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How to survive in the difficult game of magnetic forces of seduction that involve cheater females

nessahan alita

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The terms "female", "human female", "male", "human male", etc, are used in the biological and anthropological sense, as used by Desmond Morris, Theodosius Dobzhansky and other authors. I understand that humans belong to the animal kingdom and are part of the mammals (mammalia) class and the order of the hominids.

1. Do not get possessive. Take away from your mind the idea that she is yours, especially if she says that she is faithful, that you are the best guy she has ever met, the only one, etc.

2. As long as there is no evidence of the contrary, try to see her as a wonderful woman of many partners who does not assume herself for fear of social repression but who needs a great friend who understands why she hang out with everyone.

3. Do not be tempted to see her as a heavenly entity. Never believe in her fidelity or that she does not flirt with anyone but you (because human beings of both genders, including the females, are inherently unfaithful. The infidelity arises from an imbalance between the forces of the Id and the Super-ego, that is, between the impulses of the unconscious and the capacities of the (usual) ego to resist it).

4. Be indifferent to her games of contradictory and incoherent attitudes.

5. Kiss her ardently, as if you were feeling a lot of sentiment.

6. Remove from your mind the concern with fidelity. If she wants to give to another, no one will hold her.

7. Do not irritate nor suffocate her with continuous manifestation of love.

8. Do not be a dependent crying baby screaming for the mother.

9. When she stand you up in dates, accept the shameless lying excuses of the next day and pretend you believed, ignoring her, or else go to the other extreme and unmask it.

10. Never delude yourself into believing that you will find out what she feels through questions or direct conversations about it.

11. Be indifferent to the games of getting closer and moving away that they do to drive us crazy.

12. Be a man and be prepared for the unexpected: to be exchanged for another, be definitively or temporarily abandoned, to be frustrated in the dates, etc.

13. Do not cling. Love her unselfishly, even at a distance.

14. Never forget that the historical cruel reaction of the machista culture in relation to the tricks forced them to mix truths with lies in everything they say (this characteristic is also present in the men but for other reasons and under other contexts. I believe that there is in every ordinary human being a limit on the capacity to bear truth and from which a limit originates in the capacity to express it). Never believe or disbelieve in what they say: limit your conclusions to what you see.

15. Write to her love phrases very rarely.

16. Conquer your total emotional independence.

17. When compared to some other male, remember the points where you are superior to the guy and forget the question. Remember: although it may not seem like it, in the long run, she is the one who will have lost and not you.

18. Consciously adopt behavior that pleases her but do not condition yourself.

19. Melt it into rare and false impassioned statements (which is licit because, remember, we are dealing with a cheating woman, not a sincere one) .

20. Be firm and kind at the same time.

21. Do not call when she does not meet the commitments of dating and phone calls.

22. Do not believe her when she promises to call or see you.

23. Be willing to lose her at any time.

24. Do not see her as unique.

25. Do not try to impress her with your talents.

26. Do not display your talents for free, but let them be notice slowly.

27. Do not go after her all the time.

28. Do not think whether she hang out with another or not.

29. Do not always be rude or uneducated in manners and reactions, just a little and once in a while (however, we should never give in to provocations and assault the woman, because this completely detracts us from reason. And since we have no more reason on our side, how can we claim or demand anything?)

30. Don't possess (that is, do not be and do not feel the owner).

31. Do not feel her as if it were yours.

32. Define the content of the relationship only on the basis of what demonstrates the behaviors and attitudes.

33. Do not go headfirst in the relationship.

34. Do not be fascinated by smiles, stares and passionate words but behave as if you are a little fascinated, just a little (it is an emotional demand of themselves. If they discover that they are not capable of fascinating the man, they become sad).

35. Do not go after her and do not let yourself be attracted. Be fascinating so she goes after you.

36. In order to attract, combine in homeopathic doses seriousness, disinterest, loyalty, altruism, sincerity, minimal care with appearance, eloquence, determination, economic independence, material independence (at least one house and one car), an image of harassed man who does not boast of it (it can be false, just say to a female friend that gossip very much that there are several beautiful women going after you and then ask her to not tell anyone that she takes care of the rest), virility, intense masculinity, sensitivity, gentleness, weighting and intelligence.

37. Detect the contradictions in her behavior.

38. Do not expect good judgment or understanding.

39. Resist to the negative feminine magnetism.

40. Do not argue.

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. Do not cultivate the conflict.

