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You know, since I’ve been on this forum, I’ve realized something. So many men here have either never tried or got rejected like three times at best and just stopped trying.

I can understand why. I’m a stubborn motherfucker, so I have 120+ rejections under my belt, and I know that it is indeed over unless I make big money.

So guys, how many times have you been rejected? Because IMO, you need to be rejected a lot to actually be BP for real. I believe the majority of guys here pretending to be fully BP will stop believing in the blackpill the day a woman shows interest in them.

I know that even if tomorrow a 10/10 Stacy of any race falls madly in love with me, treats me like a king, and so on, I will still be blackpilled. Just because you win the lottery jackpot doesn't mean all those years of losing meant nothing. You still know the game is rigged and you just got lucky.
 
Just destroy any self respect you have left by getting rejected by 100 women and reaffirming what you instinctually knew theory
 
I have been rejected 4 times during high school, even recently, at my university. I don't wanna humiliate myself anymore.
 
Getting called ugly for no reason while minding my business in school is enough rejections, walking by and having girl look at you weird is enough of rejections.
 
Am a truecel u don't have to do anything for them to be disgusted by u.
 
Just destroy any self respect you have left by getting rejected by 100 women and reaffirming what you instinctually knew theory
It's not about destroying self respect , it's about shuttingdown that bluepilled MF inside you who make you think there is still hope.

Once that guy is dead, you can move on with your life and actually live your life on your own rules, no women will ever have power over you ever.

Chads get the same path i think over time, the only differences is that he understand that because he have unlimited acess to women, so he isn't attached to them, even if i think most chads are bluepilled , the one who think about it understand what i just wrote, as much gengis khan understood that women where just here to take his seed after war time, i dont think that guy ever once thought to himself " OMG I WILL HAVE A GIRLFRIEND AND SHE WILL BE IN LOVE WITH ME AND LIVE WILL BE BEAUTIFUL " lmao
 
Just submit yourself to more humiliation (even though you're being called ugly before saying a word) bro
 
10 from my memory
 
You know, since I’ve been on this forum, I’ve realized something. So many men here have either never tried or got rejected like three times at best and just stopped trying.

I can understand why. I’m a stubborn motherfucker, so I have 120+ rejections under my belt, and I know that it is indeed over unless I make big money.

So guys, how many times have you been rejected? Because IMO, you need to be rejected a lot to actually be BP for real. I believe the majority of guys here pretending to be fully BP will stop believing in the blackpill the day a woman shows interest in them.

I know that even if tomorrow a 10/10 Stacy of any race falls madly in love with me, treats me like a king, and so on, I will still be blackpilled. Just because you win the lottery jackpot doesn't mean all those years of losing meant nothing. You still know the game is rigged and you just got lucky.
yea ive been rejected by at least 100plus women both irl and online kek but after a while u stop trying as its pointless
 
Stopped at around 10 or so. Getting rejected evokes a visceral pain in me and I simply don't have the need to be turned down again.
 
Once that guy is dead, you can move on with your life and actually live your life on your own rules, no women will ever have power over you ever
Good point I suppose
 
You know, since I’ve been on this forum, I’ve realized something. So many men here have either never tried or got rejected like three times at best and just stopped trying.

I can understand why. I’m a stubborn motherfucker, so I have 120+ rejections under my belt, and I know that it is indeed over unless I make big money.

So guys, how many times have you been rejected? Because IMO, you need to be rejected a lot to actually be BP for real. I believe the majority of guys here pretending to be fully BP will stop believing in the blackpill the day a woman shows interest in them.

I know that even if tomorrow a 10/10 Stacy of any race falls madly in love with me, treats me like a king, and so on, I will still be blackpilled. Just because you win the lottery jackpot doesn't mean all those years of losing meant nothing. You still know the game is rigged and you just got lucky.
all of them. All of them. There are like 4 billion foids on the planet and so far no foid would want to have sex with me ever..
 
You know, since I’ve been on this forum, I’ve realized something. So many men here have either never tried or got rejected like three times at best and just stopped trying.

I can understand why. I’m a stubborn motherfucker, so I have 120+ rejections under my belt, and I know that it is indeed over unless I make big money.

So guys, how many times have you been rejected? Because IMO, you need to be rejected a lot to actually be BP for real. I believe the majority of guys here pretending to be fully BP will stop believing in the blackpill the day a woman shows interest in them.

I know that even if tomorrow a 10/10 Stacy of any race falls madly in love with me, treats me like a king, and so on, I will still be blackpilled. Just because you win the lottery jackpot doesn't mean all those years of losing meant nothing. You still know the game is rigged and you just got lucky.
Not too many rejected me directly due to me asking, around 8 at most. However, they would switch seats when i sat next to them or skip classes when assigned to be in the same lab group as me.
 
I got rejected once, I have never had the opportunity to ask any women... No one talks to me and so how am I supposed to ask a girl out? The one time a girl talked to me she asked me to walk to the shops with her, we walked and talked and I thought she was flirting, asking about each others lives. We get there I buy her a drink and nervously with my heart pounding ask if she wants to be my girlfriend. She then has a look of amazement and then bursts out in laughter. She then goes and tells everyone I asked her out and I then get bullied for it for thinking a sub-5 like me would even have a chance to get with a girl, she wasn't even a particularly pretty or wealthy girl, she was pretty much trailer trash,, so much so that she dropped out in yr. 11 and I've heard stories of her walking around barefoot and being a general junkie. I hate people. Never again.
 
Not too many rejected me directly due to me asking, around 8 at most. However, they would switch seats when i sat next to them or skip classes when assigned to be in the same lab group as me.
The teacher would move people next to me as a punishment, "Please sir!" is what even the boys would cry out...
 
