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i’m too shy
 
I'm rather extremely love shy, than socially anxious.
 
I don't leave my house
 
Not bad. I only get anxious when kids are acting like retards.
 
It took me 30 minutes to reply to this thread because of anxiety
 
I used to have agoraphobia, going outside wasn't even an option. It has eased and now I can wage, but I hate soyciety so much that I still don't leave the house for any other reason. Even groceries are always delivered.
 
I used to have agoraphobia, going outside wasn't even an option. It has eased and now I can wage, but I hate soyciety so much that I still don't leave the house for any other reason. Even groceries are always delivered.
Brutal... Do u have Friends?
 
I hate even just bringing out the trash because there might be other people outside looking at me
 
Most interactions make me high-pitched and stammering.
 
I don't feel anxiety anymore. I'm just very awkward and really hate interacting with people, especially if they try to small talk. But it's not anxiety I've had it in the past this is just social incompetence, though I don't really believe it to be a bad thing. If I had a wife and kids I wouldn't care to interact with anyone anyways.
 
I don't feel anxiety anymore. I'm just very awkward and really hate interacting with people, especially if they try to small talk. But it's not anxiety I've had it in the past this is just social incompetence, though I don't really believe it to be a bad thing. If I had a wife and kids I wouldn't care to interact with anyone anyways.
I have social incompetence
 
Yeah my apartment is a mess with empty food packagings, amazon boxes and takeout orders.
Can you tale a photo of your apartament and send by DM? Curiosity
 
Can you tale a photo of your apartament and send by DM? Curiosity
No because you can see my adress on the amazon boxes and I cba to censor all of them
 
Its always been really bad. In my workplace its insufferable for me, I work with all women, my social awkwardness is very apparent, I literally freeze in silence most of the time, I only speak when spoken to.

Its even worse around people in authority or people with self confidence, I literally sit in silence, afraid to even say hello. This makes for a very uncomfortable environment as I'm too shy to even speak, I stare into my work laptop to try to conceal my awkwardness but there's no escaping it when you work in an enclosed office environment surrounded by self assured confident women.
 
Pretty bad. The only thing that eases it is if I know the person I'm talking to really well or if it's a group setting and I know at least one of the people in that group really well.
 
It's fine. There's always this level of detachment I have between me and others outside, since I don't consider us to be of the same species—they are human whilst I am something else. I do find myself becoming increasingly paranoid of others though, as if I'm ready for anyone to spontaneously assault me. I feel this overwhelming urge to be prepared for that situation, and because of it, I can't really trust or let my guard down around anyone.
 
Pretty bad. The only thing that eases it is if I know the person I'm talking to really well or if it's a group setting and I know at least one of the people in that group really well.
Brutal, I used to be the same way. Looking back, I think it was just because the way I thought differed so much from normgroids that anyone who I interacted with may as well have been from a different time-period. I likely still am that way, it's just that I no longer have friends, and that when I talk to humans, I constantly feel like I'm talking to a different species altogether.
 
Brutal, I used to be the same way. Looking back, I think it was just because the way I thought differed so much from normgroids that anyone who I interacted with may as well have been from a different time-period. I likely still am that way, it's just that I no longer have friends, and that when I talk to humans, I constantly feel like I'm talking to a different species altogether.
I can relate to that. I almost feel like an alien compared to most people. Their basic social skills that they don't even think about are completely foreign to me
 
guess i am naturally i can't fathom cold approaching foids or even like guys to do stuff or whatever
 
Im just anxious in general
If I wasnt as physically weak/framecel I doubt I would be as shy

When your like me your pretty much under threat 24/7 so you cant be comfortable
 
I have no social anxiety anymore because i know shits gonna go wrong and I’m gonna be seen as a disgusting subhuman either way
 
I literally shake when I'm sitting in a public area.
 
Very bad, but I think I’ve improved since HS.
 
My social anxiety is unironically debilitating; my capability to interact with others properly is severely diminished, and I am fearful of any social interactions, especially ones that are rather novel. This is even worse when it comes to any interaction with a member of the opposite sex, as I find that to be extremely difficult, exacerbated by the knowledge of women's perception of me. Honestly, it is one of the biggest impediments in my life, one that may very well be an insurmountable one; the damage to my social faculties is simply far too great at this point, rendering me as no better than an extraterrestrial in the social landscape.
 
people thought i was deaf
 
I have to take atarax and wellbutrin to feel normal at big gatherings and public transports
 
i have social anxiety
In hs it was much worse
 

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