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Thread on some woman's forum in Serbian made by a man: "What to do when women simply don't want you?"
It reached 120 pages. It's from June this year, it looks like things are getting very bad in 2019 everywhere.
JFL at people who think being 6'0'' NT white guy is enough.
This guy introduces himself as 188cm (6'2'' tall) 22 year old white guy who does sports, he is well socialized with friends and has interesting hobbies (playing instruments).
Google translate does a fine job, I don't even need to translate myself (WARNING: it's brutal):
Hello Everyone. I am 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have never kissed or held hands with anyone, I have absolutely no experience.
I've seen a couple of these topics before, but I opened a special one because my situation is a little specific.
I will try to eliminate immediately 90% of the (useless) advice people normally give for situations like this.
So, I have no social anxiety, nor am I too shy, moreover, I worked as a waiter in a very busy cafe so I learned to have a conversation with all kinds of people, regardless of age, gender, occupation or anything else. Personal hygiene goes without saying, I regularly bathe, brush my teeth, use deodorants and perfumes, maintain my hair or beard as needed. Average appearance, plus I am about 188 cm tall, I used to go to the gym regularly, now I have a small tummy, but there are still broad shoulders, arms, etc. Furthermore, I do not have unrealistic expectations or too high criteria, I am not some Romeo looking for just my Juliet, I am open to relationship and combination, I am quite tolerant by nature, it is enough for a girl to look normal and not a psychopath and I would already be with her. I play an instrument, draw, play tennis and swim in the summer. My social life has always been rich, I have met more people (and therefore girls) than the average person my age, and I went out practically every other day, lately it's all more modest, but I still have friends. Of course, no one who knows me knows about this, I'd readily admit to murder than something like this (and I would get better treatment than the environment).
Now that we've got rid of all the "go to the gym", "get out, hang out" and other tips, I have to mention that I've had a lot of bad experiences.
More girls that I liked, and of course did not want to be with me, were afterwards with all kinds of characters (including the disabled, homeless, drug addicts, rapists, etc.), some even kissing or having sex out of boredom, they weren't even together, which showed me that in the eyes of women, I seem to be the most unwanted man on the planet. Of course, these events permanently killed every form of self-confidence, and created a serious inferiority complex for me (but remember, I haven't always been this way, the girls didn't want me even before this).
I've never seen or heard of a case like mine in my life. I feel awful, rejected and unwanted because I see that I seem to be the only guy in the world who can't even please anyone, no matter what he does. Because of this, I know that no one will ever and can never love me. I am aware that I am not a god knows what an opportunity is, but I cannot understand what is wrong with me so much that all the other men on the planet are far more attractive to women than I am. This problem has started to hinder me in all aspects of life, and despite the depression it has already brought me, it may one day lead me to suicide. I changed 3 psychologists but no one could help me.
This is a women's forum, so I'm interested in it from a women's perspective, what could be so disgusting about me that NO ONE will? If you have any further questions, ask, I have tried my best to be as clear as possible to get a clearer picture ...
It reached 120 pages. It's from June this year, it looks like things are getting very bad in 2019 everywhere.
JFL at people who think being 6'0'' NT white guy is enough.
This guy introduces himself as 188cm (6'2'' tall) 22 year old white guy who does sports, he is well socialized with friends and has interesting hobbies (playing instruments).
Google translate does a fine job, I don't even need to translate myself (WARNING: it's brutal):
Hello Everyone. I am 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I have never kissed or held hands with anyone, I have absolutely no experience.
I've seen a couple of these topics before, but I opened a special one because my situation is a little specific.
I will try to eliminate immediately 90% of the (useless) advice people normally give for situations like this.
So, I have no social anxiety, nor am I too shy, moreover, I worked as a waiter in a very busy cafe so I learned to have a conversation with all kinds of people, regardless of age, gender, occupation or anything else. Personal hygiene goes without saying, I regularly bathe, brush my teeth, use deodorants and perfumes, maintain my hair or beard as needed. Average appearance, plus I am about 188 cm tall, I used to go to the gym regularly, now I have a small tummy, but there are still broad shoulders, arms, etc. Furthermore, I do not have unrealistic expectations or too high criteria, I am not some Romeo looking for just my Juliet, I am open to relationship and combination, I am quite tolerant by nature, it is enough for a girl to look normal and not a psychopath and I would already be with her. I play an instrument, draw, play tennis and swim in the summer. My social life has always been rich, I have met more people (and therefore girls) than the average person my age, and I went out practically every other day, lately it's all more modest, but I still have friends. Of course, no one who knows me knows about this, I'd readily admit to murder than something like this (and I would get better treatment than the environment).
Now that we've got rid of all the "go to the gym", "get out, hang out" and other tips, I have to mention that I've had a lot of bad experiences.
More girls that I liked, and of course did not want to be with me, were afterwards with all kinds of characters (including the disabled, homeless, drug addicts, rapists, etc.), some even kissing or having sex out of boredom, they weren't even together, which showed me that in the eyes of women, I seem to be the most unwanted man on the planet. Of course, these events permanently killed every form of self-confidence, and created a serious inferiority complex for me (but remember, I haven't always been this way, the girls didn't want me even before this).
I've never seen or heard of a case like mine in my life. I feel awful, rejected and unwanted because I see that I seem to be the only guy in the world who can't even please anyone, no matter what he does. Because of this, I know that no one will ever and can never love me. I am aware that I am not a god knows what an opportunity is, but I cannot understand what is wrong with me so much that all the other men on the planet are far more attractive to women than I am. This problem has started to hinder me in all aspects of life, and despite the depression it has already brought me, it may one day lead me to suicide. I changed 3 psychologists but no one could help me.
This is a women's forum, so I'm interested in it from a women's perspective, what could be so disgusting about me that NO ONE will? If you have any further questions, ask, I have tried my best to be as clear as possible to get a clearer picture ...
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