Experiment How tolerant were you before consigning to your inceldom?

[FrothySolutions]

When people say "Women reject you because of your bad personality" we have a two-pronged response.

1. No, because Chad can be a literal sex criminal and they'll be with him because he's attractive.

2. We weren't always hateful like this. We only started being angry and talking like this after enough rejection. We're only angry at the people we feel are the cause of our inceldom.

People protest the first prong by admitting that yes, some men are so attractive that women will make bad choices against their better judgement and be with those men. If you were Chad, you could probably make women do that. You shouldn't want to, but you could. If you were Chad. But are you angry at being incel, or are you angry at being "not Chad?" Because most men aren't Chad. Most men are normal. And so as a normal man, unfortunately you're gonna have to live up to normal man standards. That means being a good and tolerant person.

That just leaves the second prong. The "I used to be tolerant before I realized who made it so hard for me to get laid was" prong. How true is this for you? Were you a wholly open mind before? Or did you have prejudices towards women, or certain ethnicities, or certain sexualities?

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

I remember as a kid being kind of effeminate. For whatever reason, I cried easily, had extreme social anxiety, was bad at sports due to the first two things. So I’m a way I became jealous towards women because it was okay for them to be like that, but not me. I wasn’t really hateful though because I thought that they would still accept me for who I am.

Years later, I experienced female nature. Girls who seemed to be interested but faking, flaking on me, girls who aren’t that attractive having ridiculous standards, rude rejections on online dating sites, plus so many examples that had nothing to do with me. For instance, my mom cheated on my dad many times. My neighbor shacked up with another man the instant her husband died and used his money to buy a car. Those are just a few examples.

I can say at this point, I am very cynical towards the other gender but I don’t consider myself hateful, just given up

 

[FrothySolutions]

I remember as a kid being kind of effeminate. For whatever reason, I cried easily, had extreme social anxiety, was bad at sports due to the first two things. So I’m a way I became jealous towards women because it was okay for them to be like that, but not me.

This doesn't count. This isn't prejudice, this is you calling out a double standard and being rightly upset about it.

 

[NiBBaCel]

I don't hate or even dislike foid tbh. Only the upper 30 percents treat me like shit tbh

 

[Deleted member 1042]

This doesn't count. This isn't prejudice, this is you calling out a double standard and being rightly upset about it.

tbh

 

[Ignas]

Tolerant but I have my own response. "My personality can't turn women on". I befriend people, guys and girls, but everytime I try to date girls, they always reject me and say "there are girls who would feel lucky to have you". Never managed to get a girl hate me because of my personality. So yeah always been tolerant of the "women reject you cause of your bad personality". I experience it first hand that girls like being my friend and talking to me, but none would date me. That normie retarded "bad personality" meme never hurt me, cause I know I'm right, and the blackpill is right. And they're wrong

Idk maybe my answer isn't what you want to hear OP

 

[FrothySolutions]

Tolerant but I have my own response. "My personality can't turn women on". I befriend people, guys and girls, but everytime I try to date girls, they always reject me and say "there are girls who would feel lucky to have you". Never managed to get a girl hate me because of my personality. So yeah always been tolerant of the "women reject you cause of your bad personality". I experience it first hand that girls like being my friend and talking to me, but none would date me. That normie retarded "bad personality" meme never hurt me, cause I know I'm right, and the blackpill is right. And they're wrong

Idk maybe my answer isn't what you want to hear OP

Isn't this the same as Prong 2? You were tolerant, but it didn't get you laid?

 

[Ignas]

Isn't this the same as Prong 2? You were tolerant, but it didn't get you laid?

Prong 2 sounds like "I wasn't always hateful like this. But after years of rejections, now I'm hateful." But mine is more like "I'm not hateful. I'm not angry. I don't have a bad personality, then and now."

 

[Rassimov]

I used to believe women weren't as visual as men. Then I realized 80% of men barely register as sexual human beings in a woman's eyes.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Prong 2 sounds like "I wasn't always hateful like this. But after years of rejections, now I'm hateful." But mine is more like "I'm not hateful. I'm not angry. I don't have a bad personality, then and now."

So you didn't become hateful in the first place. I see.

 

[Ignas]

So you didn't become hateful in the first place. I see.

Yeah that's true

 

[FinnCel]

As a kid to my early adulthood I was very kind to everyone.
People just used my kindness to their advantage and gave me nothing in return.
That's the point I understood it's all about taking what you can.

I was hated first before my hate even started

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

As a kid to my early adulthood I was very kind to everyone.
People just used my kindness to their advantage and gave me nothing in return.
That's the point I understood it's all about taking what you can.

I was hated first before my hate even started

Same experience.