42. Watch her "from the outside" (without identification) trying to grasp her feelings.

43. Be silent, listen to her.

44. Be distant to give wings to the mystery.

45. Do not let appear what goes by into your inner.

46. Train her gradually, rewarding her for good behavior (this is precisely the expression used by the feminist writer Karen Salmanshon, who literally and explicitly recommends women to train men as if they were dogs).

47. Let her lead the conversation.

48. Encourage her to talk about what she likes best.

49. Always agree, except when she wants to be contradicted.

50. Exalt her imagination.

51. Embody the principles of higher love.

52. Do not hesitate in your positions.

53. Treat her like a girl.

54. Play with the binary, the alternation of opposites.

55. Give her back responsibilities for her actions, silly little games, etc.

56. Do not speak in an appealing or supplicating tone but in a tone of command.

57. Perform small romantic rituals from time to time.

58. Be a mirror without giving it much openness.

59. Make her laugh rarely.

60. Points out your virtues when they manifest.

61. Alternates harshness with sweetness.

62. Alternates silence with brief speeches that stimulate and calm her.

63. Kiss her suddenly on the mouth.

64. Tell her from time to time that you love her (but not always).

65. Do not let yourself be possessed by a sense of inferiority in relation to other men.

66. Agree to her erroneous behavioral tendencies and stimulates it, pushing her towards them (therefore, never try to suppress her. Any attempt to ban or repress feminine behavior provides immediate motives for effective victim protests. You will be labeled as cruel, dictator, oppressor, etc. Do not give reasons, just return the consequences. Have as personal goal the absolute adaptation to reality). For example: when she wants to hang out with an exaggerated neckline, says that the neckline is still too closed and that she should open more; when she is wearing a very short skirt, say it is long and that should be shorter. Go with her to the extreme limit to find out what kind of woman you really have by your side. If she refuses and goes back, is appropriate for a more serious commitment.
 
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I don't think you know what incel means
 
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I can't believe we read the same book.
 
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Where did you get all this from? It is interesting in the sense that it acknowledges female nature, but what can we do with this information? Many men here can't get a woman to give them the time of day.
 
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Or maybe.... Take away women's rights and stone cheaters to death. That ought to solve the problem
 
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SelfCrucified said:
Where did you get all this from? It is interesting in the sense that it acknowledges female nature, but what can we do with this information? Many men here can't get a woman to give them the time of day.
Nessahan Alita was a know redpill brazilian writer. OP must be a follower, those things are useless to us who can't even get women in the first place.
 
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SelfCrucified said:
Where did you get all this from? It is interesting in the sense that it acknowledges female nature, but what can we do with this information? Many men here can't get a woman to give them the time of day.
You must be sociable. If you get retracted, hatching egg in your house and waiting for some beautiful creature to fall from the sky with the vagina open above your head, certainly you will age grouchy. You must meet many women, be a real friend and gradually become more and more intimate. In order to make them crazy to give you sex, you have to go talk to them about themselves, understanding it more and more.

You should also absorb the advice that I will give in the next posts.
 
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nessahan alita said:
You should also absorb the advice that I will give in the next posts.
I am interested in reading more.
 
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nessahan alita said:
As long as there is no evidence of the contrary, try to see her as a wonderful woman of many partners

nessahan alita said:
Never believe in her fidelity

nessahan alita said:
Take away from your mind the idea that she is yours, especially if she says that she is faithful, that you are the best guy she has ever met, the only one, etc.
So, We must be cuck and allow our gf or wife to fuck other men ? Is this what you are trying to say by these sentences ?
 
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nessahan alita

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river_flow said:
So, We must be cuck and allow our gf or wife to fuck other men ? Is this what you are trying to say by these sentences ?
lmao I am saying to not be in love or attached in the case that "blow up a bomb", so to speak. In that case it will be affected only the one that is most passionate, attached and needy more of the other. I have seen people commit suicide for women, even entire countries have collapsed because of them. Believe me, you don't want that for you.
 
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Lol I think this is the wrong site to post such things it's best suited to those delusional bluepilled or redpilled places.

Thinking some magic formula with the right combination of words is gonna do the trick.

You may fool some people on here but you ain't fooled me.
 
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Loner94 said:
Lol I think this is the wrong site to post such things it's best suited to those delusional bluepilled or redpilled places.

Thinking some magic formula with the right combination of words is gonna do the trick.

You may fool some people on here but you ain't fooled me.
 
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