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RageFuel How to get over wasted adolescence

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I just can't get over the fact I didn't have normal, full adolescence with experiments and pleasure and friendships and love and sex. Fuck, no matter what I do I just can't get over this. How to accept this harsh reality that it's over, that I just have to go on with my miserable, lonely life? I just want to kill myself, this is torture. This is all I ever wanted:
 

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You never get over it. It stays with you until you die.
 
How old are you now.

Truthfully, you’ll never be as confident/content in life because you missed out on a youth filled with validation and experience, it’s the hard truth
 
How old are you now.

Truthfully, you’ll never be as confident/content in life because you missed out on a youth filled with validation and experience, it’s the hard truth

I'm 26, soon to be 27 :(
 
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I'm trying to find out.
 
You never get over it. It stays with you until you die.
I'm in my mid-thirties and this is true for me. I can't watch coming-of-age movies; they make we want to smash my own face in with a hammer.

"Remember your first kiss? The time you hung out with your friends all night long, trying weed for the first time? When you got drunk and went skinny dipping with that girl you had a crush on?"

:fire::rage::fire:
 
I'm in my mid-thirties and this is true for me. I can't watch coming-of-age movies; they make we want to smash my own face in with a hammer.

This, exactly. I want to kill myself. Death is better than this.
 
This, exactly. I want to kill myself. Death is better than this.
Hey, but at least you're not buried up to your neck in a desert being eaten alive by fire ants! (sarcasm)
 
You never get over it. It stays with you until you die.
I actually don't care about it all too much, I care more about giving myself an enjoyable future. I think some guys here obsess a little to much about what they missed out in their youth, the adult versions of chad and stacey have way more enjoyable lives than their teen counterparts.
 
you guys need to stop obsessing over this shit
lmao
 
you guys need to stop obsessing over this shit
lmao
You don't think it makes sense to feel broken over not being able to experience the type of coming of age life most others did?
 
You don't think it makes sense to feel broken over not being able to experience the type of coming of age life most others did?
no I don’t, I don’t condone self loathing and believe it’s stupid to compare yourself to another
 
As with validation and admiration from a femoid, nothing can replace or emulate it exactly, not even a line of coke or a bunch of money or a sports car etc, while these things are great, the joy they provide is never the same as adolecent love.

When I escortcel, I would sometimes pretend I am back in high school and banging some femoid (not my crush, just some of the femoids I went to school with). That helped a little bit.
 
I just can't get over the fact I didn't have normal, full adolescence with experiments and pleasure and friendships and love and sex. Fuck, no matter what I do I just can't get over this. How to accept this harsh reality that it's over, that I just have to go on with my miserable, lonely life? I just want to kill myself, this is torture. This is all I ever wanted:

I'm 26 and blocked out my childhood through booze and weed. Sometimes I still feel like shit when the memories come back but mostly I have it blocked out and it doesn't bother me. I don't give a fuck that it cuts down my lifespan. I don't plan on making it past 30 anyway. Last week I drank more than I ever did and blacked out so hard it almost killed me. I will be surprised and pissed off if I wake up at age 30.
 
This, exactly. I want to kill myself. Death is better than this.
having incel friends helps a lot, even if theyre bluepilled. hanging around normies and chads is major suifuel, especially when theyre talking about their "lays" which i know are 90% exaggerated bs, but even hearing about them successfully finding dates on tinder immediately puts me in a bad mood
 
you guys need to stop obsessing over this shit
lmao

The media and merely walking outside reminds us of this daily.
 
Thinking about my shitty youth makes me even more depressed, its an endless cycle
 
find teenage gf and live your second adolescencr
 
You cannot "get over" it. But you can maneuver around it (I am probably going to get screeched down for saying this). Consider all the other things you will never experience:
  • Growing up as a millionaire
  • Your adolescense during the dating golden age of the 50s/60s
  • Being born post-immortality
  • Growing up in any period when women were property
  • Growing up as a female in the modern west.
There are tons of people who don't get to experience these things. Most will never experience any combination of more than one of these things. Yes, this is all a bit of mental gymnastics but would you rather live with your current torment on 100% full blast?
 

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