's been so long I just have no frame of reference anymore
Legit the halo effect is too strong, and the worst part is that the ugliest person is always the one who is seen as awkward when the conversation ends.
Wth do normans talk about anyway
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This. Maybe I am averse to new social interactions because they always make me uncomfortable
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