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Serious How to become "normal"(masculine, assertive,...) as a non-NT

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I am not talking about things like confidence and humour that come with being socially and sexually successful in the first place. but i met a blackpill currycel (NT but he is a manlet) but he is quite masculine and assertive and as a result fits in very well
i feel like my reintegration into society is more successful when i "mask" by emulating things normies do,like using popular culture(tiktok etc) phrases and references and posturing and walking like a normie man would. i also consciuosly keep my mouth sealed and try not to smile and this has actually helped me a lot i would say. earlier people used to joke about me being gay, feminine, emotional, agreeable and juvenile but ever since i did this at my new job-not anymore. also i try to heavily filter what i say, and that helps me not make a fool of myself

i would say if you smile less, women think higher of you. and if you speak less, but speak very precisely, people respect you more. another tip is to have something in one of your hands, so you dont have to stand awkwardly. if youre talking to someone,try to shift the conversation to a place where you can lean up against a wall or object. if everything else fails, try to get the person to walk and talk with you-this way you dont stand like a weirdo freak, and your eye contact and emotional mannerisms dont sperg out, or at least the person youre talking with wont see it as he/shes looking ahead

the last thing is dont be a good person. your morals and values dont belong in the modern world. i found that when i ignored people and the worse i treated people, the more respect i was given. before i used to be very accomodating and helpful. i am only a genuinely good bro to my 1(one) close friend
 
obviously please post any of your helpful tips that have helped you integrate
 
You can't. I've been trying but people see right through you for the autist you are.
 
I hope you get better at it, oractice makes perfect. Maybe you could join a community of Neurodivergent people who could help you with that or support you.
 
You can't. I've been trying but people see right through you for the autist you are.
i recently came across a mentalcel who said he does masking and that made me research what it was, it helped me do the same, it works to an extent and is documented. it is very important especially in the workplace
 
i recently came across a mentalcel who said he does masking and that made me research what it was, it helped me do the same, it works to an extent and is documented. it is very important especially in the workplace
Yep I do that but they always see though it.
 
I am not talking about things like confidence and humour that come with being socially and sexually successful in the first place. but i met a blackpill currycel (NT but he is a manlet) but he is quite masculine and assertive and as a result fits in very well
i feel like my reintegration into society is more successful when i "mask" by emulating things normies do,like using popular culture(tiktok etc) phrases and references and posturing and walking like a normie man would. i also consciuosly keep my mouth sealed and try not to smile and this has actually helped me a lot i would say. earlier people used to joke about me being gay, feminine, emotional, agreeable and juvenile but ever since i did this at my new job-not anymore. also i try to heavily filter what i say, and that helps me not make a fool of myself

i would say if you smile less, women think higher of you. and if you speak less, but speak very precisely, people respect you more. another tip is to have something in one of your hands, so you dont have to stand awkwardly. if youre talking to someone,try to shift the conversation to a place where you can lean up against a wall or object. if everything else fails, try to get the person to walk and talk with you-this way you dont stand like a weirdo freak, and your eye contact and emotional mannerisms dont sperg out, or at least the person youre talking with wont see it as he/shes looking ahead

the last thing is dont be a good person. your morals and values dont belong in the modern world. i found that when i ignored people and the worse i treated people, the more respect i was given. before i used to be very accomodating and helpful. i am only a genuinely good bro to my 1(one) close friend
Inject Testosterone and pump iron.

It will change your posture, your walk, and your demeanor (assertiveness etc.).
 
"How do i become normal?"

Said no normal person ever.
 
Fuck masking, what's the point in being friends with people that don't like the real you?
I'm with you in spirit, but the goal would be to hold on to your job, not get fired, or bullied/mobbed, ostracized. It's not about wanting others to like you, more about minimizing how much others hate you just to try and get by in some sort of peace.
 
obviously please post any of your helpful tips that have helped you integrate
I, for example, always look straight and serious when walking, as if ignoring people (without extremes) especially to foids, pass from them.
 

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