How to break out of learned helplessness

[Pikacel]

I can rot for months years even before lifting a finger to try and fix a problem

This shit is just a slow death, I’m not progressing at all in life

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Only a girlfriend will heal you

 

[milkist]

I can rot for months years even before lifting a finger to try and fix a problem

This shit is just a slow death, I’m not progressing at all in life

1. Find copes outside of foids, you will never get a girlfriend but you can get male friends
2. Try to hang out with said male friends, do activities with them, whatever
3. For your problems, why don’t you do anything? Don’t care about them/don’t find them important enough? Convince yourself they are important and will improve your life, laziness? Try to set small goals that are timed. Like “at 10:30 I will review it,” and at 11 “I won’t eat until I finish this”
4. Clean up your room, makes you feel more productive
5. Get friends, this is so important I can’t stress this enough, maybe talk to a family member but social interaction will do something

 

[Pikacel]

1. Find copes outside of foids, you will never get a girlfriend but you can get male friends
2. Try to hang out with said male friends, do activities with them, whatever
3. For your problems, why don’t you do anything? Don’t care about them/don’t find them important enough? Convince yourself they are important and will improve your life, laziness? Try to set small goals that are timed. Like “at 10:30 I will review it,” and at 11 “I won’t eat until I finish this”
4. Clean up your room, makes you feel more productive
5. Get friends, this is so important I can’t stress this enough, maybe talk to a family member but social interaction will do something

I don’t care about women this is a general problem tbh

 

[milkist]

I don’t care about women this is a general problem tbh

Well the other stuff

 

[Pikacel]

Well the other stuff

I’ll try to convince myself that I can do stuff

Even if I lack a track record of accomplishing anything

 

[Pikacel]

5. Get friends, this is so important I can’t stress this enough, maybe talk to a family member but social interaction will do something

Haven’t been out in 2 years o.o

 

[rcnfive]

Only a girlfriend will heal you

pussy* there is no 'friend' component to a foid, they are immoral creatures