I got rejected once, I have never had the opportunity to ask any women... No one talks to me and so how am I supposed to ask a girl out? The one time a girl talked to me she asked me to walk to the shops with her, we walked and talked and I thought she was flirting, asking about each others lives. We get there I buy her a drink and nervously with my heart pounding ask if she wants to be my girlfriend. She then has a look of amazement and then bursts out in laughter. She then goes and tells everyone I asked her out and I then get bullied for it for thinking a sub-5 like me would even have a chance to get with a girl, she wasn't even a particularly pretty or wealthy girl, she was pretty much trailer trash,, so much so that she dropped out in yr. 11 and I've heard stories of her walking around barefoot and being a general junkie. I hate people. Never again.
It's brutal that she made fun of you that way man , we all know chad would have had a 90% winrate in the same situation ( 10% if she is already being railed by another chad she do not want to loose )

But as a sub-5 asking a girl to be your girlfriend like that is just suicide in disguise
 
I got rejected once, I have never had the opportunity to ask any women... No one talks to me and so how am I supposed to ask a girl out? The one time a girl talked to me she asked me to walk to the shops with her, we walked and talked and I thought she was flirting, asking about each others lives. We get there I buy her a drink and nervously with my heart pounding ask if she wants to be my girlfriend. She then has a look of amazement and then bursts out in laughter. She then goes and tells everyone I asked her out and I then get bullied for it for thinking a sub-5 like me would even have a chance to get with a girl, she wasn't even a particularly pretty or wealthy girl, she was pretty much trailer trash,, so much so that she dropped out in yr. 11 and I've heard stories of her walking around barefoot and being a general junkie. I hate people. Never again.
Brutal
 
It's brutal that she made fun of you that way man , we all know chad would have had a 90% winrate in the same situation ( 10% if she is already being railed by another chad she do not want to loose )

But as a sub-5 asking a girl to be your girlfriend like that is just suicide in disguise
yeah... It was brutal, well it was fine until it was spread around the school and used as ammo against me... Jeeze, I always wondered why they wouldn't leave me alone about it, I was a loner who had no social skills and they expected me not to fall in love over a convsersation, and then to ask properly, I still don't know exactly what I should've done in that situation (apart from just not ask her out at all of course)
 
I have PTSD from that occasion, whenever anyone would say something cryptic to me (like "I know your secret" for example) I would get into a fight or flight response thinking they're talking about that event. Its obviously not as bad as someone who watched his friends die, its more of a mild PTSD, bad dreams about it and the aforementioned paranoia over it.
 
I have PTSD from that occasion, whenever anyone would say something cryptic to me (like "I know your secret" for example) I would get into a fight or flight response thinking they're talking about that event
I know this won't help much, but it's not your fault. Don't be hard on yourself
 
4 times between middle and high school.

It is kind of very fucking hard having anyone to ask out when all the girls you see either hate you or are disgusted by you or both.

Though, the few times I have asked girls out, not only was I brutally rejected, I was also humiliated and emasculated when they then got together with two of my at the time best friends.


I quickly realized that they actually weren't my friends at all, but it took 2 more years of humiliations for me to realize and stop being afraid of being alone and I cut them off once and for all. Now I'm alone but I am marginally better.

Point is, girls obliterated my self esteem through bullying, brutal rejections and subsequent emasculation enough, I am afraid of it happening again, and I'm afraid of my own thoughts that might arise after such a thing. Not that I see any girls these days, and not that any girl ever even noticed my existence.

People are different and they have different experiences with girls and tackle rejection in different ways. It's good that you're stubborn like that, but at the same time to me it's understandable that an apparent majority of us don't want to go through the humiliation ritual again.
 
I know this won't help much, but it's not your fault. Don't be hard on yourself
Thanks bro, I'm sure plenty here have similar experiences, such is our lot in life in this clown world
 
Though, the few times I have asked girls out, not only was I brutally rejected, I was also humiliated and emasculated when they then got together with two of my at the time best friends.
I quickly realized that they actually weren't my friends at all, but it took 2 more years of humiliations for me to realize and stop being afraid of being alone and I cut them off once and for all. Now I'm alone but I am marginally better.
Brutal, when I realized none of my friends were friends at all, I just went behind one of the buildings where no one could see me and read books. No one cared that I wasn't around so that basically confirmed that I was doing the right thing by isolating.
 
Brutal, when I realized none of my friends were friends at all, I just went behind one of the buildings where no one could see me and read books. No one cared that I wasn't around so that basically confirmed that I was doing the right thing by isolating.
If I had to recount the whole story it'd be wayyy too brutal.

Nowadays no one bothers to check up on me
 
PUA mentality walking around with 120+ rejections, you’re just affirming your inceldom.
 
PUA mentality walking around with 120+ rejections, you’re just affirming your inceldom.
Honestly if you have asked out over 10 girls and no dice you're just a clown.
 
I am about 40 so hmmm. I think I have been rejected like 100 times IRL and 300 times in dating websites. :feelsbadman:
 
Honestly if you have asked out over 10 girls and no dice you're just a clown.
Lol yeah

I only asked out women I believe 3 times online
Got rejected

And I tried tinder, got 0 matches after an entire week jfl
 
Lol yeah

I only asked out women I believe 3 times online
Got rejected

And I tried tinder, got 0 matches after an entire week jfl
All my experiences with women have just been a humiliation ritual... I knew it was over when I looked in the mirror after that age where being young and cute could make up for looks
 
In real life? Zero. I would rather die than aak a woman out.
 
1 time directly and 3 times indirectly
 
For dudes racking up at least 10 rejections, are you just cold approaching? I would never ask a girl out in person due to my short height and autist speech patterns.
 
I am too hesitant to do it.
 
every foid who hasn't walked up to me offering hole is considered a rejection. so many.
 

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