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https://singledatingdiva.com/2015/04/13/the-hidden-dangers-of-false-hope-in-dating/
https://metro.co.uk/2014/03/15/the-10-stages-of-realising-that-online-dating-is-not-for-you-4572665/
http://theunderneathness.com/falsehope/
https://medium.com/s/story/dont-get-your-hopes-up-is-2018-s-he-s-just-not-that-into-you-bd10bbabaf35
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053810016300782
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optimism_bias
https://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/03/health/views/03chen.html
https://www.ucl.ac.uk/lagnado-lab/publications/harris/PsychRevInPress.pdf
https://hbr.org/2011/05/be-an-optimist-without-being-a
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-optimism-bias-2795031
https://www.newstatesman.com/cultur...y-against-optimism-and-cult-positive-thinking
(PS a Left wing rag no less)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/think-well/201101/why-optimism-can-be-bad-your-mental-health
https://www.nytimes.com/2009/12/31/fashion/31positive.html
Linked to the Just World Fallacy...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis
This is what drives people to suicide... Sometimes accepting that maybe it is just not your fault after playing by all the rules in the rule book & you still fail...
https://metro.co.uk/2014/03/15/the-10-stages-of-realising-that-online-dating-is-not-for-you-4572665/
http://theunderneathness.com/falsehope/
https://medium.com/s/story/dont-get-your-hopes-up-is-2018-s-he-s-just-not-that-into-you-bd10bbabaf35
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053810016300782
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optimism_bias
https://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/03/health/views/03chen.html
https://www.ucl.ac.uk/lagnado-lab/publications/harris/PsychRevInPress.pdf
https://hbr.org/2011/05/be-an-optimist-without-being-a
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-optimism-bias-2795031
https://www.newstatesman.com/cultur...y-against-optimism-and-cult-positive-thinking
(PS a Left wing rag no less)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/think-well/201101/why-optimism-can-be-bad-your-mental-health
https://www.nytimes.com/2009/12/31/fashion/31positive.html
Linked to the Just World Fallacy...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis
This is what drives people to suicide... Sometimes accepting that maybe it is just not your fault after playing by all the rules in the rule book & you still fail...